My boyfriend is 20 years older than me, and my boyfriend is 20 years older than me, should I marry h

Updated on psychology 2024-04-07
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, the father-lover complex is serious!!

    Find a younger one, wait for him to hang up, you are not a widow yet???

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You are too dependent on him, in fact, there is nothing, sometimes women need to take care of themselves like this, but you don't forget, ill-fitting shoes will never be worn soon, his worries are not superfluous, he just told you not to leave him in another way, but are you willing to leave him? If you don't leave him, are you willing to live like this for the rest of your life? You have both, when you are ambiguous, you have to give yourself a way back, it is one thing to be good, and it is not easy to help each other until you are old.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He's right. The distance of time is very long.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I also want to find someone who is much bigger than me, and I really want to envy you

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't want to say more, just one sentence: sometimes, letting go is also a kind of love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The paternal complex is serious. Maybe what you have is not love, but family affection.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Feel like you're not looking for a boyfriend but a father?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you truly love each other, age is not a big issue. It is common for big men and little women to live in harmony, and usually big men will pity and be considerate of his little women.

    In terms of men's and women's menstrual cycles, women usually age quickly. Even the age difference can be harmonious.

    You're going to have to deal with interference from outside of you

    1. The attitude of parents, especially the attitude of your parents;

    2. Whether his family can accept you, whether there will be resistance and cause pressure to you;

    3. The gossip of the people around you, especially whether you can stand it.

    If you are determined, these distractions can be overcome. If, on the other hand, you are shaken or even withdrawn from distractions, it is difficult to predict the outcome.

    Judging from the situation you described, he is a good person and deserves your love. If you think calmly for a while, you should also think more about his shortcomings. Combine and balance his strengths and weaknesses to make the final choice.

    Be brave enough to love, for your own happiness. Don't be distracted by the outside world!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you enjoy your life in the moment, marry him. You're an adult, you're mature in thought, and you won't have too many communication problems in terms of age.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    As long as you think it's good, don't think about age, it's all a stubble. But there is love. And be careful not to get scammed. Marriage registration must be required and a marriage certificate is required.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you get married, it's okay to take half of it and not to marry, or to marry half of it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Being good to you is the most important, age is not the biggest problem, it is not easy for a woman to find someone who truly loves her in her life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If married! Have a name (registration) and all your boyfriend's passbooks! Otherwise you will have nothing.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the two of you are true love, then don't hesitate.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The actual situation is that the age difference is not small, but if you really love each other to the bones, then this sentence should be answered, age is not a gap, height is not a distance, can you and your him love to this point?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello, this is your own choice, as long as you feel happy, but I think you should know more about this person's character, and what kind of person his family is, whether such a person is worth dating.

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