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Anonymous users2024-02-07I have also encountered this kind of problem, and I am working on it Even more serious than your boyfriend Shyness as a character trait, it is gradually formed in the combination of human innate factors and acquired environment. People who are naturally shy are in the rare minority and are more likely to be influenced by the patterns of early parental education and the surrounding environment. Shyness can be overcome by improving interpersonal relationships and cultivating self-confidence.
Psychologists have come up with 10 specific, effective ways to overcome shyness.
1) Speaking boldly is half the success of interpersonal relationships; 2) Start with clothing.
3) Smile and greet - greet acquaintances and strangers; 4) Take the initiative to help others;
5) Take the initiative to praise others;
6) Intentional chance encounters - encounters, that is, taking the initiative to participate in outdoor social activities;
7) Borrowing things to speak, such as books, literary and artistic works, film and television, etc.; 8) Take the initiative to put forward topics;
9) Eliminate shyness in imagination;
10) Role-playing, that is, confronting people who you imagine that make you timid and shy.
Through the constant practice of these methods, psychologists believe that any degree of shyness will naturally be reduced, or even eliminated.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Dizzy, but you can rest assured, because he won't pull a girl's hand casually in the future Don't take the initiative too much, spoil him more so that he knows that he is actually very capable, and can attract a beauty like you Hehe, I don't know if it's okay, because I'm not very experienced!
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Go on more dates and go out for a walk.
You take the initiative to hold his hand every time, and after a long time, if you deliberately don't hold his hand, he will take the initiative to hold your hand.
Otherwise he is not used to it, hehe!1
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Anonymous users2024-02-04。。I've seen a lot of boys like this, and it's usually after a breakup that he realizes that he needs to let go.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03I have experience with this!
Say to him from time to time: Blush! Try a few more times and your boyfriend will think you're "bullying" him hehe! Soon, he'll get used to it!!
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Hehe, your boyfriend is very interesting! How so? Looks like it needs more training, doesn't it?
Haha, the more I think about it, the funnier it gets! Actually, it's nothing. It's his psychological problem.
Go see a psychiatrist. You have to take advantage of it! There are few boys like this, and they are all perverted men.
I wish you success in your transformation.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01How much is your boyfriend's Q number? (Don't worry, I'm a man).
You're all holding hands, and I didn't say anything as soon as I met her.
People also say I'm innocent and look like 18, but 26 and 18 years old.
The outlook on life is fundamentally different, so I think it's just mental endurance.
problems. Don't worry, you try to let him understand you, it's just natural, if you want to see the effect, hold his hand in a crowded place.
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Anonymous users2024-01-31It is not necessary to overcome it.
When the time comes, she feels like you're a part of herself.
He'll take your hand.
And does it matter if you don't hold hands?
There is a possibility that you pretend to know, and you may want to hold hands in your heart. )
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Anonymous users2024-01-30Engage with him more and talk to him more!
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Anonymous users2024-01-29Tell him it's not a big deal to hold hands.
Or threaten him to stop being so simple.
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Anonymous users2024-01-28He respects you so much!
But there's such a thing as shyness.
He will slowly overcome it himself.
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Anonymous users2024-01-27Hehe. It would be nice to have a little longer.
Nothing.
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Anonymous users2024-01-26You can't have a man like that.
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Anonymous users2024-01-25If only I had been like this for him in the future.
The more you do this, the more you can't take the initiative to contact.,If he really likes you.,Even if it's a game, he won't be like this when you're just in love.。 >>>More
In fact, men need their own space more than women, they have a strong sense of self-esteem, some men don't want their beloved women to worry about themselves, they want to carry their own, which is understandable. In fact, their psychological pressure is sometimes greater than that of us women, of course, in the eyes of two people who love each other, they should be honest and shared, but this is just a woman's opinion, a man may be drunk and will lean on your back to you to confide in his inner sorrow, but in ordinary times he will smile at you, say to you It's okay, okay, don't think too much, etc., I think if you love your boyfriend, you should care about him from the details and don't interrogate him, oh, ask too much, he may be annoyed, Maybe one day at some point, he will find that there is a you who has been silently supporting him by his side.
First of all, you're wrong, he already has a life of his own, you can't bother them. Then, you should tell that man to get out of here, what else do you have to do with a useless man, no job, no money, you want to save face, don't you have no one to ask for, just rely on him. Mainly because he's your first man, so it's like this, I can understand this, but now it's like this, you better live your own life, that kind of man doesn't care about him, don't contact him in the future, just treat it as if you haven't known him, and you have a dream. >>>More
Maybe you want him to be gentle, considerate, and care for you a little more. Of course, men also need to learn to be gentle. It's not good if a man is always coquettish. It's going to be less masculine. >>>More
This is a disease, it has to be treated, if you think that his snoring is too serious and you can't sleep at night, then you should take him to the hospital to see what is going on**.