The child is not considerate of her parents, how to make her sensible

Show him some good books. It's not a simple book for children, some really good books, and it's not necessarily a world classic, it's just a book with a human touch.

I recommend you a copy of "Xia Luo's Web", a best-selling book in the United States for 50 years. I'm an adult, and I'm moved when I read it.

Parents should lead by example, and parents are the best role models for their children. Teaching by example is always better than teaching.

It is impossible for a child to truly experience his or her parents before they become parents. Before they become parents, all we can do is make them feel how we do it, and teach them by example.

After all, it's a child, and it's not sensible.

When you grow up, you'll get better.

From an early age influence is very important, education.

Inexperienced floated by, and parents really didn't have to worry about it.

Please forgive me for saying that children are educated by their parents, as the so-called is: not to teach the father's fault.

There is also a saying: children don't care, it's all up to their parents.

Many times we don't know how to be parents and don't understand education, because our parents can't be parents, and we Chinese have lost too much of the essence and traditions of our own nation.

Let's take a look at Mr. Chen Dahui's public welfare forum, many families with problems, after reading these forums, they have been changed, and it is best to watch them together as a family.

May the family be harmonious and physically and mentally healthy.

I think the best thing to do is to lead by example.

There is no way to do this, children are like that when they are young, they do whatever they are at any age, and why do they think so much. When the time comes, you will know.

Educating children has always been a kind of self-education for parents, and there is a saying in the reader: "What kind of person do you want your child to become, first of all, what kind of person do you want to be". Deep in thought.

What really shapes a child's personality and knowledge structure is often "outside of school", which is the so-called amateur theory. The real difference between people is more in their spare time. If you want to shape a person, you have to give what kind of educational "content" and "product".

In the age of the internet, parents should create some happy interfaces for their children in addition to games and screens. Many parents will let their children learn this from elementary school, but how many parents have asked their children's opinions? Children in early childhood have strong cognitive abilities and may have a lot of feelings about everything, but as parents, you should guide your children to learn what they are good at in time.

It is impossible to demand perfection from a child. The child's energy is not that great, but it is not worth the candle. Children's talents and strengths need to be discovered by parents or teachers, and parents cannot ask children to be proficient in everything.

Children's growth and education are very important.

As parents, they are their best first teachers, so they can avoid deficiencies in education and make up for them in time. Parents should read and understand more on the road of their children's growth and better guide their children on the path that suits them. Many people say that they have low self-esteem, which is also related to their parents.

Love is what children need most, and it needs to be taught by word and deed! Discipline is principled, but not too strict. Replace blows with words of encouragement.

Think about the education you most wanted your parents to give you when you were a child, and it might make you know how to educate your children better! Turn the tone of education into a way of speaking, and ask your child why they are doing it first, rather than scolding them arbitrarily. Be realistic and don't stop talking.

Don't give your child a bad hat because of a mistake. Like: How can you be so stupid!

Don't threaten, such as disobeying, do whatever you want. Don't kidnap emotionally or morally. For example, it is difficult for us to be parents.

Your mother took you there hard and tired. Why are you so inconsiderate and ignorant? Don't compare other people's children because you are not someone else's mother.

Parents should care more for their children in life, and let their children participate in things when they encounter them, so that children can better care about their parents and are willing to share a lot of things for their parents.

Parents should set an example for their children to develop a good habit in life, and they should also accompany their children to read more with their children, and let their children do more housework with their parents.

In fact, it is to let children experience the difficulties in life and the hard work of parents from an early age, and when they grow up in such an environment, children will be more considerate and sensible.

<> want sensible and serious children, they can't do without the education of parents. We must lead by example from an early age, be self-disciplined and self-reliant, influence children with actions, and give children correct guidance and demonstration. Don't hesitate to praise your child for doing specific things that are worthy of praise, and when your child is considerate and sensible, don't just say:

Baby is fantastic! "For such words, the child only knows that her parents are praising her for doing a good job, and they are very happy that Shen Sen himself is like this! But what exactly is going well?

The baby doesn't know either. In fact, mom and dad can praise their babies better and let them know what they are doing well.

For example, when your child first starts to help wash the dishes, don't be afraid of being unclean, or get a whole body, but give encouragement: "Ah, the baby has learned to wash the dishes, and he can help his mother share the filial piety of the family."

Praise the child to praise the specific details, such as she is sensible, because what you have done you think is sensible, then the parents will take out this matter, carefully praise her, like you can praise her You have learned to share food with children; You can take the initiative to help your mother with housework, and your mother is so touched that you share the housework for your mother; Mom didn't expect you to think of this; You're really a role model for me to learn from, etc.

In addition to praising children, Sou Xin can also take children out for a walk, such as parks, zoos, and children communicate more closely, talk more about theoretical knowledge, and let children understand the difficulties of life in the process of growing up.

Give children more encouragement, let them have confidence, everything will be considered with you, and will not do it against you, will not be rebellious, usually communicate more with children, communicate more, solve any problems with children, don't think that you are an adult, everything you say is right, let children listen to you, children themselves have independent thoughts, they have their own thinking, but also to respect their children who are not born sensible, and there are no born bad children. It is all by our love that we influence children, and we are the ones who directly affect children's lives.

Parents also need to encourage their children more in their daily life, after the child disturbs the lack of children to do the wrong thing in Sakura, first ask the child the specific reason for the defense, and then criticize the child, and communicate more with the child to make the child very sensible.

First of all, you must express your love in daily life, and secondly, you should let your child do something within your ability, and you can also help your parents to do some family trouble, so that you can cultivate your child's hands-on ability, and make your child considerate and sensible.

Every parent hopes that their child will become a caring little padded jacket, able to understand parents, mature and sensible, and will not cause trouble to parents in ordinary times, and will not be unreasonable. But such a child seems to be someone else's child forever, and only exists in ideals. In fact, it is not difficult to want a caring and sensible child, what matters is how parents should educate.

1. If parents always feel that other people's children are intimate and sensible, they should observe the parents of other people's children, see what other people's children's education methods are, think about why other people's children are more obedient, and often reflect on their own education methods.

2. In the process of educating children, parents must be more considerate of their children and do not give their children too heavy burden and psychological pressure. Nowadays, many children are sent to various interest classes by their parents on weekends when they are young, and children are also forced to shuttle between various training classes, without their own time, they will become very autistic and depressed in the long run, and they are at a loss.

3. Don't put too much psychological pressure on your child. Every parent hopes that their children will become excellent and be able to get ahead, but parents should not expect too much in the process of educating their children, eat one bite at a time, and walk step by step, so that children can grow up freely, do not put psychological pressure on children, and children will become more and more sensible and gradually understand their parents.

4. In the education of parents, the mother plays a very big role, because in the child's heart, the mother has always been a gentle, firm and powerful child, and she likes to tell her mother about anything. Therefore, as a mother, you must care for and care for your children more, so that your children can feel the warmth of the family.

Thoughtfulness and sensibility are mutual, the parents should be more considerate of the child, understand the child's heart, and the child can be considerate of the parent in turn. If parents are always scolding their children and do not understand them, their children will become more and more rebellious.

I think parents need to make their children understand politeness, and they must let their children do some household chores within their ability.

Parents often reason with their children, understand their children's ideas, let their children do things, and let their children become independent, so that they can make their children become considerate.

Parents should educate their children well, and secondly, they should also let their children understand that many things are not what they imagined, and there will be many differences.

First of all, parents should lead by example, treat their parents like this in ordinary times, and let go in ordinary life, so that children have good self-care skills, and also express more feelings with children, so that children can see the hard work of parents, but also respect children more, so that children can have their own private space, so that children can respect their parents equally.

In daily life, parents can let their children do some housework appropriately, so that children have a sense of empathy, and can also let children complete some things independently, so that children know that these things are not particularly easy to do, and slowly children will be very considerate and sensible.

As the saying goes, at the beginning of a person, nature is good, and some children will have different lives under different family education conditions, but some sensible children often need to carry too many burdens. Many people want to know, are sensible children happy? Here's how it came to you.

First of all, I think that sensible children are generally happier, but sometimes there is a certain amount of pressure. Sensible children will do things that do not match their age, because sensible people will always think from the perspective of the other party, sometimes they will care very much about the feelings of others, and at the same time dare not show their emotions in front of outsiders, so their spirit will be more depressed, which is not conducive to the physical and mental health and all-round development of children. Secondly, I found that sensible children are more precocious.

Under normal circumstances, parents will have two or more children, and the sensible child is the largest, they know how to be humble, understand the hard work of their parents, and also know how to take care of their younger siblings and help their parents reduce pressure. But sometimes I was wronged, and I didn't dare to tell my parents, so I could only bear it silently, so I think sensible children are not all happy. Finally, I believe that children are not born to be sensible, and parents should learn to understand and respect their children, and think from their children's point of view.

Let your child learn to unleash his nature and learn to live peacefully with others. If the child makes a mistake, do not blindly criticize and blame, which will make the child have an inferiority complex, therefore, it is necessary to educate the child to be an independent self and broad-minded. All in all, parents as the first teacher of their children, the role played is crucial, not to say that sensible children must be happy, parents should start from the mental health problems of children, from the essence, expose the essence of things, must not be arbitrary, otherwise it will affect the child's life, the above is a personal understanding, I hope to help you.

If parents want to make their children more sensible, we can choose to tell their children that some of their wrong behaviors, as long as the child can do some wrong things, then the child is more sensible. Parents don't always have to let their children help them do a lot of things, this kind of behavior is completely unnecessary and will make the child very tired.

Parents need to let their children know that if they always have some quarrels with their parents, or if they always disobey their parents, it will also make parents feel very uncomfortable, and they should tell their children. If you can correct some of your mistakes, then your parents will love you more, and your parents will care about you more. In this way, children can realize that their parents love them very much, and that they will care about them.

When parents communicate with their children, they must use the right way to let their children know that their parents love them very much.

If the child is too sensible, it is not a good thing, the child is too sensible, then the child may lose his innocence than people of the same age, and it is easy to cause the child to feel very unhappy at this time. Most parents want their children to be more sensible, but if the child is too sensible, it will make the child live a careful life and make the child less happy.

As parents, we can let our children reduce the occurrence of some mistakes, but we must not let our children understand too early, otherwise it will make children feel very uncomfortable. I hope all parents will pay attention to this situation. In fact, we must educate our children in the right way, so that children can feel the care of their parents, and we cannot let children be overly sensible, but we cannot condone children's wrong behaviors.