What is it like to have a boyfriend who likes to be reasonable?

What is it like to have a boyfriend who likes to be reasonable? Before the content begins, I'd like to digress because someone recently left me a message: after reading our emotional content, I applied some teaching methods to my boyfriend, but it wasn't too big to meet my boyfriend's needs.

This reaction is not very helpful for my feelings. So here I want to talk about it. Actually, there is nothing more important in the world than this truth:

If we find problems and solve them, we can do well.

The same applies to emotional issues. Many girls are emotionally depressed. In many cases, this is the result of women's inherent thinking.

In fact, the situation and experience of each person is different about how to deal with it and whether it is effective after **. We are also merciful and wise. However, there are some well-established, factual and logical directions of thought that we have given here, and I have always emphasized that emotional management and maintenance is a long-term work.

As I said before, it's not that you immediately say what you want. What kind of results you can get. Therefore, how to use emotional thinking concretely, and how to make good use of it, still needs to learn more on your own.

My boyfriend always likes to be honest with me, doesn't he love me? Should we break up? Well, let's not say more.

Actually, after writing so many articles, everyone should also know by now that men and women think from different angles from the point of view of doing things. I wrote in my last article about Why Are Men Reluctant to Admit Their Mistakes? information.

On this subject, let's go ahead and say, why do men always like to be rational?

Before this issue, I went to the internet to collect a lot of information, but I didn't find what I really needed. When we listen to other people's answers to this question, the answers are usually: men are more rational, men have a relatively straight way of thinking, and so on.

Actually, things like this are quite plausible and often general. I'm also not going to get into why men are more straightforward and why men are more rational. In fact, this does not provide any substantial guidance for our emotional life, because what you need is a mindset to understand it and learn to use it.

Most people can immediately understand that this is not a bunch of empty truths.

Men like reason, and everyone has more or less problems that are not considered fault. That is why many couples often quarrel over trivial things when they are together, and the real reason why quarrels occur is actually due to some serious thinking about the girl herself.

In short, a girl thinks that the boy doesn't care enough about herself or the patient, so she keeps twisting and hoping that the boy will coax her. But boys are always entangled in the fact that they are not wrong, and they have to talk about a lot of great truths in order to prove them right. Or is it to prove that your quarrel this time is inexplicable and unreasonable.

It's just that I feel like I'll be by my boyfriend every minute, especially when two people have a conflict, the other party keeps telling you some big truths, which makes people very disgusted.

I think it's going to be a speechless experience, because sometimes things like falling in love can't be explained clearly by reasoning, but your boyfriend is making a big deal with you all day long, which may make people particularly speechless, but the feeling that you can't get angry when you want to.

I think it's a rather helpless experience, because when he encounters anything, especially when there are some contradictions, he always justifies himself by reasoning, and sometimes it's annoying.

Then it's still very painful, because this boyfriend will reason with you at any time, and you will feel very bored and helpless.

I think it's a very disappointing experience, because two people are talking about love together, not being able to reason, two people should tolerate each other, respect each other, and accommodate each other, and the truth generally doesn't work between couples.

If you have a boyfriend who is particularly reasonable, then most of the time you may think that he is very rational and can give you pertinent advice when solving problems, but there are times when you think he is very straight.

Don't take care of your feelings.

Having a boyfriend who is particularly reasonable will make you feel very rational in your daily lifeBecause he loves to be reasonable, so he will not deal with some things emotionally, and can give you advice from a more pertinent perspective, at this time you often feel that he is very rational and very reliable, for example, when you are very anxious about a certain thing, or in the face of a dilemma of a choice, do not know how to choose, at this time you ask your boyfriend, maybe he will give you a clearer idea, because he is an outsider, and he is very rational, His advice to you is more transparent.

But this kind of boyfriend can also give you a stereotype,That is, no matter what things in life,He will reason with you to solve,Every time you mention something,,He began to talk about his big truth,I think if there is this kind of boyfriend for me, it will make me feel very stereotypical and boring,To be honest,Don't many girls understand those big truths? After all, the truth is told by people, we haven't listened to it since we were young, and we don't necessarily have to tell me through your mouth, if you like to be reasonable at any time in life, then I will think that you are very serious, and the whole person is very boring, like to mechanize life speech, I don't think this is the essence of life, at least for a person like me who loves to joke, this is a very bad experience.

Secondly, there is a boyfriend who loves to be reasonable, when the girlfriend is angry, such a boyfriend can not comfort the girl, but will make the girl feel very helpless. Because sometimes girls are angry and don't want to fight for who is right and who is wrong, but just want boys to coax themselves, which has a lot to do with the personality characteristics and physiological structure between boys and girls, etc., often women are very emotional, and at some times are also very sensitive, if a girl is making noise or is in a cold war with you, in fact, what she wants more is that you can coax her, rather than reason with her there, talk about who is right and who is wrong in this question, such a rational judgment, Truth be told, there are some moments when it doesn't apply, especially for girls.

Having such a boyfriend may annoy you a lot, because your boyfriend will reason with you, he will not coax you, he will not pamper you, he will only reason with you.

Personally, I think that having a boyfriend who is particularly reasonable is an experience that wants to blow him up every minute. A lot of times I don't want to talk to him, and I feel like it's too wasteful to talk to him.

I think it's a very tiring experience because no girl wants to listen to her boyfriend reason, and it will be very annoying for the girl.

What if you lose each other and win the whole world, living with such a person, you will feel that these big truths are always in your ears, and you are tired of listening to them, and you are still in love.

Everything is done in a proper manner, with rules and regulations, and it is reasonable if you understand it or not, which makes people angry and funny.

Because girls are more emotional, they don't like to be reasonable, while boys are very rational, they like to be reasonable. So if you meet a boyfriend who likes to be reasonable, you will find him annoying, but you have to find him particularly rational and attractive.

Then you may not have the opportunity to cheat, a reasonable boyfriend is reasonable in everything, there are advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is that the rules are clear, and the disadvantage is that you love to be careful.

is very reasonable, and the three views are not correct, and getting along for a long time will make you doubt yourself that the three views collapse. Very reasonable, but the three views depend very positively, depending on the size of the matter, whether you can tolerate it or not. In short, don't wronged yourself for others, unless that person is really worth it, that is, whenever or what situation suddenly asks you, you can happily say yes.

has a boyfriend who loves to be reasonable, will it feel like the father is reasoning with his daughter, haha.

Isn't it reasonable for a father to educate his children? Let's not do it with you, let's be reasonable, that's the experience.

Having a boyfriend who is particularly reasonable is the same as listening to the teacher's lectures in class when I was in school. It's all theoretical knowledge, and the big truths are one after another.

I think it's going to be a very frustrating experience, and it's going to be annoying over time.

As a lesbian, what if you want to find someone who is very empathetic and? It's also reasonable. I think he is very happy to be able to understand and tolerate each other. Also very proud.

1. He attaches great importance to your relationship.

It is precisely because your boyfriend attaches great importance to the relationship between you that he will reason with you, and he is afraid that you will eventually break up and end the relationship because of every quarrel. They will reason with you, tell you that you should sit and not do it, and then tell yourself that it should be good and that it shouldn't be good, they just understand right and wrong. If your boyfriend likes to reason with you, it's because he values the relationship between you.

2. I want to explain to you why I quarreled with you.

If your boyfriend likes to quarrel and reason with you, it is because he wants to explain to you why you are arguing, so that both of you can understand each other, because of what quarrel, the boyfriend who loves you will reason with you, because he wants to maintain the relationship between you, so he will reason with you. He is afraid that you will continue to make trouble unreasonably, so he tells you what you should do and what you shouldn't do, so he will reason with you.

3. I want you to make each other understand that you are wrong.

He has already thought that he wants you to understand in each other's hearts that you are wrong, and then the next time you quarrel, you will not quarrel because of this matter, and you will not hurt your feelings because of this matter, so he will reason with you, it is because he wants to maintain this relationship between you, so that you can understand each other's mistakes, so that you will not misunderstand each other.

First, it has the power to show weakness. But showing weakness does not mean weakness, sometimes a man needs a sense of security in marriage, so where does a man's sense of security come from? First of all, women's sense of security comes from being loved, cared for, and valued.

And men's sense of security is the sense of accomplishment that can protect women, and the satisfaction of being trusted by women. At this time, in the process of communication, how to show weakness has become very simple, even if you are coquettish, or when you are arguing, you cry aggrievedly, do not speak, and do not have any aggressive behavior, it will make the other party soften. For example, when your husband comes home and finds that you haven't cooked, and then you quarrel, then you can tell him very calmly

My dear, I'm so sad to quarrel with you. Then look at him and lower his head, don't do anything, if you have tears in your eyes at this time, or if you can bite your lips, the effect is the best, 99% of men can't resist, the general result is that he won't tell you any more truth and words, come and hug you, the process of hugging you is a process of calming emotions.

Boyfriends like to talk about big truths, which means that boyfriends have ideas, men are broad, and avoid some empty things.

For your boyfriend's personality who loves to talk big things, go with the flow, but don't forget to remind you that if you get along like this, your boyfriend will slowly get rid of the habit of talking big and be more practical.

There is nothing wrong with loving to talk about big truths, which means that this person has a certain pursuit, but if he just stays at talking and does not land, or is out of touch with reality at all, then it is meaningless.

Therefore, when the boyfriend talks about the big truth, guide him to focus on the reality in time, and closely combine what he thinks and says with the reality, so that the boyfriend will gradually become more practical when he speaks, realize that what he says is more empty, and the time to talk about the big truth will gradually become less.

For example, when a boyfriend talks about a certain "insight", insert a few practical situations in time to make him realize that he thinks too ideally, and the matter is too one-sided. Once or twice may not be of much use, but after a long time, the other party will gradually change.

When spurring your boyfriend like this, don't pay attention to the heat, don't be too radical every time you exhort your boyfriend to talk about the truth, take your time and don't provoke the other party to feel that it hurts your self-esteem, so you will have a resistance mentality, but you can't change this problem, even if you know that you have something wrong.

When you meet such a boyfriend, you should be a loyal listener with vivid expressions, as if you were fascinated by her speech, so that you will give him a sense of accomplishment and satisfy her vanity, and on the other hand, prepare tea for him, and give him a glass of water to drink after the lecture is finished. If you don't like such a boyfriend, then say goodbye to him, to be honest, it's very annoying for a person to croak in his ears a lot.