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I sympathize with you, because I am also contradictory now, facing the pressure of life, I am also very entangled, many things are not willing to be considered, and I dare not think about it, but real life is real, many things are not something you can escape, no matter you escape to **, those troublesome things are still fresh in front of you.
That's why we're conflicting, so at this time, I think the most important thing is to try to calm your heart, your heart is peaceful, no matter what kind of torture and pain you go through, I think it will pass, I think, there is nothing more powerful than this.
Perhaps, when you have endured this painful journey and usher in a sunny moment, when you look back, you will feel that those things are nothing, because you have stood in a higher position!
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Open your eyes and close your eyes to yourself, and you can do it by telling yourself not to think too much.
Learn to accept that doubt is useless in life.
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When you're deliberately pursuing what is called "going with the flow", you're already caught up in it. So you're asking a question: what does it mean to go with the flow?
"Go with the flow" does not mean that things are left unfolding, nor does it mean that they will avoid answering or retreating when faced with problems, and of course it is not asking for trouble.
To ask this question, first of all, we need to understand ourselves, understand our own personality and temperament, this is the premise, for example, you are a very hesitant person, then at the same time ask yourself whether you are very strong? If you are so strong, then try to learn more, change yourself, and make yourself decisive; If you are not strong, then avoid the problem, change your direction, and go other ways. In the same way, if you are a very positive and decisive person, do you often annoy yourself and regret doing wrong things?
If yes, then think twice before doing something, and if not, then continue to face it bravely.
What do you mean by that? That is to say, to truly go with the flow, one is to do things according to the law of development of things themselves, and the other is to do things according to one's own character, which is also the idea of "conforming to nature" in our ancient Chinese thought.
It may not solve your specific problem, but it may provide you with some inspiration to solve the problem.
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All things are relative, this is normal, black and white, right and wrong, good and evil, etc., as long as things are two opposite sides, it cannot be avoided. It's not a problem to think too much, and I'm not afraid that you're wrong, I'm afraid that you won't think about anything, and if you think too much, the truth will be understood more, and there will be no burden. Or really don't think about anything, simply, and have no burden.
These are two opposite sides, which is interesting. Don't rush, savor slowly.
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Because of God's guidance, you will know that the truth is in the midst of contradictions.
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The world itself is full of contradictions, and people live in contradictions. Life is all about playing games with contradictions. If there is no contradiction, I think this life is no longer a real life.
We also enjoy this and that process in the process of resolving all kinds of contradictions, so it is natural for you to think too much.
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The soldiers will block the water and cover the earth.
There is a definite contradiction.
It depends on whether you are a product of reason or emotion.
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If you can't figure it out, then you can only expect someone to figure it out, which is what I think is going with the flow.
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Contradictions are man-made, not natural. Marxism needs contradictions, and with contradictions, it can kill people anytime and anywhere.
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No matter how beautiful the imagination is, if you don't work hard, without confidence and perseverance, it will never become a reality. It's a cliché. Think a lot and show that you are not old yet.
It's just that people just think about it a lot of the time. As time passed, I stopped thinking about it. In the end, it returns to the ordinary.
How can a non-martyr husband have an extraordinary life? It was Cao Cao's 'martyr in his twilight years'.
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There is no heart and no desire, and if there is a heart, there is desire, and who can say that there is no desire?
If there is suffering, there is leakage, since you can't change the reality, why not try to accept the truth?
Ask who is in charge of things in the world, mortals from the heart, ask how many confidants in the world, only yourself.
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The five major contradictions of life. The first is the potato wheel of social contradictions. There are many conflicts when studying or working.
But in order to survive, they have to coexist. The second is the conflict between husband and wife, due to different personalities and backgrounds, there will be differences in the family, resulting in conflicts that affect the mood. The third is his own choice of contradictions, sometimes unable to have the best of both worlds, self-contradiction.
The fourth is a contradiction between children, and with the development of the times, the concept has changed. There is a generation gap between parents and children, and sometimes there are conflicts. The fifth is the contradiction between forging ahead and guarding, and the dilemma is difficult.
Hand covered.
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Contradictory life, face it rationally.
Life is a collection of contradictions, some things we obviously don't like, but we have to do it, because we have a burden on our shoulders; Some people are obviously bored in their hearts, but they still have to smile and cater to it, because we all have to survive.
We are often exhausted by such and such contradictions, but we also have to live strongly, because most of the time we do not live for ourselves, but for the responsibility in our hearts.
In fact, the process of life is a kind of entanglement, uneasiness, hesitation, confusion, and contradiction.
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Living, living, feeling as if a lot of things are no longer important, I remember someone saying that people are lonely all their lives, especially those who stand at the pinnacle of success. For some reason, I came to Guangdong, which I may not have dared to think of in my life, originally I was from the Northeast, a city that I thought was the most humane and the happiest. Came to Guangdong, (of course, it's not that Guangdong is bad, maybe it's more rational!)
When you encounter too many times again and again, the more lonely you will become, that is to say, why are there those who are close to Zhu and those who are close to ink and those who are black. I know very well, and this has also made me who I am now, sometimes thinking that it is good to be lonely, and I will enjoy solitude. I don't know if it's pathological.
Paradoxically, I came here to do a job that I really like, as a language teacher, I come into contact with children every day, especially the innocence of children, so that I seem to be a light for me in this city that has no warmth. Sometimes I feel that my salary really can't support me. Thousands of dollars, and all kinds of pressure from life, I really don't want to do it, but as soon as I see the children, my heart is stable again.
Contradictory bar! It's like I wanted to take a good break, eat potato chips, eat my favorite snacks, and watch my favorite movie, but I just interrupted my desire to let go of my thoughts, and I will get fat! The mood is gone!
Contradictory? There are too many contradictions. I originally planned to be a person who didn't care about myself, but when I saw some people suffering from human suffering, I couldn't help but care and take pity on them.
Sometimes you will find yourself in a life of contradictions. Hey, I don't know how many times I sighed when I persuaded others not to sigh.
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