Why does my beloved girl refuse to go out on a date with me all the time?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't do that, give up early, and in life, we have to learn to give up, and we have to learn to give up the whole forest for the sake of a tree, and that's maybe another kind of cherishing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Uh......Q: Didn't you ask her if she had a boyfriend? Maybe she already has a boyfriend She should ask clearly Maybe she wants to be friends with you first After all, I don't know it yet Didn't you say a few words yourself, didn't you say a few words It seems impossible to go out to dinner with you alone so early So I want to take you to a crowded place with friends For example, to sing Don't be in a hurry Take your time and talk about it after understanding Come on!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then let's not make an appointment for now, and contact for the time being.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe someone has a boyfriend. Or I just don't like you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, because girls love and hate clearly, they are very active with the people they like, and they are unwilling to say a word to each other about the people they don't like, and they are not willing to stay in the same space with each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, because girls are fierce and rational, they can't accept intimate contact with people they don't like, so they won't date this kind of person.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, because girls are more emotional and can't accept intimate contact with people they don't like, they won't date this kind of person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When girls pursue themselves in the face of people they don't like, some people will refuse, and some people will not refuse, this situation cannot be generalized, because people are different, and everyone has their own ideas and choices. Some girls will have a clear attitude when they ask out of someone they don't like, tell the other party that they don't like each other, and then explicitly refuse him. There are also some girls who will feel that if they reject each other directly, it will be more tactful, and of course, there are a small number of girls who don't want to hurt each other's name and agree to each other's dates, but in fact, they are just greedy for a small bargain.

    In my personal opinion, if you don't like the other person, you should explicitly reject the other person. Otherwise, the accumulation of time will only make the other party have the illusion that girls also like him, which will lead to more misunderstandings. Let me explain to you why girls refuse each other's dates when they are faced with people they don't like.

    First of all, if you don't like the other person, you should make it clear. A girl is a creature that thinks long-term, and if the girl doesn't like the boy in her heart, and she doesn't have any intimacy with him in the future.

    will directly reject the other party. <>

    Another point is because if the girl does not reject the other party directly, but expresses it too tactfully, it will only make the other party's misunderstanding deeper, thinking that the girl also likes the boy. This strengthens the idea that boys pursue girls. In the end, it will only hurt the boy more deeply, so the girl will often reject the other party directly.

    Don't leave any chance for the other party, which is also for the sake of both parties, as far as possible not to consume the feelings of both parties, but also to save a lot of unnecessary trouble in the future. <>

    In the relationship, girls must dare to love and hate, do not hesitate. Because once you hesitate, you are giving the other party hope, and after giving the other party hope, in the end it will have a bad impact if you hurt the other party. Therefore, when girls face the date proposed by the person they don't like, they should be generous and refuse each other directly, simply and clearly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, because it wasn't interesting at the time, and then someone asked him to go out to play, so of course he went, and then he didn't have to pay any feelings, just eat and chat with him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No. Because girls generally don't have too much contact with people they don't like, they feel that they don't have anything in common with people they don't like. They only go out on dates with the people they like.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A girl will go on a date with someone she doesn't like, because she can eat and drink, and someone can accompany her to the movies, and a full range of services, and she will not lose anything, of course girls will be willing to go.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I won't date someone I don't like. Girls are emotional, and they won't pursue people they don't like, and they won't get closer to the relationship between the two, because she is not interested in this person at all.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Girls will date people they don't like. Some girls will choose to be with someone they like when they don't meet someone they like, in fact, the purpose is to enjoy the feeling of being loved, but he will never give his true feelings.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, because some girls also want to contact with people they don't like so much to see if they can cultivate feelings, to see if the other party is a potential stock, whether it is worth dating, if all of the above are satisfied, girls will also be willing to continue dating you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    For girls, they will definitely not date someone they don't like, because the two of them must have no topic, and they don't want to give the boy hope, so they will decisively refuse.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No, because girls are very disgusted with people they don't like, they don't want to have any contact with each other, and try their best to avoid him and avoid being in the same space as the other person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Some will refuse, some won't. The person who refuses is to say that he doesn't like you, so he refuses directly. The person who doesn't say no goes on a date with you, probably trying to get something out of you. For example, if you are in a particularly good financial situation, you may be willing to spend money for him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Girls are generally single-minded in their relationship and don't like two people at the same time, so girls generally don't date people they don't like, knowing that they don't like it, why would they go on a date with someone else? Dating is an act between lovers, and girls generally don't do that.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think a girl will go on a date with someone he doesn't like, because he doesn't want to waste his feelings on dating, dating, and putting his mood on work, so he doesn't have the heart to date someone he doesn't like.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think it's impossible for a girl to go on a date if she doesn't like the other person, because even if she goes on a date with the other person, there's nothing to talk about, so most of the time she won't go.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Generally speaking, a girl will not date someone she likes, and if she doesn't want to be with him, she won't give him any chance, let alone date.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No. Girls don't date people they don't like, girls are very honest and don't develop much for people they don't like, and they don't waste time on people they don't like.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, if it will, it will be a last resort, because girls are very reserved, not to mention dating the person you like will think twice, and you will never like it

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's also normal for a girl to date someone she doesn't like, it's possible that he just thinks that the relationship between the two is not bad, and it's okay to meet together, but this is likely to make the other party think more.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Personally, I don't think women date people they don't like, they only date boys they are interested in.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't think so, because girls actually feel when they are with the person they like, which is more meaningful.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Girls don't go on dates with people they don't like because they feel like they're wasting their time and energy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This is rare, and if so, the girl must have other goals and ideas.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Girls don't date people they don't like because they don't feel like there's any point in doing so.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    1. Maybe the woman already has a boyfriend.

    In today's society, unlike the feudal era in ancient times, a woman may already have a boyfriend, which does not mean that she has to draw a line with all the opposite sex, and is not even allowed to communicate with them, normal chatting is still okay.

    2. People have two faces, and they are different in front of people and in private.

    Maybe this woman has two sides, in front of people and in private are completely different, chatting in private, she thinks that you are just chatting across the Internet, you don't know each other, so it doesn't matter how you talk, so you can show your truest side to you.

    But if you mention that you want to meet, she may want to protect her image, and she doesn't want anyone to know what she really looks like. Because once you meet, you become people you know in real life, so at this time women will definitely not agree to meet, in order to protect their image.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because she will feel that you don't like her, and you don't want to pursue her, otherwise why don't you do it all the time. If you're still not sure what she thinks, just make an appointment to test her obedience. Of course, in such a situation, you don't need to find out that you want to chase her, because girls are ashamed to face direct courtship, what you have to do is to ask her out and lead her into the rhythm of love.

    Women don't like to say yes directly, preferring to give hints and then acquiesce to your actions.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    In fact, girls also want to date each other, but they are very shy and introverted, and they don't know how to get along with boys face-to-face, and they are very nervous and afraid, so they will subconsciously resist.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Personally, I'd suggest you find another way to have fun, because this girl just uses you as a pastime when she's bored.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's because girls are more shy when they first meet, so they prefer to chat all the time, but they don't want to go out on dates, because they are more relaxed at home, and they feel very restrained and shy when they go out.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If the girl is willing to chat with you, but is not willing to date you, then it is likely that the girl is very shy, and if she meets you, she will feel very embarrassed and embarrassed, so this situation will occur.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It may be that you are developing too fast and he has not been able to accept it, or it may be that he just wants to chat with you to relieve his boredom, but he does not want to be boyfriend and girlfriend with you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I think a girl is willing to talk to you, maybe just because she is embarrassed to reject you, but if she is not willing to date you, she is very clear that she is rejecting you, don't pester anymore.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The girl's willingness to chat with you shows that she doesn't hate you, as for the reluctance to date you, maybe it's still testing you, don't be too anxious, maybe the time hasn't come yet.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    On the one hand, it may be because she is shy, she doesn't need to meet to chat on the phone, she doesn't need to look you directly into the eyes, she is only suitable for text communication, and after meeting, she will be very nervous, and in some cases, it may be that she is hanging you and letting you be his spare tire.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I think on the one hand, it may be because she is shy, she doesn't need to meet to chat on the phone, she doesn't need to look you in the eye, she is only suitable for text communication, and after meeting, she will be very nervous, and in some cases, it may be that she is hanging you and letting you be his spare tire.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It can only be said that the relationship between you has not reached the point where she agrees to date you and is willing to chat with you, and it can only be said that she does not dislike you and is still investigating you further.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You may just be a spare tire for her, and she will only talk to you when she is bored, but she feels very ashamed to go out on a date with you.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Maybe the two of you are still in a state where friends and lovers are not full.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's hard to say about feelings, and it's even harder to say in the face of a relationship that chats all day long and rarely asks each other out, in fact, it's hard for us to guess in addition to knowing this kind of psychology. Everyone has different ideas, and situations like this are different from person to person.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Chatting with you just to pass the time, probably just out of politeness, I don't think this girl loves you at all.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It may be that he doesn't know you well enough, so he doesn't worry.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Maybe it's because your relationship is still not good enough and I don't want to meet you.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    With a lot of people online, she's hanging you.

    If you don't reply to your WeChat, you may not be so interested in you, and you may not want to see it and don't want to go back, and you will still maintain the relationship with you when you meet and take the initiative to chat, and I don't want to lose the relationship with you. Or that she doesn't want to offend you in reality, or she still wants to maintain a good relationship with you Wang Jing.

    I would like to say that if you have interesting ideas about her, you can ask her in advance why she is like this, and other people's can never be her own true thoughts. There are also Yu waiters, maybe she didn't notice this aspect at all, you think too much.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Summary. A girl's acceptance of a date may be motivated by politeness, curiosity, friendliness, seeking new experiences, or other reasons, and does not necessarily mean that she has a crush on you or a willingness to develop a relationship further. After accepting a date, a girl may refuse to continue the relationship if she finds that her interests do not match or that she doesn't feel like a good fit.

    Therefore, boys should not regard a girl's acceptance of dating as a clear expression of their affection for themselves, and need to better understand the girl's real thoughts and feelings during dating, follow the principles of mutual respect and understanding, and establish a healthy and mature interpersonal relationship.

    A girl's acceptance of a date may be motivated by politeness, curiosity, friendliness, seeking new experiences, or other reasons, and does not necessarily mean that she has a crush on you or a willingness to develop a relationship further. After a girl accepts a date, she may refuse to continue the relationship if she finds that her interests and hobbies do not match or feel inappropriate. Therefore, boys should not regard a girl's acceptance of dating as a clear expression of their affection for themselves, and need to better understand the girl's real thoughts and feelings during dating, follow the principles of mutual respect and understanding, and establish a healthy and mature interpersonal relationship.

    I confessed to her a few days ago, saying that I didn't like me, and she agreed to ask her out for too long, can this show that she still likes me in her heart?

    Although she agrees to your date, it does not necessarily mean that she has feelings for you. Maybe she's just trying to be friends with you, or she's accepted your invitation out of politeness. You can better understand her thoughts and feelings on a date, respect her decisions, and build a healthy and mature relationship.

    At the same time, the congratulatory letter also needs to realize that even if she doesn't like you in the end, it doesn't mean that you don't have other beautiful opportunities and possibilities.

    So how am I going to rent it in the future? She sent her a red envy bag during the holidays, she didn't receive a red envelope, she replied that I don't want to send a pie to me, keep it for myself, she said that it is a rejection of me, this is not.

    So how am I going to rent it in the future? She sent her a red envy bag during the holidays, she didn't receive a red envelope, she replied that I don't want to send a party to me, keep it for myself, she said that she rejected me, and she didn't need to send a red envelope before she was sure.

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