When you were growing up, did you deny yourself?

I've been denying myself all the time because I always feel like I'm inferior to others. I don't have particularly powerful skills, I can't speak, I don't understand people, and I'm very boring.

That's how I came here, whether I was going to school or going to work, I felt like I couldn't do anything, but once I was satisfied with myself, I would fly with joy. That's a kind of unique way to grow yourself.

Yes, before the college entrance examination, I denied myself every day, and felt that I was under a lot of pressure, from my family and teachers. In the end, I collapsed, the college entrance examination was abnormal, and I didn't even get into three books, and then I repeated my studies for a year, and I slowly adjusted my mentality, and finally I was admitted to the university in the city I liked.

When my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, I denied myself for a while and felt that I was really bad, otherwise I wouldn't even be able to keep the person I liked. Fortunately, I met my current boyfriend, who gave me confidence again and made me start to believe in myself.

Sure, I denied it anyway, but I finally believed in myself

I used to be a fat man of more than 200 pounds, and at that time, including my parents, didn't want to pay attention to me, I really felt like a pig, and I was also desperate.

When my mother died, I thought that I was not good enough and not good enough to cause her to commit suicide.

When I didn't get into a key high school, I don't know why I felt like I wouldn't be able to get into college in the future, but I wasn't, and I don't know what I thought at the time.

I have been growing in denying myself, affirming myself, denying myself again, and affirming again.

It should be the time of the college entrance examination, I didn't pass the undergraduate line, and I was anxious to jump off the building, but fortunately, my boyfriend accompanied me, and later re-enrolled and was admitted to the university of my choice.

When I was in junior high school, I was ostracized by the boys in my class because I was too fat, and I thought about suicide at that time.

When I first joined the work, I was scolded by the leader every day, but fortunately, I have endured it now.

When I was in high school, I was one of the dozens in the bottom of the class in the exam, and I was stunned when I was in the twelfth place in my class. I feel like my brain is out of my control. How can it be so low?!

Heaven will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds and muscles, starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, and act chaotically", and temper and temper them, so as to "benefit from what they cannot", "learn wisdom from adversity, and refine virtue from suffering". Every life has its growth pains and growth process, and what we can do is to calmly accept every trauma, and then welcome the growth after each trauma.

Regret is a song that you can't finish singing for the rest of your life. A lot of things have been lost, and I am unwilling but unable to do anything; A lot of things are gone, like fireworks in front of a bridge that dissipates in the wind; Many people are lost, like raindrops falling into the vast ocean. The tricks of fate often catch us off guard, but it is precisely because of this unhappiness that we can be tempered into steel in regrets, and learn to be strong and relieved in regrets.

Because of regrets, it is more real, and because of regrets, life is more moving.

In fact, any life has its growth pains and growth processes, which are like seeds that will manifest themselves in later life, so that our lives will mature more and more in these many experiences. In fact, the maturation process of life cannot avoid struggle and sadness, but the beauty of life is also given shape and perfection by the world.

Growing up is that eventually you will find out that there is everyone in the world. When you are able to face them open-mindedly, have the power to control anger, and no longer want to forcibly change anyone, then it will be a new life for yourself. Take care of yourself, but do good deeds, and don't cross others.

As children, we imagined our future selves countless times, imagining glorious prospects. However, when we look back, do we feel that we have let down our childhood selves?

In the journey of life, we continue to grow and gradually form ourselves at different stages. In this process, we should learn to respect our past selves and not need to look at the present with past thinking. You also need to learn to respect who you are now and appreciate every stage of your growth.

In those years, we had dreams, curiosity and enthusiasm. As children, we often fantasize about what the future will look like and aspire to achieve something. However, as the years go by, we gradually realize the heaviness of reality, and we also leave joys, sorrows and sorrows on the road of growth.

Standing at the crossroads of life, we should understand that each stage of our self has its own unique values and experiences. We must learn to cherish these experiences and face our past, present and future selves with a tolerant and respectful heart. Only in this way can we know ourselves better.

Let's move forward bravely with our childhood selves and pursue our dreams with determination. We have to tell ourselves: despite all the twists and turns in life, we never give up and we keep trying.

We would like to thank our childhood selves for giving us the courage and strength to go further and further on the road ahead.

Life will not be smooth sailing, but we must learn to learn from setbacks and continue to grow. Let's embrace our past selves and our present selves, and let each other work together to face the challenges of the future. When we learn to respect and appreciate our own growth, we can truly feel the beauty of life.

Looking back, we will find that the former dreamer still shines in our hearts. We should cherish the original intention in our hearts and let it become the driving force for us to move forward.

Looking forward to the future, we must have firm faith and perseverance to move forward bravely. Let us use our childhood dreams to illuminate the future of the road to the silver road, and down-to-earth to realize those visions that once made our hearts surge. In this way, together with our childhood selves, we will become a better and more complete version of ourselves.

Conclusion: Let me join us together, respect the past self, live in the present, and look forward to a better future. Face every stage we go through with a heart of gratitude, respect, and tolerance. Be brave enough to pursue your dreams and never stop.

Your question is: how to keep trying to grow in the face of other people's negation, and keep persevering.

Obviously, your question is a bit winding. The analysis is as follows;

1. If everyone denies you, then you have to think about whether what you do really has a future, and if there is no future, why should you insist on it?

2. Some are against, some are in favor. So calm down, think carefully, and don't make a decision lightly. What kind of level is the opponent, and what kind of level is the one who is in favor?

If you want to set up a new type of start-up company in Shenzhen, you ask a farmer who has lived in Qinghai all his life, do you think you can get the answer you want?

3. Back to your question, assuming that what you are going to do is very future-oriented, then you will try to do it in the negation of others. Keep it up. Tell your family, friends, relatives, let everyone slowly support you, everyone has their own future, no one will be responsible for your future, only you are responsible for your own future.

Then, you should boldly insist on doing your own thing. Always insist, persist, persist. In the end, the future belongs to you and the winner belongs to you. Wish.

Be yourself in the case of others' negation, others and you are equal, others have no right to deny you, you have the right not to be denied, if you care about the denial of others, it means that you deny your own way of life.

Negation gives motivation, the inverse theorem, so it will always grow.

Born alone, alone, alone.

No one paved the way for you, the road was all made by itself, so why listen to other people's commands?