When you can t convince someone you think is stupid, does that mean you re stupid too?

No, because everyone has received a different education, and Luo Ji's way of thinking and understanding is also different, he may need time to digest, and it will be counterproductive to be too anxious.

Only reasonable people will be persuaded, and it has nothing to do with being stupid or not.

I don't think so. After all, there are two hardest things in the world.

One is to put money out of other people's pockets and into one's own pocket, and the other is to put one's own thoughts into other people's brains.

No matter how stupid a person is, he has his own thoughts, and it is normal that he cannot be convinced.

There is a way to persuade others, just like a salesman, to ask others to buy your product depends on whether others need it, and whether you need it depends on how you make him need it. If you can't convince the other party, it means that you are also lacking.

It should be considered that you have to be a little smarter than the other party, at least know how, but you don't convince the other party, indicating that there is a problem with eloquence and skill. So, sometimes skill is more important than knowledge.

It's so absolute! No matter how good a painter is, he is only good at one kind of painting, for example, if you ask Qi Baishi to paint oil paintings, it will definitely not work. In the same way, people have limitations, so don't try to convince everyone

Stupidity is relative, and it is not a standard used to measure people, and persuasion is manifested in eloquence and appeal. Second, convincing him on the basis that you think he is stupid is not going to help you in your work.

It's normal to have difficulty communicating with stupid people, after all, it's not on the same channel, but if you know that this person is stupid, and you waste time struggling with him back and forth, it means that you yourself are not smart, this kind of thing that wastes life and feelings, stupid people and fools will do.

People think, and if you don't convince someone, it means that he has his own thinking. Whether you are stupid or not is relative. I think only smart people are persuaded.

I can only say that each other's worldview is different. Besides, it's normal to not be able to convince a person, everyone has their own ideas, even twins, each has their own hobbies.

No, because there is an inherently difference in IQ, some people can go to it, while some people can only graduate from junior high school. Therefore, some people can understand it at one point, some people can understand it without clicking it, and some people can not understand it at all

I don't think so. Why do you have to be convinced? The world is inherently different, we just seek common ground while reserving differences, the world is not black and white, there is a reason for existence.

I've always felt that only stupid people try to convince people to ......

It depends on the situation, and it's acceptable for a good relationship to say that I'm stupid or stupid, because it's a simple joke between good friends, and if an unfamiliar person says this about me, then I will definitely go back.

I believe that everyone usually chats with good friends, and will also say that you are a pig, you are so stupid, etc., and I don't think there is anything unacceptable, besides, I am very stupid, I am a veritable road idiot, so the good friends around me all kinds of dislike me stupid, but every time I go out to play, they will still be very patient to help me when the route, and some of them will draw a route and take pictures to send to me, for fear that I will get lost. Haha, I love them so much.

Stupid and stupid people say that there must be different reactions, the person who loves me says casually, and the stranger says that I will directly "beat" her to death!

I don't know how to do it, after all, I'm a good young man with quality. Of course, I won't scold him, scolding people is a very uncivilized thing. Although he said I was stupid first, if I was thinking about him, wouldn't it mean that I was on the same level as him?

I am not on the same level as him, and how can a civilized person like me be as knowledgeable as him.

Of course, if it had been 10 years ago, I would have beaten him to the point that even his mother would have seen him like a ghost. At that time, he was young and energetic, and he was usually beaten up when he saw anyone who was not pleasing to his eyes. Not to mention that he dared to call me stupid, even if he was telling the truth, he didn't have to tell me.

Of course, this is certainly not true, this is obviously malicious slander, and I am going to sue him. Now that we are a society governed by the rule of law, we must learn to use the law to solve problems.

Of all the people in the world who say others are stupid, they are the most stupid. Such people are not only stupid but also self-righteous, and when they have a little cleverness, they think that all the people in the world are stupid. is also ashamed to publicize it everywhere, afraid that others will not know how smart he is to grandstand.

A true wise man never becomes a wise man by proclaiming his wisdom. They are through a lot of practice to make people see their wisdom. So that people will be subjugated by their wisdom, so that they will become a wise man.

And no wise person will say that others are stupid, on the contrary, they think that everyone is wise, but they just don't realize it. Their greatest pleasure is to help others discover their wisdom so that everyone can become wise. Instead of being mean and insulting others for being stupid, blank to disgust people and not being able to improve their own wisdom.

The words "stupid" and "stupid" are an intimate conversation for people with a good relationship, and if the relationship is not good, I think it is sarcastic to me, so we should be cautious and don't make anything bad because of a sentence.

When I was not sensible in junior high school, I was screwing people. Then when I grow up, I want to be more reserved because I want to beat him, but a lot of times I will only "hum" a sentence, because most of the time I should not be able to beat people

Anyway, you don't know each other, so let's be honest with you, in fact, I'm a little bit stupid, of course just a little. And then I add that I am a little sloppy in doing things, and occasionally lose three or four, and then there are not a few people who always say that I am stupid, t t T Under normal circumstances, I will directly go back and say that you are stupid, but sometimes I also feel that it is a little stupid, and when I can only snort coldly or pretend not to hear. But occasionally I screw people.,It's the kind that screws people with a scream.,Anyway, the first time I screwed someone, I screwed myself.。

At that time, in junior high school, I thought that beating people was not the effect of force, it was mutual, so people said that I couldn't say it, and then I would hurt myself if I hit someone, and then one night when my little friend taught me to screw people in **. "Pinch a little bit of flesh on your arm with two fingers, then make a circle," ......Just like that, my little friend heard a scream from the **, which was deafening. I do seem to have a bit of a stupidity =-= But after that I left the school, and the blue is better than the blue.

But I'm basically a boy, like my second year of junior high school tablemates, one hand is bruised. And then, for example, when I was in the third year of junior high school, I was at the same table, and whenever I raised my hand, I couldn't help but shrink to the side. Of course, I can't be blamed for this, and being able to do this has an indelible relationship with them calling me stupid.

But sometimes people who don't know me well say I'm stupid, and I will look at it directly and ignore it, because if I know you well, you will call me stupid, and my brain is eighty percent holes, hum.

When someone evaluates themselves like this, of course, the first impression is that they will go back, which is a primitive impulse of the human brain, a primitive response to external conditions, but now the brain has developed so well, and the control of one's emotions is not based on the previous standard.

Therefore, the second impression should be to refute yourself, that is, to justify yourself why you are not actually what others think, so this is the reaction of the second mind.

Of course, this also belongs to a primitive reaction, and the third reaction is to evaluate the previous reaction, that is, the third response of the brain is whether the two things done before are meaningful, or whether they have an impact on changing the current situation. For example, if the previous assessment makes sense for the second behavior, that is, if someone else has a real misunderstanding about themselves, and that person's explanation is necessary, then the second behavior will occur. But if the assessment is that the person is indeed a provocation to himself, and his reaction is reasonable at the time, the person will make the first reaction, that is, to go back or have an argument or quarrel with him, but such behavior is rare in contemporary society.

Therefore, in terms of the current reason, since the influence of emotions on people has been greatly enlarged and the control is extremely limited, in such a situation, you can either choose to evaluate the first two reactions, or choose not to pay attention to them. Of course, my experience in this area is that I choose not to pay attention to it, because someone once said that trying to change other people's minds is the most stupid behavior, and in order to prevent this kind of stupidity that you define yourself as your own, you should stop changing other people's opinions and thoughts.

Therefore, if there is no need to change, you must not change other people's views, this is a waste of experience and time for yourself, and other people's incomprehension of you is often your own uniqueness, and you will not feel that this is a kind of non-mainstream values, so it is a mistake, or what he points out is often your characteristics, so don't, because of this to refute or defend yourself. If this person is not worthy of refutation, if it is not worth justifying, you will look particularly funny in doing so.

Then think about whether your behavior is really stupid, why others say this, if it is really your own problem, then think about whether it is the problem and correct it.