Tell us about those college loves that ended without a problem?

<> I was a girl who fell in love late, because my family watched it more closely before high school, so I didn't have the opportunity to have a relationship with other boys, although there were people who liked it at the time, but I still refused. After going to college, my family also encouraged me to fall in love. Talk about a boyfriend and learn to care for others.

The first time I fell in love was in my sophomore year. I remember very well that the first time I went out to dinner, but we didn't have a good impression of each other, but in the next semester, we got in touch. Then we still ate together, and suddenly I felt that the other party was quite symbolic.

Tall and handsome, very manly. At this time, they both had a good impression of each other. In fact, men still care more about the appearance of girls.

Maybe it's because the first one has short hair, which is more like a tomboy. So he didn't have any feelings for me. But the second time we met, the hair had already grown.

Combing my braids, he actually said that I was wearing makeup. I don't have makeup, I just have long hair, which probably looks a lot gentler. Later, we often chatted and ate together.

Slowly I like each other more and more. It feels like he's my whole world. It is really in the eyes of a lover, and every time I see him laughing, I feel so beautiful and beautiful.

And when other girls look at him more, they will feel jealous. Travel with him, go to class with him, go to the cafeteria with him, everything you want to be with him. But when he was about to graduate, he said that the two of us had no job stability and his house was not secure.

So let's break up, he can't give me the happiness I want. Actually, I really didn't ask him how rich he was, how capable he was, or whether his house was settled. I just want him to be with me, to spend spring, summer, autumn and winter with me, and to grow old with me.

But he couldn't help me fulfill such a simple request. Maybe he's really tired from being with me. Then just let it go.

It should be the tail of farewell to youth. However, I don't hate him now, I just hope that in the years to come, he can work hard for his future and have a home of his own.

Talking about my college love, it's really a bitter tear. I had a college love, but the end result was nothing, which made me not dare to give feelings easily, two people really have to consider a lot of things if they want to be together for a long time, and there are very few college loves that can last. Without further ado, I'll talk about my college love.

My college love appeared in my sophomore year, and I was very yearning for love at that time, but my major was science and engineering, and the female students in science and engineering were not my favorite type (in fact, none of them were beautiful), so I was also helpless. However, finally after a semester, a girl changed majors and entered my class, and I was deeply attracted to her when I first met her, she is not a particularly beautiful type, but she is very temperamental, and she is also very tall, and her personality is also very cheerful and lively, I am very glad to have met her. In the days that followed, I always paid attention to her every move, often understood her dynamics, chatted with her, and if she needed any help, I was the first to rush up to help her, and then we were together naturally, at that time, I studied with her every day, ran at night together, and did what she loved to do together.

But the good times didn't last long, only a year later, she proposed to break up with me, the reason was that she liked another person, and she told me that the reason why I was with me was because I was too active at that time, she was a little moved, so she agreed to be with me, but in the end I found out that it was not like it at all, and she was a northern girl, I was a southern boy, many things are different, and it may be difficult to come together in the future, hearing this, I just want to cry without tears, but who is to blame for this, She was right, many times maybe I was self-inflicted, and then I thought about it that we were indeed inappropriate, although I liked her very much, but we were destined to have no fate.

This is my college love, my hard college love. <>

<> remember that it was when I was in school, I was in the same class with him, because we were studying electronics, so there were few boys, so at that time boys were the sweets of the class, and there were other classes to find a boyfriend in our class, the first semester passed, but he didn't find a girlfriend, of course, I don't have a boyfriend, I look ugly and no one chases, my personality is more introverted, naturally single, and then I had the opportunity to enter the student union with him, he has something to find me, hehe, Later, I learned that he was also embarrassed to take the initiative to talk to me because he was too shy, and he just heard that I was going to enter the student union, and he signed up to participate, and then we were naturally together, going to class together and getting out of class, going to the cafeteria to line up to eat, fetching water together, and going shopping on weekends and holidays, visiting the small scenery near the school, playing games on the Internet together, anyway, in addition to going home on vacation, I was basically inseparable at school, so I spent a few years happily, and I still remember the first time he kissed me. We were arguing, suddenly he hugged me and kissed me, I was stunned, I didn't react, the instinctive reaction was to push him away, but he hugged more and more tightly, and then forgot to resist, the words were embarrassed to say, think about the feelings at that time were really pure and pure, which is like the current college students who open a house and live together, and pregnant, now the child matures too early, but this phenomenon is a minority, college students still have a lot of good students, but unfortunately he went to the internship later, maybe we don't adapt to each other's non-existence, I quarrel every day, and I quarrel when I hit **, and then I heard that there is a girl in their factory who is very good to him, and he has also explained it to me, but I don't believe it, and in the end we don't even seem to have broken up, and slowly there is no contact, and my beautiful first love ended without a problem!

When I was in college, my class president and my roommate broke up half a year after graduation. They started with the blessings of the people, but in the end they died without a problem.

Due to professional reasons, there were only three girls and more than forty boys in my class. I still remember the night of my freshman year, the class leader found all the boys in our class in advance, and then secretly told me about his secret surprise with another girl. The task of both of us is to find a way to take our roommate downstairs when the boy is ready, but not to show it.

We have seen a lot of confession scenes on TV, and this time we can not only see the grand confession scenes, but also participate in them, not to mention how positive and excited we are in our hearts.

According to the pre-plan, we successfully brought our roommates downstairs, the banner downstairs of the girls' dormitory has been hung, there are candles and petals on the ground, each boy in our class is holding a flower and waiting in the shape of a heart, the male protagonist appears, a sincere confession, a big bouquet of flowers, a happy smile, our whole class blesses them, they are together under our witness.

It seemed like it was just yesterday, but now the two of them have parted ways. When they graduated, the female students were admitted to graduate schools in Guangdong, and the male students went to Guangdong with the female students to find a job. We thought they would be able to do so until they got married.

He also thought that he could work hard to make money and wait for her to marry her after graduation. However, she still said goodbye to him, and there were better male students in graduate school who attracted him, and she said that the class leader was not motivated enough, and she only had a salary of 4,000 per month, and how she would live in the future, she said that she could not see the future of the two of them. No matter how hard the squad leader tried to redeem it, the two of them eventually separated, just like the petals of a flower will wither, and their love ended in our amazement and regret.

<> can be regarded as love, when I was in college, the relationship with a boy was above friends, and the feeling of lovers was not full.

I met him very fortuitously, in a drama, one day I was reading in the library, I forgot to take a book, so I hurried back to the classroom to go to class, and in the evening I found that I forgot the library, thinking that I must have lost it. After a while, I heard my classmates call me, saying that someone was looking for me, and I looked towards the door, and it was a boy, and I didn't know him at all. I walked over and asked if there was anything wrong, and he handed me the book and said, "It's yours."

He said nothing, a small thing, and left.

I thought we wouldn't meet again, but once we met again after eating in the cafeteria, and then we ate and chatted together for a while, and left QQ for each other. Later, when there was nothing to do, they would make an appointment to eat and chat together, and neither of them thought much about it, they just felt that they had made more friends. Slowly, when I was a sophomore, I felt that there was a delicate relationship between the two of us, once he drank too much, said he liked me, and asked me if I could consider him, I looked at him in a daze, and said let me think about it.

The next day, he apologized to me, saying that I drank too much yesterday and was impulsive, and I laughed and said that what you said yesterday was a joke, and he said yes, teasing you. When I heard him say that, I was actually very disappointed.

After more than half a year, in the blink of an eye, in the third year, facing an internship and looking for a job, he quickly found a job, and my job was not settled at all. We had dinner that day, and he asked me if I would like to go to another city with him, and he would take care of me, and said that he had always liked me, and I smiled and refused, because I knew that we were not suitable, and if we were really suitable, we would not have known each other for two or three years before being together, and besides, our two personalities were too similar.

He should be married by now, thank you for that time with me!

I feel like I grew up like a tomboy since I was a child, and my emotional enlightenment was relatively late. The first crush was in high school, and then he transferred to another school in his sophomore year of high school, and he never met anyone he liked. (I saw that person a few days ago, and he completely became an uncle,,, so ruined image).

Later, when I went to college, the people around me fell in love one after another, and at this time I felt that it was a bit of a waste of my life not to talk about it. And then at that time, there were also some people chasing me, so I picked the one that chased the most fiercely. We are in the same department but in different classes, and sometimes we take public classes together.

Sometimes when I ask for leave, he will come to me from hospital to hospital, just to find me, to accompany me on an intravenous drip; Knowing that I was going to fight again the next day, I went to the hospital early in the morning because I didn't tell him when I would go; Also, on my classmate's birthday, he funded my classmate to invite a few classmates to dinner together, sing K, etc., and wanted to ask me out and so on.

Then I felt that he was very sincere, and we were together. There are good and bad things when you're together, the good thing is that someone will care about you, go out with you and play games all night, etc., but the bad part is that you don't feel free, no matter what you do, he will take care of you, and let you go out shopping with him all day long, press the road, watch movies or something. And then he kept telling me promises or something, such as marrying me, or going wherever I go.

But I'm a wild person, so I feel very restrained, and I proposed to break up within a few months.

Despite the breakup, I never said anything bad about him; Although his relationship style was not very good later, I have always been reluctant to think badly about him. But later, when I was about to graduate, one of my male classmates inadvertently revealed that my ex-boyfriend had been spreading the word that I had slept with him among their boys, and I cried immediately, thinking that I was really blind, and I just wanted to scold him, scumbag.

College is a time for young people to pursue their dreams and explore life, but during this good time, many college students often end up in love. Here are some possible causes.

1.Lack of stability

Many college students find it difficult to make long-term commitments to their relationships because of the uncertainty of their studies and future, resulting in a lack of stability in their relationships. They may be forced to separate due to changes in their studies or jobs, or they may develop different values and lifestyles due to changes in personal growth, which can eventually lead to a relationship breakdown.

2.Can't afford to be responsible

Most college students are financially dependent on their families, and they often do not have a stable income**, making it difficult for them to take on the responsibilities of a relationship, such as paying rent and daily expenses. This kind of financial instability can also easily affect emotional relationships and increase emotional stress.

3.Problems with self-psychological growth

College is a critical period of personal growth, and many college students are not yet fully identified about their identity and goals, and their self-awareness and psychological maturity are not yet fully developed. These factors may affect their approach to romantic relationships, including aspects such as communication, decision-making, and conflict resolution.

4.Lack of communication and trust

During the college years, many people pursue freedom and independence, neglecting the interaction and communication with their partners. A lack of communication and trust can lead to increasingly fragile relationships, leading to breakups or deaths.

Conclusion: In college love, it is necessary to pay attention to the improvement of self-psychological growth and value orientation, and at the same time, it is also necessary to treat romantic relationships more rationally. state or.

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