How do you think you can meet the other person you want?

It seems that everyone wants to find a boyfriend or girlfriend who meets their own standards, but most of them should not be able to find them, because you yourself have not met your own standards, how can you expect others to meet your standards?

It seems that with age, choosing the ideal other half is no longer like the love of the past, there is still a lot to consider, life, the future, etc., so if you want to meet a suitable and ideal other half, you have to make a lot of efforts.

First, whether it is a boy or a girl, you can't look directly and think about finding the other half and waiting, you also have to change, especially boys, most of the boys still have to take the initiative to pursue girls, chasing girls must chase what you like, successful, it means that you meet the other party's standards, unsuccessful, it means that you have not met the other party's standards, girls too, why some girls around you have been chased, you don't have it, so you still have to grow, whether it is knowledge, values, career planning to change and grow.

Second, to build their own hardware, this actually has more direct standards, especially appearance and appearance, that is, what to look like and what clothes to wear, appearance is natural, although it can not be changed, but at least to become sunny, clean, clean clothes, if you are confident can add a lot of points, there is also a garage and work, not to say material, but these are the necessities of life, both boys and girls are recommended to have their own car and house, and have a job that suits them.

Third, change your own software, that is, your personality, your values, how to make yourself more confident, of course, you have to have self-confidence capital, here is not only hard work can be done, the first is that you must at least work hard, and here you need to know the direction you need to work on, such as your knowledge reserves.

Many people can't find their ideal one at once, and they only find it in the wall again and again.

If I want to meet my ideal partner, I feel like I have to make myself better.

First of all, you have to make yourself have a good image, including appearance and temperament. The so-called appearance does not mean how high the appearance is, at least the clothes should be neat and tidy, the face should be clean, giving people a feeling of not being sloppy, and it is often said that the first impression is very important. When it comes to temperament, it is reflected from the inside out, and it is not required that the temperament should be noble, but it should not give people a feeling of being arrogant, extremely casual about things, and being a child.

A good temperament will also make people easy to have a good impression.

Second, improve your cultural accomplishment. Read more books and newspapers, let yourself have cultural connotation, don't speak foul language, improve your self-cultivation can also improve your temperament, in the interaction with people, people with cultural cultivation will also make people respect, so as to improve their personal grade.

Again, have a good character. Patience, tolerance, kindness, and love are all good qualities worth having. Girls should not lose their temper at every turn, and boys should not swing their fists at every turn, but should have a calm temper.

Being kind and friendly to others is more likely to make others feel good and willing to get along with you.

Finally, learn not to settle. Some people start another relationship soon after ending it, but each time it is not long, not that it is not good, but learn from experience, don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, shape yourself better, and find the best other and her in the best years.

Don't just think about it, build yourself to get closer and closer to your ideal partner.

Everyone has watched the fairy tales of Snow White and Prince Charming since they were children, and they will naturally look forward to the ideal type of their other half, just like girls want to find Prince Charming, and boys want to find Snow White in their dreams. As a result, many people begin to define many conditions for their ideal type from the beginning, including ideal height, weight, appearance, occupation, personality, and so on. But as everyone knows, when you really meet someone you like, many standards have become invalid, because you will compare, and then find that the person you like is so different from the standard you set at the beginning, and some are still opposite.

Especially girls, they have been deeply influenced by many TV dramas since they were children, and they always feel that their ideal type is as rich and handsome as the male protagonist of that TV series, so they always set a lot of standards for their future objects, until one day, you meet your him, but it is indeed diametrically opposite, and you find that the difference between your ideal type and your realistic type is still a bit big.

Just like many people will say, when you are 18 years old, you hope that your ideal type is a goddess, when you are 28, you hope that your ideal type is a well-behaved girl, and when you are 38 years old, you can hope that your ideal type is a mother. Therefore, when everyone experiences love again and again, they are actually changing their ideal type, and their requirements may be lower and lower, to be precise, closer to reality. And the only way to find your ideal type is to make yourself excellent and become at the same level as the ideal type you imagined, then you are very likely to meet your ideal type, the same circle, which is the most suitable.

After all, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. <>