NO 1 topic: What do you think about girls who can t cook before marriage?

Well, it's normal for girls to not be able to cook before they get married, and no one is born to cook, and they all need to be cultivated later. From the beginning we just fried simple home-cooked dishes to make fish porridge and then made so many kinds of dishes, we need to come step by step, so men please be a little confident in girls, and also hope that girls will learn to cook, after all, to hold a man's heart, you must first hold a man's stomach View the original post

Women, it's normal to not know how to cook before getting married, and it's understandable, but if you don't know how to cook after you get married, you're worried about trying silver! I'm going to make my daughter-in-law sad now! I can't do anything, I can only go to the restaurant to eat as much as possible! View the original post

The question is profound, so are boys born to cook? If a person who doesn't even think about cooking, eating, and doing things, are you willing to live with him (her) for the rest of your life? Ay! Life, it's complicated - View the original post

You have to be able to cook food, otherwise what to do when a person is hungry? It's too wasteful and unhygienic to go to a restaurant, so it's better to make your own food, quack, cooking is a happy ......View the original post

As long as I'm free, I cook. Changing the flowers, what duck neck chicken rack roast beef, if it doesn't work, I'll buy a barbecue grill and take it back! View the original post

Finally got my number back. It's normal, it's not to find a wife to find a cook, just learn something simple. View the original post

I don't know how to cook, but I'm going to study! Now the standard for me at home is: cooked, just be able to eat it, shame on it, check the original post".

Before marriage, I grabbed a man's heart with food, and after marriage, a man caught my heart with food. . . This is a socialist society View the original post

What is there if you can't cook, you can't learn, and who is not born to know. View the original post

It's acceptable, because now many women can't cook, and people's living standards have also improved, and they can learn slowly if they don't know how to cook.

It is not acceptable, it is acceptable to accept a woman who cooks occasionally, but it is not acceptable to accept a woman who never cooks, and the housework needs to be shared by two people.

It's acceptable, because I feel that cooking is not what women should do, and that two people should cook for each other, so I can accept it.

It's possible.

When looking for a partner, you need to think about life and need to cook, but cooking is not the whole of life.

Everyone has an acceptable expectation of hunger, as long as it is within his range, it should be okay.

There are many aspects that ordinary people care about, such as character, ability, character, values, etc., which are all within the scope of investigation.

As long as the overall conditions meet the other party's expectation of defeat and dispersion, it is possible to be together.

Just because you won't do it now doesn't mean you won't do it in the future! Everything can be learned, right? Good luck!

Of course, Tan Huai Shen can accept it, if you like the other party very much, no matter what the other party does, you will support it, because liking a person must like the advantages and disadvantages. Mingbi.

I can accept it, because there are a lot of girls who can't cook, they have been used to growing up, and they have never rented into the kitchen, and they are not in the era of boys' cooking.

I can take it. Because I am a person who can cook plum spine rice, if the other party can't cook, I can choose to tolerate the other party, and then let the other party do other housework.

First of all, this problem is indeed a situation that is often encountered in society now, society has changed, it is no longer the so-called era of being able to go up to the hall and get down to the kitchen, and now many women in society are independent, with their own behavior and autonomy. Therefore, this problem is not a problem at all in the current post-90s or post-00s.

But for the vast majority of families, many people may not be able to accept, but from another point of view, it is not necessarily true, because now the society is developing and changing, it is no longer the previous patriarchal society, many female friends are really able to hold up half the sky, if you have a woman to do things outside the family, then you think about who should do the things at home?

In fact, marriage and family are two people, is the need for two people to cooperate with each other to operate a happy nest, if you always need to pay on the one hand, the family will soon become falling apart, two people together, you must learn to think in one place, work hard in one place, cooking this kind of thing in married life is no smaller, the best solution is who has time to do it.

Now in this society, cooking and housework is no longer the exclusive work of women, gay men are no longer the head of the family in the old society, the family is for two people, the work at home is naturally two people, the housework is small but you can see the love, can it be said that your lover has worked hard outside for a day, when he drags his tired body back home, what awaits him is to continue cooking? Of course not, so whether to cook or not depends entirely on the actual situation, the specific situation is analyzed, the two can work together to maintain this home better, happier, let's not worry about who cooks and who washes the dishes, who has time and who is responsible, I wish all lovers in the world happiness.

Actually, I can accept it, because if you can, you can find a babysitter.

No. Because in my consciousness, women are meant to cook, so I can't accept a woman who doesn't cook after marriage.

I can accept it. Chang shirt because everyone is equal now, if the woman is hungry and doesn't cook, I can do it with my limbs, there is no law, the woman must cook after marriage, we don't want to kidnap others morally.

It is undoubtedly a blessing to marry a woman who can cook as a wife, and you can eat delicious food every day. Of course, not every girl can cook and likes to cook, so what kind of life do girls who can't cook live after marriage?

1. After marriage, men cook and are full of happiness.

Many people think that women seem to be supposed to cook, laundry and other household chores, but in real life there is undoubtedly happiness to have a man who can cook for you and even prepare food for you every day. Especially for women who can't cook, if you meet a man who is willing to change his tricks to prepare meals for you every day, it is really envious of a lot of people. This kind of phenomenon is still very common in life, men cook first-hand good dishes, and women only cook some simple meals.

2. Cooking and men divide labor and cooperate.

For some women who don't like to cook, or even women who don't know how to cook, if they happen to meet a man who can't cook, it's really a bit hard to say. Although the two of them work together to cook, it seems that neither party has suffered any losses, but sometimes they are itchy and want to eat something delicious but they can't do it. Sometimes, when one party is cooking, only make your favorite meal, and it may be difficult to swallow here, so you can only barely eat it.

Especially when I meet some foodies who can't cook, it's really itchy, I want to eat something I like, I can't, men can't, and I really owe my shortcomings in life. There will always be a feeling of not having enough to eat, I want to learn, but I am too lazy to learn, some may be because of time and energy, and some may be the kind that I don't like to do at all, but only like to eat.

3. The elderly at home cook or hire a nanny.

There are also some women who may be lucky, although they can't cook themselves, but there are elderly people in the family who like to cook, and they happen to meet some chefs or something. It's really a day where you can taste delicious food and raise it for nothing. In such an environment, even if you want to learn to cook, it is very simple, and someone will teach you directly, and you may feel sorry for the old man who doesn't let you cook.

Hey, I can only say don't be too happy.

Of course, there are some people with better family backgrounds who ask for a nanny, and tell the nanny what they want to eat in advance, and the nanny will do it. This kind of woman lives a very happy life, at least materially, and some may have husbands who love and envy others.

Of course, in addition to the above situation, there may be other situations, such as some families basically order takeout or go to restaurants to eat.

Your problems are nothing more than the cooking he promised you before, but he can't do it after marriage, maybe he is tired of doing it for a long time, or he may be too busy and tired from work, so he can't do what he promised you before marriage. In order not to hurt your feelings, you always quarrel about this matter, and the solution is to go to your parents' house for dinner, or hire an hourly worker to cook for you. As long as the economic conditions are abundant, the matter of cooking is easy to solve, so make good money.

For this question, if it is theoretically viewed, there are two points:

1. The marriage relationship in China is nothing more than a contractual relationship concluded on the basis of equality. Since it is a contractual relationship, the parties to the relationship must respect and enforce the contractual conditions set forth at the time the contractual relationship is established. If the woman has put forward a contractual proposition that she will not cook after marriage before marriage, and the man has agreed, then this proposition has become an agreement that must be observed in the contractual relationship.

After the husband gets married, he wants to abandon this agreement, which is against the spirit of the contract.

2. A family is the basic environment for both men and women to survive together, and it is also the main body that maintains the marital relationship. If the family is built very beautifully, harmoniously, fraternal, and happy, and has a great appeal, then, under the effect of this appeal, both men and women will voluntarily change some premarital agreements and be willing to dedicate themselves to the family. It turns out that the woman who agrees not to cook will take the initiative to cook, cook often, and be happy to cook.

If the woman still insists on not cooking, it means that the family is not infectious enough.

Hello, there are really few girls who can cook nowadays, after all, scarcity is expensive in the era of more men and fewer women, it is good to have a woman get married, a woman who has been married in the countryside still marries a young man, even if a woman with a child still has no dowry at all, and the same asking price as a girl, and just don't cook this little thing, he doesn't do what you do, after all, just married and young, this point is not a moment to move over, she is also the treasure of the family when she is not married, and there is really no obligation to serve your family after marriage... So be content.

Unless you can support the elderly, otherwise a family makes money is the main thing, and you should solve his worries, a kind of complementarity.