Refuse to enter a girl who is overpowered? Girls don t say no to people, do they?

There is an essential difference between a lover and Lan Yan, even if she tells you everything. It doesn't necessarily mean that you are the kind of person she loves, since they have told you everything, there is no need to think about that anymore. In fact, if you think about it, you don't have to be with her to love her!

If you're happy then, she's not happy, can you bear it? I should be very content to be able to share her happiness and pain, and don't force her. Otherwise, the results will be worse.

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Every girl has such a boy in her life. He doesn't belong to love, and he's not his boyfriend. However, there must be a place for him within the closest distance to himself.

When you see something beautiful, you can't help but show it to him. When you hear a good song, you can't help but copy it from your own *** to him. When I see a beautiful notebook, I can't help but buy two and the other for him to use.

When he feels like crying, the first one will text him. When I quarrel with my boyfriend, the first one will look for him. Although I don't know when, he will disappear from his life and become the prince of another girl, and that girl will become a princess because of him.

However, in the time when he was still staying at the closest distance to himself, every girl was using all her strength to consume him and what he brought.

This kind of thing has to go with the flow.,I've rejected others.,And it's the kind that refuses directly.,I really want him to stick to it.,But....If you just want to find a girlfriend, then think about whether you are suitable, if you want to find someone you love, then when you are sure that you are looking for her, you don't give up, let the whole world know that you like her, don't give anyone a chance!

He's waiting for the bus, and he hasn't waited for anything better, so he just wants to be good friends with you for the time being. You're her male secret. What is the male leap secret, is it a spare tire, no, I am sure it is not.

So I advise you to die for her, or just be an ordinary friend with her, and if you feel that you can't hold on, you don't have to be a friend.

I think, what do you mean, I think she has fully understood, maybe it's really not to call you, but if you say cruel things directly, you're afraid of hurting you, after all, it's a friend!

Lovers are temporary.

Friends are for life.

She probably knows that you're together and will break up one day.

But after breaking up, it's hard to be friends again.

She probably doesn't want to lose you then.

So she chose to be her friend.

She must have something unspeakable.

Yes. In fact, it is very likely that he may not have a strong love for you between men and women, he just treats you as a friend, but it is not good to say it to death, refuse directly, I am afraid that I can't even be a friend, and it hurts your heart, don't worry, just treat it as a friend, don't force him to break it, don't embarrass both of you, will he fall in love with you, time will tell everything, be a confident, independent and emotionally intelligent person.

Sit tight. Although love is beautiful, but if you don't get a reply after the confession, it will become a tragic love experience, in fact, you can't blame the person who was confessed, they suddenly received your confession, they may be at a loss, don't know how to deal with it, and forget about the reply to you. That's why you can't get a reply for a long time.

The more this happens, the more you can't panic or choose to give up. Confessing to a girl and not replying doesn't mean that the girl has blocked you, or that the other party doesn't like you. Perhaps, they just need a period of calm, thinking about how to deal with it, how to reply.

Then all you have to do is quietly wait for a reply. When the girl thinks clearly, she will reply to you with her answer. Even if the reply you wait for is a rejection, don't lose faith.

Don't be like a headless fly, anxious.

Recognize yourself. In fact, we also know in our own hearts that sometimes if we send a message to others, others may not necessarily be able to see our message on time, so if we send a message to others, we will comfort ourselves that the other party, if we don't reply in time, we must be because we didn't see it. But we also have to know that if a person really hasn't replied to your message for a long time, then he is actually really rejecting you, he just doesn't want to reject you in a particularly direct way, at this time we should actually know what to do in our own hearts.

Make it clear in person.

In the Internet era, more and more people have become dependent on mobile phones, and even confessions and breakups can be solved on mobile phones. I saw such a story on Weibo before, the boy proposed to the girl on WeChat, and said to the girl Are you willing to marry me, the girl said that no one proposed on WeChat, and the boy said that you are on QQ. Don't you want to laugh a little, such an important thing as a marriage proposal is done through a mobile phone, I think no girl will agree, girls don't necessarily ask for a lot, but at least you need to make it clear in person.

Confession requires temperature, and we often prefer to face each other directly rather than a cold mobile phone, because through the mobile phone, we can't feel each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and we can't see each other's expressions at this moment. So through I like you on WeChat, the girl can understand whether you are sincere or tentative. If you want to confess, you have to ask the girl out and tell her to her face, I like you.

, adjust the mentality, release the mood.

Because confessing that a person is in pain when they are rejected, it is very irresponsible for their own health. It is a fact that we have been rejected and cannot be changed, but we can change our attitude towards this matter and adjust our mood. Don't just pay attention to the person in front of you, there are many people who love you and are silently watching you behind your back.

Don't just stare at one person, but open your eyes and reach out to someone who is better than this one.

2. Don't contact the other party again.

If the other party rejects you after you express their hearts, and has a very bad attitude towards you, and all kinds of bad words are resigned, then this kind of person can ignore her. Because this kind of person is not good at dealing with people, even after being with her, you will be in a lower position than her everywhere, and you will feel that everything you do for her is deserved, and it is difficult to find your goodness. It's impossible to be very good to you, two people will easily have conflicts, and life will naturally not be pleasant.

There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but you can't like the wrong person. To love someone is also to love with dignity, no one is inseparable from anyone in a person's life, and there is no stipulation who is to serve whom. Life is neither long nor short, and you must live your own posture to live this life in vain.

3. Open the knot in your heart and continue to be friends.

If it's a good friend who has been with you for a long time and the relationship has become awkward because of your confession, you shouldn't give up right away. You can continue to choose to be friends with the other person, but don't reveal that you still have intentions for the other person. It may be that the good old days are gone, but you can reconnect with each other as a normal friend, and she can't refuse your friendship.

If you are not friends with the other party, you can also take the opportunity of confession to let the other party know you and become her friend.

4. Understand your image in the other person's mind and analyze the reasons for failure.

You think you are excellent in the other person's mind, but the other person may not take you seriously at all. The first impression cannot be broken, but you can improve your image in the other person's heart and become the person that the other person likes. Analyze your own shortcomings, the reasons for your failures, whether you are not the type that the other party likes or the other party does not understand you, whether the other party has no feelings for you or your age, wealth and other indicators have not been reached, solve the symptoms, do not deal with it blindly.

5. Turn grief and anger into motivation and enhance personal charm.

A confession failure does not mean that you are useless, after the confession failure, you must adjust your mentality, be more confident, improve yourself through learning, and improve your personal charm. Whether it is the external dress or the internal cultivation temperament, it will add points to yourself and make you more favored by the opposite sex. Confession failure must be that you are not enough of the other party's standards, not good enough, constantly improve yourself and learn the skills of getting along with the opposite sex, I believe you will definitely meet someone who appreciates you.

Therefore, after being rejected, you should not stay in this stage of loss, but should rise up, improve yourself, and wait for the right person to appear at the right time with the best attitude.

Everyone will have a time of rejection, either you refuse, or the other party refuses, and after you are rejected, you will be like a person, overwhelmed. I've met a girl before, the kind of girl that guys don't like and care about her. At a class reunion, the two of us got chatted together, and the girl said:

I like you very much, but I haven't confessed yet" is actually very unhappy, although we are jokingly talking but her expression is very serious. "Actually, I already have a boyfriend," the girl said with a smile. In fact, that chat was quite embarrassing, and the girl explained to her that her thoughts did not cause a big reaction from the boy:

You didn't catch it, either" Actually, the girl always had a good impression of me at that time. The two of us usually get along well, but it doesn't seem to be a good fit. "We haven't been in touch since.

1. Emotionally will become very inferior.

There are many girls who will blame others for the reason after being rejected. They will feel humbled and unworthy of a good affection to bury an eraser. They will become very sensitive, very vulnerable, and will feel that others are not good for them, and may not like them.

So emotionally, they must have low self-esteem. Such girlfriends are often very unconfident in their relationships.

2. I won't take the initiative to pursue someone I like.

There is no such thing as "I want the love I want" in a woman's world, only a man who "I don't want" would say such a thing. If a woman wants to pursue her love, she can only rely on the man to take the initiative to pursue it, not the man to pursue it. It's like we often say:

Rejected: "After a woman accepts a man's courtship, she feels very disappointed if it has not come to fruition." In fact, the love that a woman really wants will not appear after this man opens his heart to herself, but has been waiting for the other party to confess and accept him. So for men, it is the most important thing to accept a woman who likes them.

Now this society is really too realistic! Unwilling to be rejected and unwilling to do so.

3. It's always because you don't get what you want.

If a girl doesn't like you, then you have to know what you look like and what you think. Many girls will start to learn how to love someone in order to make their hearts move. For example, once I wanted to date another girl, I asked him:

How do you know that I don't have anyone else in my heart? She said, "Because she doesn't like us!"

In my concept, men and women have their own standards, and they are not directly expressed like in TV dramas. If you like a woman, then you have to observe them more when you are with them, and if they feel that you are interested in them, then it is more likely that you will offer to go on a date with her. If you're not rejected, you can't just say something that annoys the other person.

After all, the other party has already refused to meet you.