Are there any relationships you particularly want to cherish that have been estranged for some reaso

As long as I am determined to make friends, I will be the kind of friend who has not yet dealt with things, and my friend's sentence is unhappy, and I want to come out for dinner alone, I will take an hour and a half to go back to eat and chat with him until more than 10 o'clock at night, and then pay more than 30 yuan to go home, and get up at 6 o'clock the next morning to take an hour and a half bus to work. Actually, he was really tired, but he didn't know it. Once I had a very serious gastroenteritis and lay at home for more than half a month, I took a lot of hanging injections and took a lot of medicine, but I still kept pulling yellow water, and I collapsed until I was standing, and I would faint when I stood up.

The last week was really not smooth, so I planned to go to a big hospital for a detailed physical examination. It just so happened that my friend was not very well, and I made an appointment to go over together. In my usual way, I made an appointment with my friend to go to the subway station, and my friend actually said that it would cost more than 30 yuan to take a taxi to the subway station, and if you want to go with him, take a taxi to his house first, and then call Didi to divide the fare equally.

At that moment, I was really cold-hearted, I just wanted to go over with the other party, but he suspected that I wanted to take advantage of him today because of the fare problem. Another time, he said that his car needed to be changed oil, and I said that my whole family's cars were contracted by acquaintances, and my brother-in-law was a car repairer with many years of experience in car repair, and if you feel that you don't trust people outside, you can go to him. As a result, a friend came to say, why do you want to go to your house, you recommend it so much, it's just to introduce business to your brother-in-law.

I'm just kind enough to share with him what I know and understand, and he has to think I'm so snobbish, and I can't help it. I still graciously forgive him for being ignorant at the time. A person who is selfish by nature is like this on emotional occasions, not to mention others, dying to a person is not an overnight thing, but a long time, a fuse broke out.

The good friend who went to elementary school and junior high school together, we are fellow villagers, so we are very close, and we often go to various houses after school, and even stay for a few nights. Share secrets, joy, and shy youth with each other. I think everyone will have a few people who can talk about everything and share secrets when they are young.

It was our best age, we made friends innocently, we didn't have any interests, we faced each other with sincerity. We are sincere and loving to each other, just like sisters, and even many things we don't tell our family about, but we are willing to share them with our good friends, whom we call "girlfriends". At that time, we were really naïve, and friendship became an important part of our lives, telling you all the things on our minds, dear girlfriends.

However, we then separated. When we were in high school, we went to different colleges and universities, and we each had different environments. As a result, we began to have new friends, and we could no longer be with each other, whether sad or happy.

So, let's take the place again. Time is very cruel, it can be exchanged for the new, memories will always be diluted, "a thousand sails on the side of the sinking boat, ten thousand trees in front of the sick tree", time will not stagnate, will only keep moving forward. You will also have different experiences and life experiences, and your environment will constitute a completely different world.

If there is too much gap between the worlds, you will be separated by these. Even if once intimate, goodbye is a familiar stranger.

Once a good friend, because of the difference in their own life circles, they slowly became estranged, just myself, there was a piece into the factory, and a workshop, a group, a dormitory good sisters. At that time, the efficiency of the unit was good, and we were young, and after receiving the salary or bonus, we went to the Terracotta Army, Cuihua Mountain, Whale Gully and so on. The food sent by her family and the food sent by my family in the middle class, we both ate together, so it can be said that there is no difference between you and me.

I feel like there's an endless amount of words to say in one piece. Even after we both got married, the relationship between our two families was also very good, with the decline in production in the factory, some people were laid off and self-employed, she went to Shenzhen to work hard, but no matter how long she went, she would come to my house to play after she came back. Later, she bought a house in Xiamen, and rarely came back, and started to use two computers.

Finally, on the phone**, the life circle has changed, and I slowly found that the two of us have fewer and fewer common topics, I don't know what she said, she doesn't know what I said, it's quite embarrassing, **After nothing to say, it is rarely anymore**. Now the most I can do is send a message.

Because there are other very good friends around the two of them. When the two are not in the same class, they will develop other friends, and they will inevitably be seen by the other party when they go out, so at this time, they will mistakenly think that the other party has better friends, so they will slowly fade the contact. In addition, if you have other friends around you, it is more convenient to travel together, relatively speaking, you will choose friends around you, and you will not choose good friends, so you will have a sense of separation between two people in the family.

When two people are separated and not in the same class or place, they are short of money for a short time and borrow money from each other, which will lead to a sense of separation between the two people. Because, after borrowing money, because of taking care of the other party's mood, I am afraid that the other party will think that sending her a message and calling ** is to get back the money lent to her. And the borrower is embarrassed to find a good friend, because the borrowed money has not been repaid.

Over time, even if the borrowed money is repaid, there will still be awkwardness in the hearts of the two people. And then they slowly lost contact.

Changes in the environment, such as former classmates or colleagues, will be slowly changed by the environment after separation, there will no longer be a common topic, and the three views will slowly become different, but there are exceptions to everything, and there are good brothers and sisters who have been the same for decades.

When one of the two people talks about a boyfriend, a good friend lacks the meaning of existence, because when he was lonely in the past, he was accompanied by a good friend. Two people can go shopping together, go to dinner together, do homework together, and go home ...... togetherWait a minute. Now, with a boyfriend, you can be accompanied by a boyfriend for everything, and you no longer need a good friend, and a good friend has become a light bulb at this time, which will affect the relationship between the two people.

So in this case, the two will be even more estranged.

I have a friend by my side, and his girlfriend is Shantou. He is a native of the Northeast. They were together in their sophomore year.

Survived the graduation season. He works in Huizhou. When they were at their poorest together, they had instant noodles.

Gradually, the girl's work improved a little, and he began to get a salary of seven or eight thousand. But the woman's family asked for a house in Huizhou. They weren't together.

The relationship I especially wanted to cherish before, but it was because of the quarrel between the two people that the relationship became estranged, and it was indeed because I was too careless and didn't know how to cherish it.

With a classmate, we can say that the three views are very compatible, the interests are similar, the forehead is not, the smell is the same, and the result is that we like the same girl, and that's it.

I used to be a good friend, but after graduation, I gradually lost contact, and I feel that it is because there is no common topic.

Once the best friend, our growing companion, the most precious memory of our youth, but as time goes by, we drift apart, why is this? First of all, it may be because of the different routes. The paths of life are different, and the things we experience in growing up are also different, which makes our plans for the future also different.

Maybe now we are in different cities, doing different jobs, and living in different circles, which makes it difficult for us to communicate with each other as often as we used to. Secondly, it may be because of incompatible personalities. Former friends may have been our classmates in adolescence, who accompanied us when we needed them the most, but over time, our personalities also changed.

Some people may become more cheerful and enjoy making new friends, while others may become more introverted and prefer to be alone. This personality change can lead to a gap between us and our former friends, which can lead to a drift of separation. In addition, it may also be because of different values.

We were all exposed to different environments and cultural backgrounds when we were growing up, which led to different perceptions and values about many things. Former friends may have their own beliefs and values, and these may differ from our views. This difference can lead us to disagreements and ultimately lead us to drift apart.

In the end, maybe it's our mindset that has changed. During adolescence, we may value friendships more, and over time, our mindset will change accordingly. We may become busier, more focused on career and family, and less on friendship.

This change in mindset may also lead to a drift away from our former friends. In short, it is normal for friends to drift apart, and it does not mean that the friendship between us has disappeared. We can stay in touch through email, email, or socially, or we can meet up regularly to keep our friendships going.

According to psychologists and emotional experts, the reasons can be the following:

1.Lack of communication: When a relationship starts to go into a cold phase, some people tend to face silence and ignore problems instead of directly expressing their needs and thoughts about the other person, which can lead to more and more problems, which eventually leads to escalating conflicts.

2.Ignoring each other: During the love period, both parties usually spend a lot of time together and make many romantic moves, but as time goes by, some people will gradually ignore each other because of work, family and other reasons, which will cause a rift in the relationship.

3.Lack of companionship and lack of common interests: If two people do not find that they have enough common interests and values in the early stage of the relationship, the future development and outcome are uncertain, and it is difficult to maintain the chain of relationships.

4.Compromise and compromise: Many people compromise their ideas and interests in a relationship to avoid conflict, which can affect an individual's values and emotional needs. After a long time, it is easy to be bored to the point of unbearable.

5.Environment and change: Life is volatile, changes in work, living environment, etc. affect our emotions and state, if the state of one party changes and the other party does not understand or even care, it will lead to the gradual estrangement of emotional relationships.