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This is the disadvantage of the Chinese education system, and unfortunately I can only tell you that neither you nor I have a way, we can only adapt. Junior high school students can certainly have their own hobbies, and you can also develop your own hobbies. But for the sake of your studies, you have to study hard.
Strive for a broader platform for your hobby!
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I'm a freshman now, I'm going to be a sophomore in the second half of the year, I also have deep feelings about your thoughts, I have also experienced cruel junior high school, high school, I also gave up my childhood dream, I want to study now It's too late, so the talent at that time seems to have turned to ashes now, but I won't be discouraged, because God will always open another door for me. I don't really like my current major, but I will do my best to learn it well, because I know that I may rely on him for the rest of my life. China's education is also obvious to all, you are in a bad mood, everyone is in a bad mood, but there is a lack of a place to vent, a lack of people who can guide you.
Many students are from love to learn to numb learning, which leads to an aversion to learning, causing themselves to fall into the abyss, I hope you don't get to the point of disgust with learning, I would rather everyone be numb to study. China's psychological education is very backward, and there are not a few people who have psychological problems because of reading. So pay attention to your own psychological changes when reading, often go to find a psychology teacher, if you don't like the head teacher, you can go to find other teachers, you tell them that the heart is not good, they will not refuse to chat with you, what I have done is to say that I am in a bad mood and take a few days off to go home and stay and it is still approaching the end of the term, and then I am also inexplicably flustered for a few days, and I have no way to go back to school.
I am not against everyone rebelling, I have done this kind of thing, and I don't regret it now that I think about it, after all, I left traces of my dreams before. If you have the courage and capital, you can still fight for your dreams. But if it is still useless after you resist, I suggest that you re-examine yourself, time flies quickly, you should choose which path, and then don't think about anything else, do what you have to do.
In short: I give you the opportunity to do what you want, and if that doesn't help, then come back and accept what I have arranged for you, which is what I feel, and I hope it will be useful to the children.
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They should respect you, not proud grades are king, and forcing you like this will not have any good results, cultivate your interests and hobbies to develop, but your parents are also good for you, but the method is not right.
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The development of any hobby is based on the fact that you have a good grade, at least in China. If you can finish your studies easily, then hobbies are okay, otherwise you are not the only one who suffers!
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In the second year of junior high school, I was only in the sixth grade, and my father never forced me to register for classes, so my parents were still wiser.
You can tell your parents like this: people must be single-minded in everything they do, if there are so many extracurricular classes every day, they can't take care of their studies, so they can't compare to others, so they are picking up sesame seeds and losing watermelons. If your parents agree not to enroll you in class, you must also keep your promise and study hard.
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Well, you're going to fight. You tell your parents, do you want me to be a college student who can't find a job now, or do you want to be someone like Liu Xiang, Li Na, Yao Ming!!
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Because every parent likes to let their children do things that they can't do.
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Cram school kills our youth and kills our ** time.
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When the book is used, there is less hatred, and if it is bitter now, it will be very happy in the future.
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Yes, in your spare time.
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Since there is no way to change it, I have to adjust my mentality, pity the hearts of parents all over the world, and parents are also for the good of their children.
I will never do this in the future.
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You can sit down and have a good talk with your parents.
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Communication with parents is king!
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Minute by minute. The lifeblood of students.
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Sports, ball games, football, basketball, badminton, table tennis, swimming, skiing, ice skating are all available. Listening, watching movies, watching, writing, writing scripts, reading newspapers, etc!!
Because people must be patient, persevering, learn to make independent choices, once they choose, learn not to regret, to have determination, choose anything, any work, to persevere, so the so-called perseverance!!
In fact, many things are interested in for various reasons at first, but later find out that they are not as beautiful as they thought, this is because your understanding of things is not enough, you need to strengthen, and your cognition of things must be perfected! Don't regret it at this time, because people will also have a little bit called trying, then in order to persevere, you choose to try, after trying you may find that the content of things you may like, because you have a new understanding, sometimes, insist on a greater harvest, the harvest is an unexpected surprise, if you don't like it at this time, don't regret it, you can also insist, the reason is that you are more familiar with the content of the work than the newcomer, the nature of the thing itself, this is your advantage, You're not wasting time! I really want to change, then you continue to understand new things, at this time you learn experience, what experience, is that you will learn a lesson, you can learn new things, work, but this time must be more mature than the last time, the cognition should be more thorough and then make a decision, let yourself have a certain progress, don't regret it, don't easily change your original intention, there are not many opportunities for people to change in their lives, you must learn to cherish!
Come on, do things resolutely and decisively, dare to try, learn to find interest, adhere to your own interests, dig out your true interests, to find the interests that apply to a lifetime, people's interests are not simple, learn to last, because often delay a lot of things, send you a word: in fact, a little persistence, you can really see the light!!
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Everyone has their own preferences. Some people love sports, some people love travel--- they have different personalities and hobbies. As for me, I like to grab a book, find a secluded place, sit down, and read it with relish.
sometimes laughed at the humorous and interesting stories in the book; sometimes was led to tears by the sad stories in the book; Sometimes I am also moved by the tenacious spirit of the heroes in the book.
I like to read, and that's by absolute chance. In the past, I didn't like to read very much, and my parents bought a lot of books for me, so I could only sleep honestly in the bookcase. My mother still brought the books home twice in three days, which made me even more disgusted.
One sunny morning, my mother left me alone in the library and said to me, "Yingying, my mother has left for a while, and you are waiting for me here." With that, he turned around and hurried away.
I had no choice but to wait obediently. I look east and west, and this place is still a book except for books. Looking around, some adults and children are lying on their desks reading books, and some are leaning on the high bookshelves to flip through books.
It seems that I am the only one who is idle. Out of boredom, I had to pull out a copy of Hans Christian Andersen's Fairy Tales from the shelf and look at it. Looking at it, I was fascinated.
Sad for the little match girl, happy for the clever Hans, sigh deeply for the mermaid, and applaud secretly for Thumbelina. I really didn't expect that there was such a wonderful story in an inconspicuous book. I read every word of the book greedily, and it was almost indistinguishable from "a hungry man pounces on bread."
When my mom came to pick me up, I realized it was almost noon. Mom smiled and said, "I'm back!"
I reluctantly left the library. (Later, I learned that my mother was testing me.) )
Since then, I've loved reading, no, I think I love reading. A cabinet full of books can no longer satisfy my desire to learn. I started borrowing books from others and buying them myself. Bookstores and libraries are places I must visit on holidays.
The book broadened my horizons. The Book of Songs made me hear the songs of my ancestors; "Zuo Biography" made me see the alliance of the princes; "The Classic of Mountains and Seas" took me to the hometown of the gods; "Yan's Family Motto" made me feel the --- of a father's advice
Books not only taught me knowledge, but also taught me how to be a human being. When I finished reading Mr. Lao She's "Raising Flowers", I knew that I had to be diligent; After I finished reading Bingxin's "Siren is Alone and Haggard", I knew that "the rise and fall of the country is the responsibility of the husband".
Books are a light in the darkness; Books are a ray of sunshine in the cold; Books are the source of our strength.
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This is a good thing, parents should give correct guidance, and encourage the child, help the child, support the child, and arrange time for the child.
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Table tennis, badminton, playing games, surfing the Internet, fighting landlords, upgrading, Xiaobawang learning machine, story collection, readers, Olympiad mathematics, movies, costume TV series, history, running, basketball, skipping rope, listening to songs, passing notes, tug-of-war, reading extracurricular books, tennis, taekwondo, tai chi, cooking, hopscotch, hip-hopping, watching, that's all, no matter how much you can't think of, it's not appropriate.
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