Falling in love with someone you shouldn t love is the only way out

I had the same experience as you, the only difference is that his wife has passed away, I felt the same way as you at the time, that is, I felt that no matter what, I had to be with him, but your reason is that he has a family, and my reason is that he is Hui, isn't it really similar! I remember being with him and really loving each other! I even thought of changing the customs for him, that is, I wanted to be with him, I was in contact with him for more than a year, as I got older, my original thoughts began to change, his family urged him to get married quickly, and my family was also urging me, but it was obvious that we both knew that we could not be together, but how to get rid of it?

I cried at home for two whole days for this matter, and my heart has been very conflicted, but slowly the idea of not being together is getting clearer and clearer, and reason is becoming more and more able to control behavior, I talked with him very calmly, and found that our concerns and thoughts are very consistent, and we also made a decision very rationally, separated, I suddenly felt that the separation really didn't want to be as sad as I thought, because after the matter was opened, there was only a sigh of fate, and if it wasn't yours, it wouldn't be by your side. Don't dispel his burdens and concerns, because I love him, I should think about him, so that he can have a happy family, can alleviate his sadness, since I can't give, I don't want to drag him, he also thinks about me like this, I'm still young He shouldn't drag me, so that I have no hope for other people, causing a shadow to me, so I have to let it go, now we are all glad that the original decision was right, I think you should talk to him very calmly now, think about each other a little more, it won't be too sad, Although you left him, but you fulfilled his family, he left you, fulfilled your future, I believe you will find someone who loves you, there are many things in the world that cannot be forced, let it be, I have also come out of my sorrow, and I am also married! I think you should have such a good ending because you are a kind person. Break it ruthlessly, I believe you won't regret this decision in the future.

When you open your heart to accept a man and start to love him, you will definitely love him more and more, and it has nothing to do with whether he is married or not.

That's what happens to you.

Know that you must be in love with him now.

The more I can't get it, the more I feel that my love is sad.

But now that I know.

As you say, you are a sane person.

From another point of view.

Is he a responsible man?

Even if there is a problem with his marriage.

It should also be dealt with before falling in love with you.

Do you think it's a bit like that?

You wouldn't like such a man, would you?

Agree with the upstairs.

Although it is painful to break up, it is better than being condemned by your own conscience all the time.

Maybe not far ahead, it's your destination.

You're going to be happy, you will.

Don't think about it so much, don't forget it, don't forget, if you really like him, he is the only one in your life, you go on like this, don't let him be separated from his wife, and at the same time sometimes come to see you, isn't that also good? If he's not, then let it go sooner.

Find someone who loves you and marry him.

Try to find as many friends as you can, chat with them, or plan a trip together so that your attention is not focused on the place. As long as you can stay calm, I think time will soon make you forget someone. The sooner you fill yourself up, you won't have to worry about it.

The sooner it is broken, the less damage it will do. After half a year, looking back, it's actually nothing.

Of course, falling in love with someone you shouldn't love will choose to let go, because you already know that the other person shouldn't love, so why stick to it? Although it is possible that you are really very excited about the other party, but you clearly know that the other party is not worthy of your love, and you should not love, then you should decisively choose to separate, because only in this way can you better protect yourself, and only in this way can you make yourself live better. If you know that the other party does not dare to love each other but still loves each other, then it is likely to lead to a corresponding impact on your future life, so don't let yourself fall into the mistake of this kind of thinking.

Since you already know that the other party is a person you shouldn't love, you should control yourself as much as possible, and you should also restrain yourself, and you can find more happy things for yourself in real life, which are of great help to yourself. You should distract yourself as much as possible, so that you will not be attached to someone you shouldn't love, so in real life, you can choose to relax yourself as much as possible, only in this way can you reap greater fun.

There are many people who may have all kinds of entanglements in this process, but at this time, it must be clear that there is no need to entangle, because at this time, then it is very likely that there will be more other questions in the future. Instead of wasting time at this time, it is better to move it all at once, don't love those who shouldn't be loved, and insist at this time that you will only hurt yourself in the end.

So you must choose to stick to what you should do, don't think about these things that shouldn't be done, if you really can't let go, you can choose to distract yourself through other ways, then you can better live a big note. So don't stick to falling in love with someone you shouldn't love, otherwise you will only be left to hurt yourself.

I will choose to let go, since I am not the one who should not be loved, there is no need to love him, and there will be no result.

I will let go, because falling in love with two people who should not be loved is fruitless, in fact, it is better to let go.

I'll let it go because it's painful to fall in love with someone you shouldn't love and it won't come to fruition.

To use practical actions to prove to the family that you are very happy together, once when my husband and I were in love, my family was also strongly opposed, forcing each other to death, and finally we used practical actions to tell them that we are really happy and happy together!

Parents want their children to be happy and have nothing else to ask for.

In the vast sea of people, there are really few people who meet their souls, since they have each other in their hearts, please cherish them!

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to feel which spine in the life of everyone who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.

Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the past, short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

It's not your fault that you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, but a sadness... In fact, falling in love with someone does not prove the outcome, it can only say that you feel the feeling. Love is an emotion that you can feel, and having love is not the same as having marriage.

So although you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, you have tried the taste of love, and it is your happiness to have love, and now, the only way is to bury it deep in your heart, not to discard it, but to put it in the safest and most mysterious place that no one knows...

I know I can't, but I want to like it, many people are like this! However, many times it often hurts itself. After a long time, you will find that you feel ridiculous, a little silly, and even childish!

So sometimes we have to learn to give up, when we know that we can't, we should choose to give up, the long pain is better than the short pain, give up and give yourself a glass of cold water, extinguish the fire in your heart, run wild in the rain, sing and chant wildly.

It's all right! In order to be able to get happiness in the future, the so-called strong twisted melon is not sweet, don't ignore the whole garden because of the withering of a flower, open your hands, you will get more beauty! Well, that's all that comes to say, people sometimes need to calm down and think with their hearts, only people who know how to give up will be happy people...

There is nothing wrong with love, it is only us who is wrong, because we ask too much for love, too perfect, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, because everyone has the right to love and the right to be loved! If you really look at this love, go on bravely, you will find that life is so beautiful with love, because when you love someone, whether you are worried about him or miss him, it is a very good thing in the world! However, if you don't love, or this relationship has no result, then you have to give up decisively, because giving up is also a kind of beauty, if you don't give up your life, there may be only one possibility, that is, pain, if you let go, your life is 10,000 possibilities @ Which is more important and which is lighter, I believe you will know!

Your life is in your own hands!

Is giving up really another kind of love? Is giving up really another kind of happiness?

To be exact, giving up is another way of possession! I quit in embarrassment, this is not great, but because between letting go and not letting go, I understand that feelings can't be forced, and they can't come reluctantly, even if I hold on to it, what is it that I grasp? It's a scar, it's pain!

Hold your hands tight, there's nothing in them, let go of your hands, all I have is everything.

The most painful thing is the period between letting go and not letting go. If you really make up your mind to give up, on the contrary, there will be a sense of relief. Since then, pain and love have been buried deep in my heart.

Life is like this, there will inevitably be pain, it is inevitable that there will be injuries, whether you have ever grabbed or gone away, those things cannot leave you, although some things can not be looked back, some memories can not be sorted out, and some people can only be buried forever.

Falling in love with someone is a very troublesome thing, especially if you unconsciously give up a lot of things for him and do a lot of things for him. And when he insists on something and refuses to give up, then you are going into a hell, very bitter and bitter. Especially in the end, he said, "It's you who is wrong, and you brought it all on yourself."

A person can fall in love with many people in his life, and when you get the happiness that truly belongs to you, you will understand that the previous renunciation is actually a kind of wealth, and giving up allows you to learn to better grasp and cherish. Not because you get what you want, but because you're living for yourself, you have to learn to give up.

A touch of the morning sun is gone, Fuqin complains melodiously through the sky, who knows this thought, even if it is ruthless, there is love, many things, always after experiencing it will be understood. For example, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted with.

Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

Giving up is not for you to blindly escape, but for you to understand that it is better to give up than to maintain pain! Give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back; Give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the best memories; Give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised and bruised is not necessarily unforgettable. This journey is deep and shallow, and it is not easy to get to this day, gently pull out your hand and say goodbye, thank you very much, there are you along the way.

I once said I loved you, and I still love you today. It's just that I love you, but I can't be with you. As he loves the fire of the wilderness, he loves it, but he cannot return with it.

Giving up is not a way to love...