My girlfriend said that she could have children if she got engaged first, but she didn t get a licen

Truth be told, don't be upset.

She didn't fall in love with you, she just thought you were the spare tire!

You tell her that it is illegal to live together and have children without a license, and you don't want to do illegal things, depending on what she says! If you like her too much, let him go! After the two of you have a child, it is an established and real husband and wife relationship, and there is nothing to do!

In today's marriage, affected by the marriage law, a man buys a house without writing the woman's name, gets married, and then buys a house that belongs to the second house, but it is clear that the woman suffers. But the law does not protect women. Although it is said that the marriage is the joint property of the husband and wife, the man does not give a penny, and the woman, as soon as she gets married, will be dismissed by the unit, and then don't want to find a job, pay the insurance by herself, give birth to the child by herself, eat the old bottom of the mother's family, or live with the bride price money, and be abused by the man.

The man didn't go well and left. Since the woman is not working, the child will be awarded to the man. The woman doesn't go to work for a long time, it is more difficult to earn money, and when she is 35 years old, she doesn't like to ask for it, so now many people either don't even look for a partner, or like your girlfriend, or marry a foreigner, she can't be fired for marriage, she pays a big price.

You should understand.

If you don't get a marriage certificate, that's not good, if you don't get married, you don't get a license, be careful.

If you get engaged and have children without a license, this kind of marriage is a mentality that you don't want to be responsible, and a marriage without a marriage certificate is just a cohabitation relationship: there is no legal protection, it is not responsible for each other, riding a horse to find a horse, and it is better not to have such a fragile marriage.

It shows that she is not very at ease with you, and she doesn't want to use marriage to bind herself, she only thinks about herself.

Your girlfriend may not want to end her single life yet. Haven't had enough fun, have you? Can you live with him first? Touch Him with your love. Let him know that you love him. He probably doesn't have much confidence in the future either.

Girlfriend's approach is incomprehensible, you can have children in love but you don't get a certificate, if you don't get a certificate, you won't get married, and you can't register your children in the future, how can this be.

It's already like this before you get married, to be honest, you still have to think about it again, marriage is a lifelong thing, and it is impossible to live a lifetime by one person's forbearance.

Some people don't want to be bound by marriage at all, they like to be free, since others don't like to be bound by the shackles of marriage, why should you force it, you repeatedly say that marriage, it will make the other party feel very annoying.

Your girlfriend's idea is a bit offbeat and not very reliable.

It is sufficient to appoint a lawyer to sue for confirmation of custody of the child and the issue of child support. Procedures for obtaining a marriage certificate, (1) application. (2) Review.

c) Registration. Materials that need to be brought to get a marriage certificate1Chinese citizens who apply for marriage within the territory of China must apply for marriage registration in person at the Haoxian marriage registration authority where one of the parties is registered, and shall present the following documents and certificates when requested:

1) Household registration certificate 2) Resident ID card 3) Certificate of marital status issued by the unit, villagers' committee or residents' committee. 2.A Chinese citizen and a foreigner who apply for marriage within the territory of China must jointly apply for registration at the marriage registration authority designated by the people of the province, autonomous region or municipality directly under the Central Government where one of the Chinese citizens has a household registration.

Citizens and foreigners who apply for registration must hold the following documents respectively: (1) Chinese citizens must hold: Certificate of household registration of the person's name, gender, date of birth, ethnicity, marital status (unmarried, divorced, widowed), occupation, nature of work, and who to marry issued by the county-level people** of the place where the family registration is located** or the county-level or above organs, schools, institutions, and enterprises of the unit where the employee works.

2) Foreign nationals must hold: their own passport or identity and nationality documents in lieu of passports.

Legal analysis: In terms of civil liability, failure to obtain a marriage certificate and no marital relationship belong to a cohabitation relationship, and there is no such thing as a de facto husband and wife, but it may violate criminal legal liability and the crime of bigamy.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.

Article 1051 Marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:

a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.

The two get married and hold a banquet, and if they have a child without a license, can they ask the woman for the money back?

Dear, hello, according to your question, the two get married and have a banquet, can you ask the woman to return the money to the woman if you have a child, will I answer for you, yes, if you don't get a marriage certificate, you generally need to return the bride price. However, because both parties have already given birth to a child, the bride price will be refunded according to the specific circumstances. Where a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, if it is ascertained that the following circumstances apply, the people's court shall support it:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; (2) The parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities but do not live together; (3) Premarital payments and skillfully cause hardship to the payer.