I have a favorite online dating partner, are online dating all unreliable?

This period of time hit me hard, and my friends around me took off their singles one after another, and I was still a mother-to-fetus solo.

When asked how I met my partner, seven or eight times out of ten said that I met on a one-on-one online dating platform, which made me refresh my view of online dating.

Is it easy to get rid of one-on-one online dating? Is online dating reliable? In the past, I may have held an opposing view, but after watching my friends' online dating partners, I actually feel that it is not bad to be able to get rid of singles online on the one-to-one online dating platform.

In today's society, which is told by information technology, online dating may become the mainstream single mode, and single dogs who want to get rid of singles in front of the screen might as well go to the one-to-one online dating platform to try it, in case they try to get rid of the singles?

Which platform is reliable for online dating? Is it easy to get rid of singles in online dating? If you want to successfully get rid of a single through online dating, you must first choose a reliable and effective online dating platform.

Playing games and online dating is generally the most common, and I have a few friends who met with the object of pesticides. There is no love in esports, and if you are good-looking, then I didn't say it.

In order to succeed in online dating in the game, you generally need to have one of the following characteristics: good voice, technical thief, equipment kryptonite, and people are particularly interesting.

If you don't have any of the above characteristics, then take a look at efficient online dating platforms such as Mosheng and Miyi.

Users need to authenticate their avatar identity when entering, which reduces the probability of photo fraud to a certain extent, and makes friends more sincere and reliable. It is necessary to deepen the intimacy with each other in order to turn on interactive functions such as **voice**, and the relationship is gradually more natural. If you fancy the other party, you will have a conversation and chat, and it is simple to get rid of a single online relationship.

You can know if the online dating platform is reliable, but you need to distinguish whether the online dating partner is reliable or not.

Online single-out is a process of generating quality from quantity, and it cannot be as easy and reliable as recommended to us by relatives and friends in reality.

Therefore, when expanding your social circle through the Internet, you must pay attention: preventing being deceived is the first priority.

Online dating is indeed very unreliable, because two people have no emotional foundation in reality, which will make people feel very unacceptable.

It can't be said that it is unreliable, but most of them are unreliable, because you don't know what kind of person is on the other side of the screen, and character and personality cannot be known through the Internet.

No, some online dating is still very reliable, you can communicate more, develop from the Internet to reality, and then continue to date to see if the other party is suitable for you.

The main thing is to look at his character, I think it's better if his character is good, if you can't tell the difference, then don't go online dating.

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From the perspective of gender psychology, the so-called "high-frequency chat" can give rise to the illusion of love, but very few can give rise to a positive feeling of love.

In other words, the biggest difference between online dating and real dating is that the former is actually the process of "we fall in love with the ideal partner in our fantasy", but it is the process of "we have feelings with a real individual".

Why do most people involuntarily be cranky, sensitive and suspicious when dating online?

That is to say, the image of our partner that we construct only through online chatting is often the product of secondary processing of the imagination.

At the same time, only 30% of our construction of this person's image is real at most, and the rest is all from "subjective conjectures of self-rationalization".

Maybe the person on the other side of the screen just sent you a ** for a delicate breakfast, and you can't help but make up "He may be a self-disciplined person who understands life", but this may not be the case;

Maybe the person on the other side of the screen sent a ** in a suit and leather shoes, then you will be more willing to believe that "he is a young and promising successful person", but the reality may be worlds apart;

Maybe the person on the other side of the screen suddenly ignores you one day and becomes cold to you, and you start to be sensitive and suspicious, anxious, and wonder if he doesn't like me at all, but it may not be the case.

There are three reasons why online dating is considered unreliable.

First of all, online dating is not safe.

The human brain is not really good at distinguishing between lies and truth.

In the age of the Internet, many people don't know what kind of person is on the other side of the network.

The girl saw netizens for thousands of miles and found that her confidant lover was Uncle Zhang from the next village", "Online chat Sanlu Hong took a month and was deceived of 300,000 yuan". “

Therefore, we are prone to have a feeling: online dating is unreliable, because under the various virtual packaging of the Internet, it is difficult for us to distinguish whether the other party is sincere or has ulterior motives. ”

Secondly, online dating is too illusory.

In the Internet age, anyone can easily create a digital "perfect self", which is called "self-presentation" in psychology.

Many people show the boss a circle of friends who absolutely show all kinds of late-night overtime eating instant noodles;

The circle of friends for students to show is to show all kinds of scenery to receive awards and have a successful career. “

So, what the online dating partner shows, is it that early to build a real self? ”

Online dating is too far away.

Online dating may not only be far away from reality, but it may also be too far away for two people.

Many people are in love in reality, but because of work and study, they are forced to live in different places and become online dating.

Slowly, seeing each other once a month, once every three months, once every six months, and once a year, it is difficult to maintain a long-distance relationship.

The Internet is just a means and way for people to know each other, through the network can only know, and must be through the actual meeting, communication, mutual experience, in order to understand a person, in order to produce real love.

Internet-based love, without actual meeting and actual life interactions, is not considered love.

Online dating, many times, is not dying from seeing the light, and many people have not survived to meet each other, so they have exhausted each other's patience in the increasingly dry topics, and slowly become uncontacted.

So, why is online dating so unreliable so many times?

First: Some software limitations are scattered and they are completely unaware of each other.

If the love on software such as WeChat QQ is unreliable, then the feelings on some social software can not be called love, at least WeChat QQ This kind of software can also have a general understanding through the circle of friends, but some software has nothing more than typing and voice to understand each other, that is to say, you don't know each other at all.

Feelings are something that can not be encountered, what kind of fairy love can make you like a stranger when chatting? Normally, it's impossible, maybe you will become dependent on him because of your habit of chatting with him, but it can never be called love, that is not love.

Second: the pastime of the emptiness of the mind.

The pace of life is too fast now, and when you enter the society, you will find that more often than not, you are alone, and you may live a comfortable life. But you will always feel lonely, especially at night, when human emotions are at their most vulnerable, so don't decide what to do at night.

Long nights, no intention of sleeping, you always have to do something, at this time many people choose this kind of software, chat on it or flirt with girls.

There are always some stupid people who think that this is meeting love, but in fact, it is not necessarily, it is just a pastime for most people. Even if he said some love words, it was just to make up for the emptiness in his heart, and most people have this kind of psychology, and no one will pin their love on this kind of software, believe me.

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Third: I just want to change circles.

It must be boring to the point of bursting, sometimes there is nothing to play with a mobile phone, and if you want to WeChat QQ, you can only chat with acquaintances, and contact this kind of software is just to chat in a different circle.

What kind of people will play this kind of software, it must be idle and bored, and people who have nothing to do will go to someone to chat. That's right, more often than not, he is just a tool for chatting, and all he pays is the power and traffic of his mobile phone, let alone unreliable without any emotion.

Fourth: Feelings are too casual.

I remember when WeChat first emerged, there was a function called Shake, QQ had a name called nearby people, at that time, as long as this function was opened, there would be a lot of people who took the initiative to talk, and those people would say Can you send me your **? Object?

Words are the things that can directly reflect a person's quality, a reliable man, when you chat with him, you will feel that his every word is very serious.

But an unreliable man always runs the train with his mouth full when he speaks, especially this kind of stranger who has no contact with Wang Xu's family, and he wants to say whatever he wants.

And it's not just with you, he will also come into contact with many other people, similar to a wide range of nets, this kind of relationship is too casual, anyone can be casual, as long as it's the opposite sex, people who are not reliable or stupid know it.

Online dating is unreliable, because online dating is generally more unreal, and online dating things generally mean that many of the above people may be fake, so sometimes talk about feelings in words, do you think it is reliable? So don't take it seriously.