Love has experienced too much, and it is very pessimistic to seek healing!!

You're out of love. Do you have parents?

Are you healthy?

Have you eaten enough?

Do you have water to drink?

Do you have clothes to wear?

Do you have shoes to wear?

Do you have a place to stay?

Did you know that 1+1=2?

Do you know the next sentence of the bright moonlight in front of the bed?

You count what you have.

Isn't it a lot.

There are even more than 100 of them.

In fact, you are very happy, what is the use of being pessimistic.

At most, it increases the aging of the heart, the sadness in the heart, and the tears in the eyes.

Thinking about suicide? Look at your parents' smiles.

What will their smiles look like when you kill yourself?

The breakup of two people makes four people happy, why not?

She doesn't love you? She loses someone who loves her, and you lose someone who doesn't love you.

You're pessimistic.

Her loss is relatively large.

Looking at the sky, isn't it blue, isn't it very wide.

Touching the water, isn't it very cool, is it very refreshing.

Smile in the mirror and you're happy.

**Can't ask for it.

If you want to be optimistic, the wound will heal on its own, although sometimes it hurts to the touch.

You don't want to be optimistic that the wound will be bleeding all the time, red and blind.

You don't have to love anymore, since you want to **, it means that you haven't lost faith in love, but I want to tell you that all feelings are unreliable, it's best to rely on yourself, and experience it yourself.

Last year, we didn't leave each other, and only sent a glass of wine with sorrow. At dusk, it rained and snowed, and his clothes were wet and his head was white.

Love comes from long-term faith, not the encounter of calcium carbide sparks.

Look at the jokes and educate yourself.

Find another beautiful woman to fall in love with.

Those who are not destined for her. This is the main argument you persuade her.

Tell me about the coincidences between you, and it shows that there is a fate between you.

How old are you? If you leave her for fear of delaying your youth, then how dare she stay with you? And if it's for true love, what's the point of waiting?

If you are really not young, try to be good to her, and then inadvertently talk about what your parents forced to marry, but don't be too deliberate, you will be disgusted, if she really loves you, and feels that she owes you something, the proposal is easy to succeed

Hehe, what else can you do with such a young and beautiful relationship? Stick to her, nothing is more precious than sincerity, she will understand

From my point of view, I think it's the girl who has been hurt and doesn't have the courage and confidence to love anymore, what you have to do is to make him very sure that you like her, and if you really like him, prove it with action.

What is she waiting for? If you really like her, get along well and be more proactive, so that the relationship will naturally go further.

Although I feel that I am still too young, but this text of yours still touched me In the third year of junior high school, I am also a crush of my crush I have never forgotten her If I love her, I have to give her happiness Think about it seriously.

After getting along for a long time, it is inevitable that you will be emotionally invested, first of all, before you determine the relationship, you should have some understanding, including character, personality, whether you are responsible, motivated, etc., calmly consider whether you can accept some of his shortcomings, and don't be carried away by love. Secondly, don't rely too much on others for your financial independence, put more energy on your work, and have your own career. Secondly, you should have your own interests and hobbies, don't stick to each other too much, and maintain a certain sense of mystery is more conducive to getting along with the two.

You believe me. Any man and woman in love can't control their feelings. You don't try to control it. It's impossible. If you can control it. That only proves that you don't love him.

The first is to learn to respect each other, the second is to learn to set life goals, and the third is to treat love as a happy experience in life and enjoy it.

The more you care! The more you get involved! The more it hurts, the more it hurts! Don't care too much!

Go with the flow! But what you say is not engaged at all, that is separation!

Because there's more time together! Feelings will be slowly invested, that's not up to you! It's not for us to dominate!

When dating, don't give too much, for example, there are some things that can be done or not, and if there are really difficult things, don't be difficult for yourself, wronged yourself, so that if you don't take action, you won't want to ask for it from him, and your feelings won't be so entangled.

Scold! I'm looking at my diary today when I first got together with him. It's the same idea, always unwilling to give much emotion. At that time, I always thought that I would break up in the future anyway, and there was no need. Later ......The more I resisted, the more I fell in love with him.

So it's ......Don't think about not investing too much emotion, if you don't like it, you can't be emotional. But if it's right for you or you like it, you can't control your heart.

The key is, don't think too much about it when you're in love, and don't be too deliberate.

The more you think about it, the more melancholy it will become, and it is better to face it boldly.

After a long time, you will have feelings! There's no way if you don't want to invest in it! There's no way to control that! This is mortal!

If you can't fully trust it.

You just can't love it completely.

If you don't want to invest too much, don't trust someone completely.

Otherwise, you will sink deeply, deeply.

But when you trust someone completely.

Explain that this person is worthy of your trust.

If it's not worth it, do it like the one I just said.

Hehe, are you trapped by love? Feel like you're getting too emotionally invested in what the other person doesn't seem to realize? If it's really someone you love, you'll think that what you're doing is worth it and doesn't need anything in return.

Moreover, many people think that they give to each other, then the other party gets, and they give, this kind of thinking is not necessarily appropriate, if you feel happy when you invest in your feelings, then you should think that your own investment is only responsible for your feelings, that is what you do voluntarily, and you do these things just for the sake of a better emotional life.

If you're just tired and tired when you're emotionally engaged, then maybe it's time for you to give up.

Don't invest too much emotion Maybe you don't want to talk to each other If you really don't want to talk to each other well, you should take the initiative to break up or make it clear to the other party that it is an ordinary friend relationship So as not to fall into the emotional whirlpool in the future I don't know what to do If you are forced to be trapped by your career and really love each other Just don't want to affect your future because of love Career You have to endure the pain of cutting love You must give up one side Because "two fists to beat people" is a taboo In the end, maybe both are not handled well It will outweigh the losses If this is the case I hope you will be cautious, and I hope that my advice will be enlightening to you.

Find one or several things that interest you, dig deeper, dig hard, work hard to study and study, and focus more energy and attention on your career and life, on the one hand, this can increase your competitiveness in life, on the other hand, you can make your busy self have no more energy to think about emotional problems, and this is how you can enrich yourself and make yourself more attractive, if you can do it, not only can you entertain yourself and improve yourself, but more importantly, you might as well invest too much in one person That person will naturally be so attracted to you because of your endless attraction that they will not want to leave you.

It's okay to have a little bit of a flower heart!!

Find someone to love first!

You have to think about the other person's shortcomings at all times.

Find someone who loves you very much, but you don't love him or her very much

Here's a suggestion for you.

1.If you want to talk, talk about it wholeheartedly. Or don't talk about it.

Find someone you don't feel like, and you won't be committed.

Then don't talk about it, can you really like someone without being emotionally invested?

If you don't like it in particular, you won't invest a lot.

It's very simple, just treat your lover as a good friend.

Do what you do to your friends, do to your lovers.

There is no right or wrong in love.

All hands and feet do this because of love.

So your love is pure.

A person cannot be cherished.

It needs to be cherished by two people.

Love is the most rare thing in life, and it must be cherished.

Love is a very illusory thing When you haven't experienced it, I think it's a very simple thing, and after experiencing it, I know that love needs two people who really love each other to care for and love Love is actually very fragile If you're not careful, it will slip away from you, so no matter how much I've experienced, I'll yearn for the love that belongs to me, hoping to find my other half.

Love is not a simple flower, love is a very fragile thing, it needs to be painstakingly managed.

When love experiences too much harm, it has deteriorated Love, not to hurt anyone If it is love for the sake of hurt, is it still love? Oh.

Do you think love will deteriorate What do you think love is How do you understand love Do you think you understand love I said. You're still young, don't think about it so much, it will only give you too many troubles, why bother, how good it is to be happy, be happy, be happy, be happy...You know, don't worry me.

Just say what you are saying now, and talk to your girlfriend.

Usually communicate with your girlfriend a lot to see where her pressure comes from. Whether it's family, or work, etc.

When you find out that it originates, then you have to work together to overcome all the difficulties together.

Usually give her confidence, but also give yourself confidence, believe in yourself.

I wish you lovers to be married.

You get married. Marriage can give a woman the greatest sense of security.

I don't feel safe either. I'm worried about the future. Because my boyfriend's mom doesn't seem to like me very much.

Plus there aren't many people you know in this strange city. Too lazy to meet new people.

Seeing my friends leave here one after another, I am really pessimistic that there is no good result between me and him. Yesterday I went shopping by myself. I bought myself a tail ring for myself.

I think that's a good wish. I've always wished he could buy a couple ring and wear it together. But no.

I think what if your current financial situation doesn't allow you to get married. Then buy her a ring. Preferably for couples.

Wear them together. Tell him to wait for you to fight and then marry her. When she misses you, look at the ring on her hand.

You will give her a great future.

Believe me. If a man says that to me. I will definitely be moved to marry him.

So. A ring or some kind of token is important. Girls need gifts.

If you give her a little surprise every now and then. Buy some small gifts. I guess that's the best.

I wish you all happiness.

Then you will try to make a good life for you.