Can Reading Get Rid of Loneliness Get rid of loneliness with reading

You can't get rid of loneliness, it's just that when you focus on one thing, you don't feel it, and when you're free, you start to feel it again.

Everyone has to learn to live with loneliness, and the best way to do that is to divert attention.

No, but you can get rid of the feeling of loneliness for a while, especially when you are alone and quiet.

No, you can't get rid of your loneliness no matter how much you read.

It depends on what kind of mentality you have treated.

If your mind is not calm, you can't read a book.

If you're not bothered, and you just want to have some time to play, that's a great way to do it.

Anyway, when I'm lonely, the more I read, the more lonely I feel.

Because I don't like to be alone all the time.

Absolutely.

Lots of fun on the books.

Good luck friends.

If reading can relieve loneliness, then why are the loneliest people throughout the ages who are readers?

It is recommended that you go outdoors more, spend more time with friends, spend more time with your lover, and if you don't have a lover, then find a lover.

Only by being happy and getting along with others can you truly get rid of loneliness.

We need to put the problem into practice....It's not good to bury your distress in books, it reminds me of feudal students.

Immerse yourself in it!

Everything is inferior, only reading is high", although it is only the highest flattery for scholars in ancient times, it also interprets the importance of reading to a person from another aspect. Bacon also once said that books are the ladder of human wisdom, and along this ladder, not only wisdom is accumulated, but also the value of a person. However, in an era when utilitarianism reigns and all beings are noisy, reading seems to have become a luxury, but only reading can best keep people quiet and solemn.

The meaning of reading is to make people open their mouths, get rid of contemptible, gain new knowledge, increase knowledge, and broaden their knowledge; The meaning of reading is to make people more humble, more accessible, not stubborn, not paranoid; The meaning of reading is also to cultivate temperament and morality; The significance of reading is to enable people to clearly recognize the phenomenon and essence, so as to understand themselves and shape themselves.

In general, people who have not developed the habit of reading are imprisoned by the world in front of them in terms of time and space. His life is mechanical, stereotyped, he only talks to a few friends and acquaintances, he only sees what is happening around him. So, when he has nothing to do, he feels lonely and lonely.

By reading books, our lives will become fulfilling. A poet of the Song Dynasty once said: If you don't read it for three days, you will feel that the language is tasteless and the face is hateful.

It means that reading books gives people an elegant flavor. Reading for this purpose is called art. Only by treating reading as an art can we feel the joy in it, obtain the "taste" of the book, and then express this flavor in conversation.

In order to get rid of loneliness, our best choice is to pick up a pat book - a good book with a special "flavor", open it, calm down, savor it, and you will immediately enter a different world, and you can meet the most talkative people in the world. This talker will guide you forward, take you to different countries or different times, or vent some personal regrets to you, or talk to you about some learning or life issues that you don't know. Not only that, but you are often led away by books in a state of thought and introspection.

You know, the best reading is the kind of reading that takes us into a contemplative state of mind, and what we read in a book is completely different from what we see with our own eyes, because what is narrated in a book often becomes a scene. Through the imagination of the scene in the book, your vision will unconsciously expand, and you will unconsciously meditate, so your thoughts will precipitate, transform into the flavor of your own conversation, and internalize into an elegant temperament. However, not all books have this effect, we can only feel the taste of reading according to our own preferences, in order to find a similar mind to ourselves, just like when we meet an object we fall in love with at first sight, there is nothing wrong with it at that moment, her height, face, hair color, tone of voice and laughter are just right.

At this moment, even if we are still lonely, but the mood is surging like a river and a sea, and the word loneliness will be far away from our world. Therefore, when you are lonely, read a book by your favorite author and enjoy the fun of life in the book.

When you fall in love with books, being alone becomes a carnival for yourself. At a book sharing session, a reader asked writer Liang Xiaosheng: "What are the benefits of reading habits for people?"

Liang Xiaosheng said: "Reading can make people have the ability to resist loneliness for a long time. "In life, many people indulge in various social activities, play games, and brush **, and often only feel empty in the end.

And I don't know if it's going to be ** in a flash, and there will be some discomfort in people's bodies, such as: dizziness, chest tightness, backache and other symptoms. There is really no benefit and all kinds of harm.

When you spend your leisure time reading, you can resist the lack of your heart with the magnificent scenery in the book. Dou Wentao once talked about in "Round Table Pie" that when he was amusing when he lived alone, he locked himself in the study. You can go up to two weeks without going downstairs, but you never feel lonely or lonely.

After eating in the morning, I started to read a book, and when night fell and I closed the book, I only felt full and peaceful. Takashi Saito, a Japanese educationalist, said, "As long as you can fill the time you spend alone with reading, you can reduce the loneliness in your heart."

In the years to come, those meaningless dinners, gatherings, and activities, etc., don't go if you can.

Free up your heart and time, pour a cup of fragrant tea, and hold a good book. In the solitude of the gift of reading, face to face with yourself, listen to your inner voice, and enjoy your life. How many people yearn for this situation, and how many people can stay away from the hustle and bustle to achieve a cup of weak tea and a thin book?

In the end, people still have to be satisfied with their three-point belly to think about the poetry and distance in their hearts. Let's settle slowly, and one day we will reach it.

As a kind of spiritual food, books can indeed alleviate the loneliness in our hearts to some extent, in addition to enriching our spiritual world.

1. Reading is a process of dialogue with the author

The process of reading a book is like a conversation with a master, because each book is a presentation of the essence of the author's thoughts. If you read a book with a dialogue with the author, you will find that interactive feeling of dialogue with friends.

2. Reading is the spiritual activity with the lowest threshold

In our society, the cost of communication between people is actually relatively high.

If you want to communicate with strangers, it may be a process of getting acquainted with each other and slowly understanding each other's trust, and whether the other party can be your mentor and friend in the process, and whether they are willing to listen to your inner voice is an unknown process.

For reading, it can be regarded as a process in which we can receive rewards when we take the initiative to pay. The book is there, as long as you are willing to listen to the author's voice with your heart and record the essence of your thoughts, in fact, this is a process of collision of ideas.

3. Reading books will change people's perspective on things

When people don't have much knowledge, they may think that they often feel lonely and need external recognition to grow. But when we read more books, we will find that our perspective on things becomes more mature, and our happiness is not based on the approval of others.

You will slowly realize that it is entirely up to you whether you are lonely or rich inside. You can enjoy the colorful collision of ideas in the book, and at the same time, you can also enjoy your own peace and tranquility.

So from this point of view, reading books can indeed relieve us of loneliness in our inner world.

Reading books can enhance the feeling of life. Reading will make a person more acute, can discover the colorful details of life, and find and feel different beauty and pleasure. Last year, there was a difference between reading and not reading in the circle of friends, and when others sighed that "Luoxia and the lonely bird fly together, and the autumn water grows together in the sky", you can only:

Oh my god, so many birds! Oh my God, it's beautiful! "It's a joke in the circle of friends, and it's true.

Also go to the ancient city of Phoenix, when you shout and complain about the ancient city of China. In the eyes of others, it is a beautiful sentence written by Shen Congwen, "A small river flows out of the high mountain stream, brings together thousands of mountain streams, and runs along the ditch with cedar forests on both banks. In the homes of those people on the riverbank, you can often see white-faced, long-haired, and smiling women. ”‍

What we now say about "reading" refers more to the reading of non-textbook books. When it comes to the role of reading, it is to purify the soul, cultivate sentiment, improve skills, etc. To put it in layman's terms, it is actually only for the following purposes (which may not be comprehensive):

1. Seek solutions to problems in occupation, work, physiology, psychology and other aspects from the book. 2. Enhance our ideological understanding and improve our outlook on life, world outlook and values. 3. For entertainment and pastime, to pass the time of boredom.

These goals can be achieved through reading, which may be the role (benefit) of reading, and it is also the reason why we encourage more reading. ‍‍

What are the benefits of reading? Presumably, this issue is of great concern to everyone.

Writer Liang Xiaosheng said one thing in "Reading is the most worthy of paying".

In a conversation with college students, Zehuai was asked: What are the benefits of reading habits to people? I have a few of them, and the last one is that --- can give people the ability to resist loneliness for a particularly long time. They laughed. I can see that they don't think so.

Liang Xiaosheng believes that reading can resist loneliness, which I very much agree with. For example, if I read a book carefully, I can go out for a long time without being disturbed by the outside world.

With books as a companion, this process is happy and enjoyable, and people who don't like to read think that you must be very lonely and lonely.

Actually, no, he just looks lonely on the outside, but in fact, he is full and rich inside.

It is not enough to be able to read, but also to learn to write, learn to express, and achieve output and input, so that the process of reading can be truly completed.

Some people read hundreds of scumbag books a year, but if you ask him, what is said in the book, he can't say it, and he can't write it with a smile, he only knows whether the book is well written, and how good it is, he can't express it.

If you can't express it, it means that you haven't really absorbed the book knowledge and have not transformed the book knowledge into your own inner knowledge.

Therefore, it is very important to learn to write.

If you also love to read books, especially classics, but you don't know how to write book reviews and write reviews after reading, don't worry, I can teach you by hand.

In 2020, I earned 50,000 or 60,000 manuscript fees by reading a novel**, and my annual income exceeded six figures, which was achieved while reading and writing while taking care of my children.

So, don't always say that you don't have time, time is like water in a sponge, there is still something to squeeze it. Don't be afraid that you don't have a foundation, the foundation is built from scratch.

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