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1.All kinds of efforts, become better than him, better than him, then there is no regret. Many times reluctance and unwillingness are very similar, making it difficult to distinguish.
When you become better than him, you will suddenly realize whether you are willing to lose a potential stock, or you are really reluctant to be a person.
2.Find the next one. I used to think that this was a very irresponsible approach and unfair to each other, but since time didn't work for me, I felt that new talent was the best medicine.
How do you know that your new term isn't the right person you're looking for? But a word of advice, if you don't have any good feelings at all, you just choose to be with the new one because of loneliness or revenge on your ex, or let others live with yourself.
3.Recognize whether the other person is a person who deserves to continue to like you. After a breakup, many people will magnify each other's strengths while ignoring each other's shortcomings and shortcomings.
Be sober and don't live in the world of your own memories. Yes, there are many people who break up because of all kinds of unspeakable hidden diseases, but life is not a serial. Many people are separated just because of a simple lack of love.
Stop believing the other party's white lies, stop comforting yourself and the other party is reluctant. However, if you are really reluctant to give up, you really love enough, age, distance, personality, and even gender are not a problem. The most terrible thing is that when you can't let go and are still clinging, maybe the other party has already forgotten you.
So, recognize it and don't live in your own world.
4.Go on a tour. Many people choose to travel after falling out of love, and if the economic conditions allow, this is indeed a good way.
Go to a new place, feel a new life, and leave everything about your ex in the memory, in the past. Going to different places will broaden your horizons, give you a new experience of life, and make you understand that she is just a small episode of life. Don't revisit your hometown, it will only increase your sadness, don't say anything about revisiting your hometown to completely let go of him and her, when you return to your hometown, your eyes are full of you and his happy past, which will only make you hurt and hurt.
5.Develop new hobbies and meet new people. A new life will give you new feelings, so that you will gradually not indulge in the past and cannot extricate yourself.
6.Do not numb yourself by drinking, smoking, or depraying. Drink to dispel sorrow and sorrow. It's even more lonely after the revelry. Love life more and give yourself a little more positive energy.
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Time will dilute all pain, heartache is an experience of the soul, when you can rationally transfer this emotion, not for a long time, it means that you have grown and improved.
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Think more about happy things, or find more things to do, and forget the heartache when you are not idle.
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I can't forget the feeling of heartache in this life, so I can only find a way to bury it in my heart.
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The feeling of heartache is really uncomfortable, why do we all know to cherish it when we regret it!
I still think about a lot of things now, but I hope that I can keep reminiscing, let my mood gradually calm down, maybe one day, I will no longer be sad when I think about these fragments and touch these long-lost things again.
There is a kind of happiness called forgetting.
Is that the case?
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Get some sleep and start the day.
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The feeling of heartache cannot be forgotten and will be remembered for the rest of my life.
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In the process of falling in love, I believe that everyone will attach great importance to the relationship between the two, and I believe that everyone hopes to go to the marriage hall with the object of their liking, but there are many things in life that are often opposite, and the road of love is very long, and there are many bumps in the road. Everyone says that the current relationship and love are becoming cheaper and cheaper, in fact, it is enough to reflect the current state of love, so is your love smooth sailing?
In love, it is normal for Qingliang to have some bumps, for girls, they will care more about feelings, if they experience heart-wrenching feelings, they will definitely be difficult to forget. So should the heart-wrenching feelings be forgotten or remembered? Today, with my personal experience and detailed analysis and analysis, I believe it will be helpful to you:
1. We should remember the heart-wrenching feelings.
As far as I know, there are many girls who will experience heart-wrenching feelings in the process of falling in love, only after these feelings can they make themselves stronger step by step, and only after emotional hurt can they let themselves know how to keep themselves in the relationship. Therefore, I personally think that we should remember more about the heart-wrenching feelings, so that we can make our future feelings better and our lives happier in life.
Second, don't be too sad while remembering.
There are a lot of girls who are grieving after a breakup, and I think this kind of performance is not particularly good, but it will have a greater impact on personal emotions. Heart-wrenching feelings are like a lesson in our lives, we must remember the lesson but remember it at the same time, we can't be too sad, so that we can harvest more experience, so that we can let ourselves get more growth.
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Summary. Dear, people can only change themselves, regulate their emotions at any time, and remember what should be remembered. Forget what you should forget. Change what should be changed. Accept what you should accept, so that it is in line with the laws of nature and in line with your own way of survival.
Hello dear, if it's convenient, can you tell me about your heart-piercing pain? I'll help you analyze and answer.
Hello dear, in this case, the heart-piercing pain is a crack hole that is not easy to forget, because it is a pain that pierces the heart. Dear, talk about grievances, I'll help you analyze the socks pure answer.
Dear, only when the wound is seen by the doctor can there be a way to diagnose and heal faster.
In this case, there are several or good situations. One, dear, only Zi Yi Bu lead knows the reason for the bitter argument, let himself come out of it. Second, dear, if you change the environment, you can change a state of mind, that is, let the heartache be replaced by the beginning of a good mood.
Three, dear, to speak out about your pain, that is, to give others the opportunity to heal your heartache, in order to change your heartache.
Dear, people can only change their own spine, adjust Zheng Qiao's emotions at any time, and remember what should be remembered. Forget what you should forget. Change what should be changed. Accept what you should accept by shouting wild and fierce, so that it is in line with the laws of nature and your own way of survival.
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Hello, deliberately forgetting, is not forgetting. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, in fact, every time I remind the world, I remember him more deeply. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.
One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget him.
If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.
But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.
I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.
I really want to love, but I get the pain of returning to my friend, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?
I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.
I've tried, and I've succeeded. I don't know if it's feasible for you, right? But you can give it a try.
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Why does it hurt so much?
Let's talk about it psychologically.
This is because we always precipitate the feelings of the scattered type at that moment.
The emotions of that moment.
All kinds of things at that moment.
will bring suffocating grief.
In fact, it is a kind of can't let go.
So you can use time to forget.
With the passage of time.
It will be let go.
You can also choose to live another life.
The kind of life that doesn't involve you.
It's a way to distract yourself.
Let other people do other things to fill your heartache memories.
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If you really love, it is impossible to forget, it will only fade slowly with time, it only takes a second to love someone, but it may take a lifetime to forget, and forcing yourself to deliberately forget will only deepen the memory of him, and miss him more and more".
There are always some times when people are lost or at a low ebb, that proves that you have really loved it is better to face the reality, looking for a new relationship will make you slowly forget, the previous injury, time just let your memory talk slowly, not forget.
Love has penetrated deep into the soul, and it is difficult to forget, so it is better to forget what should be forgotten and keep it in the soul.
If you want to forget, you have to die for this love.
Forget that word is. Lose. Heart.
Dead heart is the beginning of forgetting, heartbreak.
It hurts. is numb, slowly talk about it over time, maybe when true love and fate come, Zheng Hao's orange heart will be reborn in the fire like a phoenix.
No matter how inevitable the injury is, it is not easy to give up, but the result of continuing is doomed.
What you lack is not opportunity, but the courage to zero yourself back in the face of opportunity. Confidence.
If you escape for a while, you can't hide for a lifetime.
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Troubles are brought by others.
Happiness is self-made.
Happiness is also a day.
Pain is also a day.
Why don't you spend every day quickly.
Life is your own.
It's all up to you to choose.
Every morning when you wake up.
Give yourself a smile.
No matter how big the difficulty.
There's nothing that can't be done.
I hope you are happy every day.
Sport is a good choice for Chang Stupid. Able to vent the boredom in my heart without harming the body. You can also choose the appropriate way to vent according to your hobbies: karaoke, shopping (don't overspend), and chatting with friends.
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It is not so easy to forget a person, and it is even harder to forget the pain of being hurt.
Everyone may have had this experience, desperately trying to forget someone.
Every day in my mouth I say I'm going to forget. But the more you try to forget, the more you can't forget.
Because while you're forcing yourself to forget. It's also reminding yourself to remember.
So don't deliberately forget, do what you should do, and live the life you should live.
You can make yourself busy, tired, and preferably so tired that you just want to go home and sleep.
That kind of and then wakes up and it's a new day. It's time to hang out with friends.
Have a good time, and vent when you need to. Wait until there is a game like Tiantong gripping, when you suddenly remember, then.
You have forgotten the Limb Scripture because she has become part of the memory.
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Don't want to forget someone.
In the world of emotions, no one can force themselves, and the feeling of the heart is the most important.
The people who miss with their hearts can't be together, and they are very disappointed.
But true love is about making each other happier!
Don't force yourself to forget the past, let go of your hands and let the thoughts creep in.
It's hard to try to forget someone.
What is it to forget?
Many years later, when you meet by chance, or mention this person, or receive his greetings, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.
But it's hard to do, especially when you forget someone you once loved dearly.
To deliberately forget is to forget.
Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.
So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget, one day, when you don't care if you forget, you really forget about the lead mill shed.
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We live in this complex, impetuous and materialistic society, and we will inevitably have such and such troubles and exhaustion, which may be life!! So we should think about it, how can we be happy if there are no troubles??? It's just that when you are worried, you must learn to self-regulate and learn to release your boredom and tired emotions!!
It is recommended that you go out for a trip and change to a new environment, which is easy to let yourself jump out of the original environment and circle, easy to release your mind, easy to open your mind, and naturally calm down when thinking about problems;
2. Find good friends to get together, drink and chat, and vent your depressed mood through alcohol, which is also a way of catharsis;
3. Find an exercise to do and persist for a period of time, so that your heart can temporarily forget everything, immerse yourself in sports, and divert your attention, so that it is easier for you to see your own situation more clearly and make correct judgments;
4. Of course, you can also find someone who no one shouts loudly, which may also release your mood;
Of course, everyone's situation is different, and I hope you can find a good adjustment method according to your own situation!!
Finally, I wish you a happy !!
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