Does character determine a person s fate, and does character really determine fate?

No, fate is in your own hands.

I think that personality has a crucial impact on a person's life.

Every day we have to get along with different people, when you are a child you need to get along with your classmates, when you grow up you have to get along with your colleagues, your boss. No two leaves are exactly the same, and everyone has a different personality, even if they are twins. Things gather by like, people by groups, and people with whatever personality will play with what kind of personality, because your personality also determines what type of friends you are.

Of course, there are also couples who get along well. They are able to respect each other in life. Small noises are pleasant, big noises hurt the body.

It's not that they never quarrel, but that they don't hurt each other's feelings when they do. Two personalities can't be exactly the same, so they know how to run in.

In this way, even if two people have passed the stage of love, they can still maintain their relationship at an appropriate temperature.

Therefore, character determines life, and character determines fate.

Everyone is on the same starting line, but the results are different, some people succeed, and some people do nothing. Pay attention to the winners and losers, in addition to some individual differences (this individual difference is not the key to the success or failure of this thing, under normal circumstances, both people are capable of achieving it), the most important thing is that they have different personalities.

In the village, there are two brothers, an older brother who is cheerful and daring, and an introverted and shy younger brother. All of them graduated from university. All of them chose to work in manufacturing factories in the Pearl River Delta.

My brother chose the human resources department, starting as a personnel recruiter, step by step, through his own efforts, he became a personnel director within five years, with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan. And what about the younger brother? I chose the network department to be a technician, although during this period, the things assigned by the supervisor can be completed on time, but after five years, there are very few salary adjustments, basically adding some seniority.

In fact, the supervisor also wants to give him a salary increase, but there is no reason to say that there is any reason for the salary increase, the younger brother usually does not like to talk, go out to deal with the abnormality, sometimes the user does not know whether he has handled it well or not, and his communication skills are extremely poor.

At the same time, there was another person with the two brothers looking for work. Intelligent, outgoing, and unwilling to be ordinary. In the village, everyone said that he would definitely be able to achieve something in the future, because he was not only smart, but also courageous and willing to fight.

However, after joining the company as an electronic engineer for a period of time with the two brothers, he chose to resign, because the salary of working in the factory could not fulfill his desire to do great things. After resigning, he chose to open a chain of small supermarkets in the industrial area, and the income was not bad. However, in his opinion, such income still does not satisfy him.

Under the encouragement of other people's recommendations, the supermarket warehouse was sorted out and a few mahjong machines were placed, so that the income was several times the original. But the good times didn't last long, because the person who went to play was arrested on suspicion of gambling, and at the same time, he couldn't get out of it, and finally a fine or something came down, and the store basically couldn't open.

The three of them are just a microcosm of the tens of millions of people who live in their lives, and I would like to say that having ideas, pursuits, and motivation is a must for a young person. However, we should give ourselves a reasonable plan according to our actual situation, and strictly implement the plan, step by step to achieve our goals, rather than taking shortcuts in order to achieve our own goals, just like people often say: "smart is mistaken by smart".

There will be no pie in the sky, and unrealistic pursuits will eventually waste their youth, and if they don't grasp it well and embark on the road of crime, their whole life will be ruined.

Only by making reasonable use of their own advantages and being down-to-earth can we go further and walk more steadily.

Character can't determine your fate, don't talk about character.

Adler wrote in his book Understanding Human Nature that the various reactions of the human mind are not absolute or final, in other words, any reaction of the mind is an incomplete response, and its validity is temporary.

Character determines fate, this seems to be a chicken soup that has been circulated for a long time. But I disagree with this sentence more and more, people's personalities are divided into several categories, but can people's fate be the same? Everyone is different, and it mistakes correlation for cause and effect.

Although human personality influences our behavior patterns to a certain extent, it is not fixed. More often than not, it is our fixed cognition, rigid thinking, and automatic response in a habitual way, or evasion or shirk, which will allow us to escape from the dilemma for a while, but it is more likely to become a big obstacle on the road to development.

People who have a successful career and a good family run have people of all personalities, and the same is true for failure. When you hear a suggestion, you can try to do it yourself, don't immediately find a lot of objections, it is useless to refute it, and it will not solve the problem.

Don't jump to the conclusion that others can do it, you can.

I think personality can change fate.

I watched an animated movie "Suicide Store", and the picture at the beginning was that everyone in the town was lifeless, and then a small shop selling suicide supplies did a particularly good job, because everyone wanted to commit suicide, and the tone of the whole movie was gray. The proprietress and the hostess are only angry when they are in front of the guests, because selling these things makes them very frustrated. But that changed after the birth of their youngest son, Aaron.

Aaron was born to laugh. The boss and the hostess felt that he was not normal because he was sunny and optimistic. Later, when Aaron and his friends see someone committing suicide on their way to school, Aaron decides to change the situation in the town.

In short, it is a movie in which the male protagonist uses his optimistic personality to change the lifeless town and make everyone happy. The author and director are very thoughtful.

This is a typical movie where the character changes his fate. In such a small town, Aaron would have been as depressed as they were, thinking about how to end his life every day, but his optimistic personality changed his fate and the circumstances in which he lived.

There are also such people in our lives, who are obviously born very unfairly, but they are still willing to face the world with a smile, and their fate is changed in this character.

Such a statement is not comprehensive, but there is some truth to it.

Personality refers to the relatively stable and core personality psychological characteristics that are manifested in people's attitudes towards reality and corresponding behaviors, and is a personality trait that is most closely related to society, and contains many social moral meanings in personality. Character shows people's attitude towards reality and the world around them and is manifested in his behavior. Character is mainly reflected in the attitude and words and deeds taken towards oneself, towards others, and towards things.

We can see what kind of personality traits you have, and you have a certain tendency in dealing with people. Our destiny is born out of one choice at a time. You have the personality that when faced with certain events or opportunities, you will always make similar choices.

Then you have formed a certain trajectory of destiny.

Of course, in addition to our own choices, we will also be affected by many other influences, such as the circumstances, timing, and the influence and help of your relatives and friends around you. So fate has a lot to do with character. But it's not absolute.

Personality is the external manifestation of a person's overall inner qualities (three views, emotional intelligence, and ability to love).