Will a mother s personality determine whether a child will grow up to be good or not?

The mother has a gentle personality, and the child will be mild, the mother is irritable, the child will also be irritable, and the person who accompanies the child has a very critical impact on the child, so we must pay attention to getting along with the child, try to get along with the child like a friend, understand the child's needs, observe the child's emotions, and guide the child to be a positive and positive character.

I don't think it's decided, it will only have a certain impact, and the decision can't be discussed, it mainly depends on your own hard work.

There is a little impact, but not a decision. The mother's bad personality will subtly affect the child's personality, but the environment in which the child grows up is diverse and will be affected by other factors.

1. You can't go home with emotions.

Before you come back from work, tell yourself to forget about your unhappiness at work. When she returns home, she needs to take on the role of a mother. Don't let your negative emotions affect your child, and don't make your child angry.

2. Be an "ignorant" mother.

Sometimes be an "ignorant" mother and wait for your children to grow up together. Many children don't like to use their brains, and when they encounter problems that they don't understand, or I don't know the words, they directly ask their parents for help, and parents try not to give their children immediately, and don't accuse their children of not even being able to solve such easy problems. A better response would be:

Ouch, Mom doesn't know each other, let's look up the dictionary together, okay? After doing this a few times, when the child encounters complex words again, the first thing that comes to mind is to look up the dictionary at the radical, rather than asking the mother for help.

3. Control your emotions.

After being a mother, my mentality has always been on the verge of collapse, especially when I met a bear child. However, no matter how naughty the child is, the mother must also control her emotions, especially not to blame the child when she has an emotional breakdown. When your child tells you that he did not do well in this exam, you must not lose your temper or look gloomy, it is best to act like no mood swings, and calmly analyze the wrong question set with your child.

If the child can understand his own inappropriateness, the mother will stop being unforgiving, and finally be able to motivate the child and believe that he will be able to pass the test next time.

4. Teach children the courage to deal with failure.

No one can have everything smooth in their life, and when a child encounters setbacks and unsuccessful situations, the mother should mainly show strength and not use mean language to ridicule the child. Soberly inform the child that it does not mean anything if he does not succeed occasionally, as long as he is diligent later, he will definitely succeed.

5. Don't speak to your child in a commanding tone.

Some parents like to instruct their children, and make demands for their children are "you need" and "you should", such mandatory needs will make children have no opinions. Parents are the teachers of children, and the personality of children lies in the behavior of parents to him.

A mother's personality, words, and actions can affect a child's life. Behind a great child there must be a great mother. The child's failure has a lot to do with the mother's personality.

Parents often hit their children, often complain about life, and have a particularly bad temper, if the child is not outstanding, it basically has a lot to do with the mother's character.

When the child tells the mother that she did not do well in the exam today, the mother must restrain her emotions and must not get angry or have a gloomy face, and the child is nervously observing the mother's face at this time.

Children are closely related to their mothers from birth, and some of the mother's habits or personality traits can be learned by the child, so that the mother's influence on the child is so great.

Especially if a mother has a very gentle personality and understands politeness, then in her daily personal behavior, she will be reasonable and gentle, and the child will try to have the correct three views on things in her mother's personality. However, if a mother is usually more impetuous, and she doesn't treat her child so well, then the child is probably trying to be impetuous, arrogant and unreasonable like her mother.

However, the influence of family atmosphere on children is not absolute, so children and parents must be aware of this situation and let the child's personality be effectively improved. The position of the mother in the family is still very high, especially the child's personality and the mother's personality have a very large connection, so pay special attention to this.

Sometimes mothers who are more impetuous and impetuous can't see their children's grinding on some things, especially when they go out to wear shoes, they need to wear them for ten minutes, and when they see such a situation, the mother will begin to complain about why the child is so slow and delays her own affairs. It can be seen that the mother of an anxious child likes to supervise her child when teaching her child, and she will become more anxious.

Some mothers feel very tired to take care of their children by themselves, until their children gradually go to primary and secondary schools, and they start to spend time online every day, sometimes they can't even take care of some things for their children.

When the child sees that his mother likes the Internet so much, he will naturally be interested, and then accompany his mother to the Internet together. In this case, the mother is the wrong child to carry out discipline, but will feel that there is a child to accompany her online, especially happy, which slowly let the child touch the Internet too early, and it is very easy to become obsessed with the Internet.

At present, many mothers are more and more powerful due to their own abilities, and the sentences at home are getting heavier and heavier, and many things at home are controlled by their mothers. Under the care of such a tough mother, the child really has very little communication with his mother, and almost does not carry out small talk with his mother, but simply says hello. Slowly, family relationships will become cold, and there will be no cozy atmosphere.

Like last year's big hit dramas, they were all good, but it was because the mother was too strong, which led to the parents and children in this family not getting along with each other, and a family gradually spread out like this.

Mothers can teach their children to dare to be the first, to try new things, and not to be afraid of failure.

Tantrums are a negative emotion, and mothers often have the following personal behaviors: shouting, jumping feet, or scolding, blaming, arguing, or even waving arms at children. If a mother loses her temper with her child for a long time, it may jeopardize the quality of parent-child communication between the child and the parents, make the child have a negative sense of self, and even jeopardize the child's ability to establish intimate relationships with others and get along with others later.

Mothers love to lose their temper, and children will slowly lose their temper in their later life according to the learning and training they follow, and deal with problems and differences in life and work in this way, resulting in bad personality qualities.

A person is irritable and irritable and usually has a strong association with their family relationships. Often urged by their parents, children will question their sense of rhythm of life, feel that they have something wrong, or slowly recognize their parents and become the same anxious person, or live in a rather procrastinate way, and express their anger at their parents in this passive procrastination method. Children can only continue to train and grow up slowly when they are in the most comfortable rhythm of their own.

Raising a child is a trivial errand, and the more urgent you are, the bigger the problem. Be patient.

Many people know that mothers are very important to their children as much as they are to their families. As the saying goes: marry a good wife and be rich for three generations!

However, a mother who is too tough can be devastating for the family. In front of the powerful mother, there is no reason for the selection of daughters to recognize. As for the child, another situation often happens, and that is that there is no reason to hide.

Because, when the mother keeps scolding and accusing her husband, I feel that I have to reprimand and criticize all men, and the child, as a man, will definitely hide in a corner without anyone like his father. In the long run, the child will give up his own responsibilities, lose the ability to solve difficulties and cope with life alone, and will have no reason to obey and rely on the mother.

It is necessary to set a correct example for the child, understand the child's thoughts, and pay attention to the way of communication with the child, so that the child can become better.

Be sure to spend more time with your child, don't lose your temper with your child, communicate with your child well when you encounter problems, and do these three things well.

I think mothers must be strict in their children's education and not spoil them, lest they form a bad character.