has no direction, no ability, and can t honor his parents.

You're only 21 years old...... aren't you?

Watching the people around him "succeed", with a lot of votes, he didn't make any money, and he couldn't find any direction to make money, and he felt at a loss and had no sense of direction when he looked at his family's poor situation, which was very painful.

I believe that if I show you the way, even if you are hard, poor, and hard now, you will not say that you are dead if you have a hope.

It can be seen that you are very responsible and filial, but now you have drilled the tip of the horns: is it useful to die? Don't talk about the money and energy that your parents spent to give birth to you, just say that the money you earned before was enough for cremation and burial?

In these years, the poor can't afford to live or die, and your parents who love you will be so miserable when they watch them suffer from poverty, but your love is to let them send white-haired people to black-haired people, and the economy is even worse???

Does a person who is not right-handedly flexible have to do work that he cannot do if he is not flexible?

Can't you just learn individual techniques? This road is impassable, there is no need to hit the wall, go back, and change the way. Again, you are only 21 years old, even if you change jobs once a year, there are still 9 opportunities to find your own path, and you will only be established after 9 times!

I don't believe you're going to fail every time, 9 times!

In fact, don't say it's you, many 30-year-olds have entered the state of rubber people, numb and dazed, unable to find the direction, but you still have a young advantage over them! Young people should not be afraid of hardship, don't be afraid of failure, they must work hard in a down-to-earth manner, and slowly always find a path that suits them.

I think you are a very caring person, a person does not necessarily have to be rich to honor his parents, in fact, his parents are satisfied when they see you happy, to be filial to them with effective time to accompany them, and since you have realized your current situation, you should face him, you must have strong faith and will, do not give up, I believe that you will succeed.

Investing in a small business, life is very difficult, but the color is to be experienced by yourself.

I'm sure you can tell me what your experience is eventually.

Believe in yourself. Anyone who is afraid of serious 2 words.

No, I'm 24 and just got a job. I'm stupid, I'm a little fat, and I'm not pretty. But people always have to look forward, you can type on the Internet, there is always a job you do, or you work hard to do the work of migrant workers, the salary is very high.

Don't rely on anyone, your mother is, you too, don't think about honoring anyone, you can help others if you live well. Most importantly, don't give up on today's efforts At this moment, have you worked hard?

Don't worry, boys have such confusion at this age. You work hard and find the right direction, there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts, really, come on. Your mother will be happy because of you, anyone's happiness is not easy to get, you must know how to give.

My eyes are with you where I see you, and my heart is with you where I can't see you.

Zhiqiang does not hesitate to make people unhappy, but as long as they persist, there is a way out.

You first think about what kind of filial piety you want to live, and then start with the smallest changes. It is always said that it can never be changed. Give yourself a short-term goal, if not, first find a job that you can do, with the emptiness that only people will not feel when you have a basic job, try to find the joy of work, take your time, and hope you succeed.

e Your parents have raised you for more than 10 years, and you are so cautious and willing to be decadent? Do you have a conscience about the sedan chair? If you don't have a direction, you can find it yourself, and the Tao is all people and people who come out of it!!

Your parents don't have the ability, you just have the ability, your parents raised you if they didn't have the ability, you dislike your parents now, and your children will dislike you in the future? Remember, filial piety comes first.

The nurturing grace of parents can never be forgotten.

Yes, people who don't have money and want to be filial to their parents are incapable

You must have confidence in what you do, you are afraid of wolves and tigers, can you continue in this way, as long as you are not afraid of hardships and tiredness, you will definitely succeed.

It's not that you can't endure hardship, it's that you accept fear of unfamiliar things and go out for a walk.

It's not that you can't find it, it's that you don't want to find it, now you can find a factory and be a general worker, and you won't do this.

Come to me and learn from yourself! Definitely solve your current problem.

It's really dragging down your parents, but you can't even find the job of moving bricks.

When you were a child, you were required to be obedient and honest, and when you grew up, because honest people are inflexible, they will not make money to honor them, and at this time they dislike you for being honest, and they start to often say in front of you who is smart and how much money they make, and by the way, they count you down, this is what many parents often do, they never care about what kind of person their children's bad words and deeds will turn him into, or maybe such parents have never regarded their children as a tool for providing for the elderly.

You're quite right.

So you have to work hard.

There is hope. Believe that you can do well.

I agree, in today's society, if you have money, you are an uncle, and if you don't have money, you are a grandson.

Got it? Then go for it! If you want others to look up to you, you must first look up to yourself. Start with yourself.

That's it, if it's not good, everyone will hide from it.

Yes, that's how society is! Money talks!

Now see through it to show that you still have to save and try.

You can see through such a simple question, speechless.

If you have the ability, you don't necessarily have money, you also have opportunities.

It does make sense, everyone wants to save face

Of course, money society stupid!

What you say is true and in line with today's society.

Society is like this, when you look down on yourself, who do you expect to look down on you!

If you don't agree, your parents will always be on your side and support you.

Medium, in fact, your parents will help you and will not look down on you for money, unless you are not biological.

I'm in favor of the rest, but my parents can't include it.

One day you will change the way you think now.

Disapprove. If so, they only look at money and not people. Get angry with them. There is no need.

I have a deep understanding of this.

Friend, speak my mind.

Life is not for revenge, the quality of life, filial piety to parents, and taking care of children are not your own business, this is created by the husband and wife.

Everyone comes into the world to walk their own shining point, but you haven't noticed it yet.

It's okay, all the pain is temporary.

What's up. You can't think about it.

Maybe you're not in the right place.

Child, filial piety does not have to be done with money. Money is important, but you have to be careful to give them real happiness. In fact, the old man doesn't want to have children.

Money can't give the elderly happiness, children are safe, and they can always be by the old man's side, so that the old man can be real, happy, and happy.

For parents, filial piety is enough, not necessarily material.

Hello, how old are you, can you talk, I want to know the situation.

Parents are very happy to spend more time with their parents, and material things are not important.

It's not a problem, it's a problem that you have the heart to get stronger.

It's okay to dislike your parents for not having the ability, but you need a premise, you must be financially and mentally independent, and you can't dislike your parents for not being able while gnawing at the old. Second, you have to provide for your parents. If you do both, you can choose not to live with your parents!

After all, people still have to be responsible, some old people feel that their children are not filial and do not accompany them all these are individual, as the saying goes, people are always better to children than to parents, your parents are like this to your grandfather, you are to your father, and your sons and daughters will also be like this to you. Returning kindness is the kindness of parents to their children, and one generation will only repay the next generation

They gave birth to you, and you are their nature.

Things, children don't think the mother is ugly, wait for them.

When you are old, you have to honor them.

Yes, never! Parents are all you have.

Since it is already a reality that parents are incompetent, what's the use of disliking it, it will only embarrass and blame oneself If you are not a rich second generation, you can't be a creative generation When you are envious and jealous of others, you will only sail against the current.

Of course, if you are a person of affection and righteousness.

You can be capable, so that your parents have the capability, at least they have a capable baby.

Being able to support you so much proves that you are very capable I hope you will be more filial and filial to your parents in the future.

It's so good, I don't know how you are still holding on now, it's good, come on, my dad dislikes me for not having a job, because I can't make a lot .........of money for him, so he wants me to marry out as soon as possibleAlas, I don't know how to say it, maybe it was that friend who said it, except for giving birth to me, I have no relationship with him, any feelings, it's so tiring to live, I hate being born in this family and being a daughter.

The gap between us is getting bigger and bigger, if you don't get married, she is afraid that I will find a foreigner, and she will force others to introduce me to get married, and she dislikes me for marrying early, and she has a bigger temper than me in confinement, and she has been holding her breath in my heart The child is also a little older, and she came back to live in her mother's house and lost her temper with me twice a day, saying that other people's daughters have a lot of ability, buy this and buy that, and I have a headache, and I asked what is wrong, and she said, What can I ......do if I tell youSeeing me lose my temper with the child, she is very happy, the child is naughty and has a tantrum, he will be very disgusted with the child crying, he really doesn't want to live for a day, I really wish I hadn't been in this world.

It's like me, I'm a single-parent family, and then after my father remarried, I had a child, and I thought it was a boy, so I was afraid that I would have to pay a fine, so I moved my hukou to my grandparents. My stepmother also treated me badly, and if I missed a meal, I would go hungry, so I would wash my own clothes and cook at a very young age. I was kicked out of the house for the slightest disobedience, and I was only seven or eight years old at the time.

To put it bluntly, you have nothing to do with them except that you were born to them. They didn't teach you anything, they didn't tell you everything about the world, they didn't comfort you when you cried, they didn't share it with you when you were happy, they didn't participate in your childhood, and then they blamed you for not being able to do anything in the end???

I don't even know how to complain, what the hell. I don't know what advice to give you, and I don't know how you can live a better life.

My own idea is that I would rather go out to work outside and rely on myself, living alone, even if I die of illness outside, I will not go home.

Oh. I'm sorry, how can I call it home.

People are not poor, even if they have no education, they can make a lot of money, fight for breath, even if they go to the construction site to work hard, as long as they are willing to endure hardships and learn a technology, they can make money.

I also have low self-esteem, but low self-esteem is inferiority, and you have to pretend to be good in front of others, and no one will respect you because of your low self-esteem, and go into society and start working, even if it is a dishwasher, it is better than spending their money, looking at their faces, and lowering their dignity.

Start with 1, do it with your heart, and you will have anything!