Should the feelings of family and friends be opposed?

In my opinion, the love that the family opposes should continue, and the main body of love is the two lovers, which is actually an aspect of interpersonal communication, and it is a process of people's pursuit of intimacy. (Of course, intimate relationships also include relatives, friends, etc.) a relationship, whether to continue, it is best not to judge by external factors, such as parents do not agree, the gift she gives is not as beautiful as Lao Huang next door, she has no money to buy a house, my colleagues don't like her, you can try to consider the internal factors of both parties in love, such as whether he and my three views are the same, whether I am comfortable with him, can I accept his worst and worst, will she understand my feelings, do I still rarely like her, after all, I want to be with him[She] is not with your family, but with you."

The person who has spent the longest time with the other half is you, the person who sees her with the most characteristics and is most familiar with her should also be you, and you are the one who invests in this relationship. Therefore, the decision to determine whether the relationship will continue or not should be in your hands. Don't break up because your family doesn't think it's a good fit.

Otherwise, when you really break up, your family may complain, "Isn't your relationship very good?" Why did you break up, it was the boy (girl) who split his legs? "Didn't you say that we were not suitable, and told us not to continue?

Oh, I'm sorry, at the time, I was just joking, I didn't expect it, you took it seriously. Break up like this, and it seems that your other half doesn't love you very much. "At that time, you can only eat coptis dumbly - you can't tell if you have bitterness.

This kind of love, it is best to know the reason, parents usually love you, and will not rashly oppose it, you should know the reason for the objection and think rationally. Because this relationship is to prepare to enter marriage, and marriage is no longer just a matter of two people, it is no longer a matter of two people, it has risen to the matter of two families, and the parents of the two families are the most frequent contact, if you want to enter marriage, you must first pass the love of the two of you, and then consider both parents.

Break up, let's not say that your family agrees, unless your family conditions are very good, if it is average, your family has a suite, and it is difficult for you to survive in Beijing (I mean buying a house) If you don't buy a house, you will live with your parents, and there will be many contradictions! And you're used to living in Beijing, can you adapt to going to his house? If you are wronged, you have no relatives there, you are not small, every bit is difficult!

After a long time, the sweetness of love fades a little bit, and it is hard to imagine your future days! So be selfish for your parents.

Break up, he hesitated, which shows that he cares a lot about what his family thinks. Take a step back, even if his family agrees, you still have to be cautious, marriage is not about falling in love, it is a matter of two families. When you get married, you will find that the life you want is not like this, what you want, he can't give it to you, what he wants, you can't satisfy him.

If you want to get married, there will inevitably be a person who will make a sacrifice, judging from what you said, he will not make this sacrifice, he wants to return to his roots, and he will definitely not settle down in your city with you. To put it simply, there is nothing more than a gap between you, the relationship is not deep enough, and you plan early.

If the two parties in love get along well together, then even if the relationship continues, it is a good choice for both parties in love. There is also love, which is originally a subjective and emotional thing, so if it is hindered by objective factors, after rational calculation and judgment of whether to continue, it is difficult to grow into love in that kind of love, even if the lover ends the long-distance love run and enters the marriage hall, it will be difficult to deal with emotional problems in the future.

How to deal with love that is opposed by family and friends?

It should be continued.

1.Honest communication: Communication difficulties often arise between people from different backgrounds, so it is very important to communicate sincerely when it comes to relationships that are not in the right place. Only when you communicate openly and listen to each other's thoughts and feelings can you truly understand each other.

2.Respect each other's cultural differences: Respecting and understanding each other's cultural differences is also an important aspect of a relationship that is not in the right household.

This includes acknowledging and accepting different values, beliefs, customs, etc. When you truly understand and respect each other's cultural differences, your relationship can become more stable.

3.Find the commonalities: Although your old Zen family backgrounds, experiences, and cultures are different, you may have a lot in common. Finding these commonalities allows you to connect on a deeper level. It also allows you to better understand each other's mindset and culture.

4.Acknowledging the reality: If there are significant differences in your family backgrounds, values, and cultures, then you should acknowledge that reality. Sometimes, it means that you don't fit together, which is really unfortunate, but it also has to be realistic.

5.Seek counseling and help: If you want to hold on to this seemingly difficult relationship, consider seeking counseling and help. A marriage counselor, psychologist, family member or friend may be able to help you with many issues and provide constructive advice and advice.

6.Plan well: If you're planning to be together for a long time, you need to plan well. Think about how to deal with family traditions, cultural differences, etc., and decide together how to educate your children and how to maintain the balance between the two families.

7.Accept failure: Relationships that don't go the right way are likely to end up in a breakup.

In this case, you have to take the lead and suffer the defeat and not blame the other person or yourself. It's hard to face, but it's more important to learn from it and avoid similar mistakes.

8.Make sure you're happy: No matter what kind of romance you choose, it's important to ensure your own happiness. A relationship that doesn't have the right door doesn't have to be a failure, but if the relationship has a negative impact on your happiness, don't hesitate to end it.

There are several factors to consider when facing a relationship that your family opposes to:

1.The real motivation for falling in love: The first thing you need to ask yourself is whether you really like this person or if you are in love for some other reason.

If you're only in love because of loneliness, loneliness, or other unhealthy reasons, you should carefully consider whether the relationship is worth holding on, regardless of your family's objections.

2.Reasons for family opposition: It is important to understand the reasons for family opposition.

If the reason for the family's objection is only because of the identity of the romantic partner, social status or some other superficial factors, rather than because of the other person's personality, personality and other problems, then you can try to communicate with the family and let them understand their true thoughts and feelings.

3.Own values: When deciding whether or not to stick with a relationship, you need to consider your own values and life goals.

If the value of the person you are in love with is very different from your own, or it will affect your life goals, then you should carefully consider whether the relationship is worth sticking to, regardless of the opposition of your family.

4.Consequences and responsibilities: The last thing Lu Tan needs to consider is the consequences and responsibilities that come with sticking to this relationship. If the relationship is affecting family relationships, personal development, or other issues, you need to think carefully about your choices.

To sum up, in the face of a relationship that is opposed by family members, it is necessary to consider the real motives for the relationship, the reasons for family opposition, one's own values, consequences and responsibilities, etc., and make a rational choice. Most importantly, early encounters require respect for one's own feelings and choices, as well as the opinions and ideas of family members.

Imagine two futures.

One is the life after being with her.

One is to live after obeying the arrangements of your parents.

Which do you want more.

I'm a 161 man.

Although you are a sister paper.

But your bitterness.

I still know a little bit about it.

To put it bluntly, the initiative is still in the man.

If he was sincere.

Can't you help this little thing?

I'm thinking from a man's point of view, and this sincerity is not a problem.

What you need now is to think about yourself, you're 28. You are a woman. This kind of problem, whether he is introverted or not, should stand up and stand in front of you.

Time will not solve your problems. It's you who drags it out one day. The problem is your boyfriend's attitude.

Let him communicate with his family. If he cares about you, then he'll communicate. Doesn't he know you're 28?

How much longer can you delay?

In fact, it is an irresponsible mentality to let the problem be solved slowly! If I love you, I will have a tough attitude, if I think about it, it is impossible to drag on the problem and wait for the day to solve it! China is always the right one!

Many couples who love each other should break up because of family dissatisfaction! You have to think about the long run, you are tough together, your family is not satisfied, you don't have a good face to show you, it won't be long before you quarrel and there is a problem, why be so stubborn? There are so many trees, why hang yourself from another tree!?

The consequences are here, see how you solve it! Sometimes letting go is love!

He is sincere, he will deal with the incomprehension of the family, if he compromises with his parents, it means that he will still mind your height, even if you don't say it now, he will dislike it in the future, and it will be another after marriage.

Are you kidding here, such a boyfriend can be entrusted for life? Your horizons have also broadened. If he really loves you, his parents have already won for it. You let him tell his parents Lei Feng 162 is still alive in the hearts of the people. Depend on.

Parents can never win against their children. Bless you all.

He is worried that if you transfer jobs for him, he will not be able to give you any future again. Delayed you.

In fact, parents really can't rely on their children. As long as you are firm enough.

The boy is not firm enough, you have to give him a little bit of conviction, you can't wait like this, it will delay you, you have to put a little pressure on him, you have to persuade him.

That's his reason, you have to prepare for the worst.

I think it's important whether he's the person you feel happy and happy about, and it's also important whether he's happy. If he chooses to break up for any reason, it is better to bring it up himself, and whether he loves each other or not is the most important thing. No matter how tall you are, he won't be reluctant to marry you.

If your boyfriend chooses to give up cowardly, let it go. What sense of security can such a weak man give you?

Then cut it first and then play Two people go and get the marriage certificate first Legally you are already a legal husband and wife If you think about it, his parents will think that the children have already obtained the license, and it is not good to divorce It's just that you will be unwilling Unwilling will fade over time For feelings It's a matter of two people What is the height Isn't it just a difference of 20 What is this Back then, my parents were also a lot different Their relationship is also not easy Now it's not the same It's very happy to live together So don't care about those who don't have it You are not married to his parents You're with him, ah, the important thing is that he doesn't mind, why bother with so many pinching? If they embarrass you and underestimate you, this problem may improve after the two of you have a baby, because parents love their children, and you have a baby for their son, so they can't hate their son's mother.

To tell you the truth, you may not like to hear it, judging from your boyfriend's attitude and dedication to you, there is nothing that shows how much he loves you!

Let me solve it slowly, but I don't know how long it will take, and I don't know if I will compromise first or his parents in the end. This kind of guy says this kind of thing, and it gives you the feeling that it has nothing to do with him. What do you mean to compromise first or his parents to compromise first???

No matter how introverted a man is, if he meets someone he really loves, he will not go for it. At least I think so. mm don't be carried away by self-righteous love for a while, if a boy is separated from each other and in love is not as painful as a girl, I think from this point of view, this boy doesn't take you to heart.

You "upside down" him and ignore him again and again, do you think he loves you? Don't end up singing a "one-man show" by yourself, but in the end you can't figure out why? Some feelings you think are real and beautiful, but it doesn't mean that the other person will feel the same way.

Maybe. He just wants to leave some time for you to choose between "giving up" and "forgetting"...In any case, you have to solve your own problems, and the above analysis is purely a personal opinion.

Wishing you happiness!

Good communication with your family is the first thing Don't let love get carried away In love, you also have to weigh the pros and cons and stay rational If you really love each other, I believe your parents will understand But your lover has to act on you Love without bread will not be long-lasting