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Women look at love like a chaotic river, their dreams have both the melting moonlight and the wind and snow during the day, and men need to wait to ignite the flame of love in their hearts. They will scrutinize every clear sky, every shade of greenery, every faint fragrance and every gracious invitation. A woman in her thirties picks up a pen and can write "love" with a sway, and do a good job of in-depth communication.
When the two sides calm down, you can find an opportunity to sit down and discuss how to solve the problem and how to solve it, so that both parties can get relief from this contradictory confusion, and the relationship between the two people will continue.
We need to learn to understand and tolerate each other.
Contradictions are inevitable, and at this time, the whole number needs the understanding and tolerance of the other party, in order to reflect whether the feelings between each other are strong enough, test each other's ability and methods to deal with things, and find a better way to get along with each other in love contradictions, and slowly run in.
Both are willing to pay for this relationship.
Since they have chosen each other, they must regard each other as lovers and confidants, and each other must be willing to pay for each other, without any complaints. It is true that the longer the lovelorn is, the more painful the man becomes, and he cannot start a new relationship for a long time. Let's assume such a situation, suppose a woman what she will do if she falls out of love, she will cry, make trouble, find all her friends to confide in, feel that she is extremely painful, but if a man falls out of love, most of the time we will not be able to see it, that is, he will not say that he will not make trouble, nor can we see him crying, at most smoking and drinking.
It is easy to have the impression that women are actually very nostalgic and very emotional, and men are a little wolf-hearted and a little indifferent, but if this thing goes forward, you will find that half a year later, the women who were crying and can't live can not live, she quickly fell in love with a good-looking male colleague who came to the unit, and then the two of them happily started a new relationship! And this man still looks like nothing has happened, and the silence is golden, but he has never entered a new relationship!
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The above routines are not deep enough, give you a dry goods, and use it directly!
1. Send a delicious **, say you must be hungry, if the girl says she is hungry, then you can say that I am hungry too, my friend sent it to me, it's so hateful, I know a shop that is better than this, let's try it together.
2. When it's time to eat, send a voice message or call ** to the girl, saying that I heard your stomach already growling, there is a restaurant not far from you, the environment is good, the taste is good, you must like it, let's go eat well!
3. Ask girls according to their body type, if you are very thin, say that you are too thin, you should eat more, I invite you to eat delicious, you must like it. If the girl is slightly fat, it means that she is not fat, and she is still **, so make an exception today and go eat delicious food with me.
4. You can ask the girl, what to choose to eat every day, you help me think about it, when the girl tells you the answer, you can take the opportunity to invite the girl: "What you said is so delicious, let's go eat together".
5. It is said that the newly opened restaurant does not cost money to eat more, anyway, I don't believe it, why don't we go and teach the young boss a lesson?
6. Have you not been able to eat spicy food recently, let's go eat something light, you must like the shop I chose, I heard that it is very good to eat.
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The first thing you need to do when you ask someone to eat is. Let him let down his guard against you. We can write the following kinds of high emotional intelligence.
's dating skills to ask her out.
1: When I went out with my friends to run errands today. I stumbled upon this restaurant and I thought I should share it with you.
I want to take you to experience it too, because the atmosphere here is very good, and the food is very delicious. Saying this can be a good way to dispel the other person's vigilance.
2: Recently I found a great restaurant, and the food here is definitely something you like to eat, I can take you to try it when I have time. Nowadays, girls are more enthusiastic about food, and when you tell her that you have found a particularly delicious restaurant, girls will not think too much about it at this time.
It's easy to ask her out for dinner.
3: Can you do me a favor? I have a voucher for the restaurant.
If you don't use it today, it's expired. I believe that we, who are also foodies, will never miss any restaurant with a very good reputation, let's experience it. It's humorous to say that.
At the same time, it also shortened the distance between each other.
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Click-to-end invitations.
If you are not sure whether the other party has a good impression of you, you might as well find some excuses to test the other party's attitude, it is best to be able to make a successful invitation, and if you can't make a successful invitation, both parties will not be embarrassed, for example, you can directly tell the other party that your buddies are not available to accompany you to the movies, and ask the other party if they want to go with you? At this time, the main thing to look at the other party's response is to know the development of the situation. 2/6
Find a reasonable excuse to make an offer.
If you plan to invite each other on a holiday, or the other person's birthday, or your birthday, or Valentine's Day, you can invite the other person to have lunch or dinner with you, you can say that two single dogs take care of each other. If the other party is not disgusted with you, they will generally not reject you. 3/6
Be very honest with yourself.
When dating each other, if you find that this girl is clear about the various tricks of boys, then there is nothing to scruple about, at this time, you might as well ask the other party directly and generously: date? When asking the other person, remember to focus on your eyes.
Generally, if a girl has a good impression of you, she is naturally willing to agree. 4/6
Make decisions directly and domineeringly.
Some girls will be more hesitant in dating, and this kind of girl has fewer ideas in daily life, so at this time, you need to make a domineering decision as a sensible boy, and don't give the other party a chance to hesitate. Generally, if the other party hesitates, it must be a little exciting, so don't miss it. 5/6
Snake beating with the stick on the invitation method.
If you just met this girl, and you are ready to say goodbye, you can take advantage of the chat with each other to make a concluding statement, you might as well just say: There is a chance to get together for dinner another day. If the other person feels that they have a good conversation with you, they will usually respond to you politely, and then you can use this as a reason to invite the other person to dinner.
6 6 Persevering after being rejected.
If the matter of inviting girls to dinner does not succeed at one time, we can try to make multiple invitations, of course, this kind of invitation must not give people a feeling of coercion, and do not give people a sense of stubbornness. We can take advantage of other opportunities to invite the other party when we get into a loophole, and don't show too much of it.
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Young men and women in the early stages of love are always shy and overwhelmed, especially for boys who have no experience in love, they are always cautious about falling in love, for fear that their words and deeds will have a negative impact on the relationship.
So, is there a more feasible way to ask a girl out for dinner? The correct approach is divided into five steps, all of which are indispensable.
1. The premise of dating and eating. Give girls enough security, adjust their mentality, and establish a positive outlook on marriage and love; 2. Invite the time to eat. Understand the girl's time arrangement, invite the code file at the right time, and think more about the other party; 3. Invite to eat.
Bring it up sincerely and directly, don't be afraid of rejection, and have sufficient psychological expectations; 4. The process of dating and eating. Humorous verbal expression, real self-triumphant display, meals that meet the tastes of both parties; 5. The end of the date and dinner of the mold silver. It is necessary to have a beginning and an end, properly express the willingness to go on the next date, and observe the girl's reaction.
Next, we will elaborate on the specific details of the five steps and give relevant suggestions, I believe you will get the benefits you deserve.
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Relax naturally, try to talk about light-hearted topics as much as possible, don't bury your head in hard work, and pay attention to what the other person likes to eat and what they don't eat, so that you can show your carefulness in the future. Be a gentleman, help the girl pull a chair, clip the food from a distance, even if you ask the other person what they like to eat, most of them at this time are casual, which will make you more difficult, so it is best to choose a buffet. The pace of eating for the first time should be slowed down, and it should take 1 hour to eat, and don't end it in a hurry, as if you dare to take time.
Ask the other party for their opinions. After dinner, I want to send it home, watch it go upstairs, and then make a ** before going to bed, and say that it is very pleasant to eat with her, and I can also make an appointment for the next date.
It seems like that's it, I'm a girl, and I think the most important thing is to make the other person feel valued, but the atmosphere is very relaxed, you are very sincere, and then that's enough.
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