Why do I feel that happiness is far away from me?

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth paying without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish ....... Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful.

The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best. in this world , everyone has a person they want to find , and once they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily.

It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Happiness is getting farther and farther away from us because: I want to be better than you.

There are 2 systems in each of us.

1: Social system (fulfillment of external requirements).

2: Ego system (satisfying inner requirements).

These two systems complement each other and convert each other in exchange for a happiness index.

When the two systems cannot be balanced, happiness will be farther and farther away from you.

Here, I liken the social system to a "man" and the ego system to a "woman".

Originally, it was a very happy family.

But one day, the man attended a class reunion, and an already developed classmate told the man: Are you happy? Do you have enough money? Is your house big enough? Money, more and more, house, bigger and bigger, that will be happiness.

Women are in a daze in the face of more and more money because they are increasingly lacking in communication.

Due to the lack of communication, women no longer know what men like. Slowly, the woman felt very empty in her heart, and one day, the woman was sick.

Men don't understand that they should be happy if they have more and more money, right? The man thinks that maybe he doesn't have enough money, so he continues to make money.

But every day when I come home, I feel empty, and I don't feel the happiness I used to be, so I can only find other ways to fill this void!

Finally, one day, the man was sick too.

The social system is the condition of the internal system, and the internal system is the driving force of the social system.

When the two can't balance the transition, some things become so meaningless.

I want to be better than you", in fact, it is just to satisfy the current mood.

The money in society is inexhaustible, but happiness cannot be recovered if it is lost.

When your salary is 3,000 yuan, one day you buy a dress for your mother, and you feel very happy. After work, I passed by the snack bar, bought my wife's favorite snacks, and brought them home, in exchange for my wife's smile on her face, I felt very happy.

Happiness depends on the inner system, not on the social system.

There are people outside the world, there are heavens outside the sky, and people are always not satisfied!

When your monthly salary is 3000, you want 5000, when you reach 5000, you want 1w, when you reach 1w, you want to start a business with an annual income of 1 million, and it will never end.

When you leave your happiness to the social system, then the day will never come!

Happiness belongs to the emotional world, a feeling, that is, a sense of satisfaction for people.

Happiness or unhappiness depends on each person's attitude towards life.

There should be pursuits in life, but not forced. If there is pursuit, but not force, people will become free, happy, and happy.

If there is no pursuit in life, it will become lifeless, lacking joy and happiness; But if you go too far, it will be painful.

In the world, it should be admitted that the vast majority of people are ordinary people and do not possess extraordinary abilities. If you don't have extraordinary ability, you desperately pursue the transcendence.

The greater the "hope" that one's ability can achieve, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment and pain.

Having money is not necessarily happy, and not having money is not necessarily unfortunate! It just depends on the individual's perception!

Therefore, there should be pursuits in life, but not forced, which is the key to happiness in life.

May you understand happiness, grasp happiness, cherish happiness, create happiness, and be happy forever.