If there is no way to live your life the way you want, is there still point in working hard?

Of course it makes sense.

Nothing in this world is perfect now, otherwise why would some people feel that their lives are very happy, and some people will feel that their lives are bad, because everyone's expectations for life are different, and everyone's requirements for life are also different. This is indeed a sad thing for some people, but in real life, how many things can completely follow people's wishes? More often than not, it is impossible to ask for it.

We live in a social environment, what is it that comes exactly what we want from childhood to adulthood? The school we choose, the items we choose, is never something we want. The society in real life is like a huge spider web, and there are too many fetters in it for us to jump out.

That is, we can't be allowed to live freely as we want, and I think this is probably the norm for everyone.

I think that our own will is of course important, but for us after we are born, we will have many identities, as a child, a husband or a wife, such different identities will bear different responsibilities, we can't leave this identity, do what we like, we have to do things, we have to bear responsibilities.

It is precisely because of these different responsibilities that these different fetters can always urge us to continue to work hard to bear these responsibilities. But please don't be so pessimistic, there is a good saying, we can't change the environment, then change ourselves.

Anyone will turn without the earth, and it will not stop because you are unhappy for a while. Therefore, adjust your mentality, face your life, strive to make yourself happy and happy, strive to improve your ability, and constantly look for the closest to the real self on the road of responsibility. Learn to enjoy life instead of complaining every day.

The last thing I want to say is that each of us will involuntarily do something we don't like, and even do things that go against our original intentions, but we still doIf you can't give up on yourself, you still have to work hard to face life and work hard to make yourself better, so that you can really take the world seriously and treat your own life, and you must live well! If you can't change anyone else, then change yourself now.

I think hard work is still meaningful, as long as you work hard, your life will change, and you will make yourself better, so even in order to change your life, you have to keep working hard.

The effort remains meaningful. And it's going to pay off, too. It's just that it hasn't been done as I want it to be.

I think hard work is still very meaningful, because you will find that as long as you work hard, you will one day achieve the results you want.

Of course, there is no point, because living according to one's own will is the ultimate goal that everyone pursues, and if you can't achieve the goal, it's useless to work hard.

It certainly makes sense to work hard, because if you don't work hard, your life could be worse.

If you don't live according to your own wishes, then there is no point in your own efforts, because your efforts are not what you want, and you will not be happy.

I don't think there's any point in trying to do this, because if you don't live your life according to your own ideas at all, no matter how hard you try, you're not happy.

Childhood. Want to eat a delicious one.

Mom said, no.

Want to buy a beautiful dress.

Mom said, no.

Want a toy you like.

Mom said, no.

Later, the parents divorced.

Want a little more pocket money.

The stepmother said, no.

Want to go out and play with friends.

The stepmother said, no.

Want a macro crack console.

The stepmother said, no.

Grew up and got married.

I want to make more friends.

My wife said, no.

Want to buy a phone you like.

My wife said, no.

Want to travel alone.

My wife said, no.

No, no, no.

I seemed to have gotten used to this kind of rejection, and in order not to make them angry, I slowly gave up on satisfying my own needs and turned myself into a good child.

Until the appearance of my psychological problems.

Anxiety, obsessive-compulsive, self-attack, headaches, gastrointestinal upset.

I can choose to continue to be uncomfortable like this.

Of course, I also have the option to make some changes.

I want to live my life according to my own wishes, and I don't want to be that honest, sensible, and well-behaved kid anymore.

I'm going to fight for my freedom. Others have the right to judge us, but freedom is never given by others.

Although you may be scolded by your wife, gossiped by others, pointed at by others, and will face a lot of pressure and challenges.

But I don't want to give up being myself because of all this pressure.

Chengyuan will feel uncomfortable with these pressures, and I will accept these discomforts and let them come more violently.

Why can't you live your life on your own terms?

Because we're not brave enough.

Live your life on your own terms, because you deserve to spend your whole life earning the right to be yourself. When you encounter suffering, despair, miracles, best friends, old enemies. Don't forget, it's your will.

A person should live his life according to the heart of self-discipline. There are three steps to this: first, to learn from other people's minds from multiple perspectives; Subsequently, it formed its own independent, mature and positive and progressive ideological system; Finally, after rational thinking and judgment, follow your heart to live and walk out of your own path and wonderful.

All in all, we should try our best to live this life according to our own wishes, but in order to ensure that this life is meaningful, we should guide primary and secondary school students in this way: first understand various ideas in various aspects during their own youth and youth, and then form their own ideological system more objectively; During this period, it is still necessary to be open to understanding other thoughts, to enrich and "correct" their own thoughts, so that their thoughts are more and more objective and have their own subjective expressions, but the proportion of subjective and objective expressions in this period is different, and there are more objective points; In the third stage, you can confidently focus on the subjective, in order to ensure that the subjective is always effective, you can have an objective understanding.

When you buckle the first button in your life, you have a correct outlook on life, stick to the intersection you like the most and are best at for ten years, and even know that you will be cautious for a lifetime, and you will eventually succeed. It's just a pity that many people can't find their "intersection point", so they can only spend their lives aimlessly and in a muddle, and in the end they don't follow their hearts, and in the end they just take a breath in a daze!