The girl I like is my best friend, but she is also the object of my good friends

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think it's up to you, if you think you love him more than your friend, then you chase him, and if you think you can endure it, then you don't have to do anything! And to see the girl's reaction, if he still has a good impression of you, you can muster up the courage to confess at least give yourself a chance, but if you feel that he has no affection for you at all and doesn't like you! I advise you to cherish your friendship!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, you're just like me, I like a girl, but his boyfriend is a good friend of mine, and I used to say I like that girl for my friend, but I said to the girl I don't like you. But slowly I found that I liked that girl more and more. I've had a crush on her for almost a year now, and I dreamed of her again last night.

    I'm in both relationships, and I don't want to break their current relationship, and I think they're really committed and perfect, so I'm waiting, waiting until the girl and the boy are separated, or when I can't wait any longer.

    I don't think I will do this again in the future, love is lost in a flash, you have to grasp it right, I like Cao Cao's sentence the most, I would rather let me bear the world, and the world should bear me.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since she is the object of your friend, don't keep quiet, if she also loves you, then be brave and fight for your own happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If she's a good friend of you, and doesn't mean that, you'd better flash it! Otherwise you will hurt 3 people!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Anyone has the right to pursue love! Seize the opportunity and use your strategy to win!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's competition, love is inherently ruthless, that's your and your friend's business.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The happiness of the person you love is your happiness, even if it is uncomfortable in the heart, it is sweet, savor the bitter and sweet taste

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can only do the moonshine of caretaking.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Helpless, you yourself should understand whether you value friendship or love.

    A friend's wife should not be deceived.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you choose of course, you choose what is good for you, not what you like, because you choose the girl you like, he may not like you, so only choose the right, not the one who sees no hope.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    For a person who wants to stay with you for a long time, he must not be satisfied with getting along with you now, and will definitely fantasize about the scene with you in the future, so he always has you in his future plan, and he also wants to give you a desired commitment.

    He will give you all of his free time.

    Would you believe a person who keeps saying he doesn't have time? Maybe he's really busy, but no matter how busy he is, he will have time to reply to you, and no matter how busy he is, he will tell you.

    For the person who cares about you, he will not let you wait, and at the same time he will give you all his free time, as long as he has time, he will chat with you, even if it is just to ask you how you are doing today, he will feel very happy, but the person who does not care about you, may feel more happy playing games than chatting.

    A few days ago, when I was at a party with friends, Guoguo said to us: "He is really annoying, he sends me messages every day, telling me to drink more water, no matter how busy I am, I have to move, sometimes I am busy and don't reply to him, but he still sends messages on time." ”

    I smiled and said to her, "You are content, and the man who is willing to leave time for you is really not much, cherish it!" ”

    Of course, Guoguo said that he was annoying, but in fact, he was very satisfied, because she knew that he had her in his heart, so he was willing to leave all his time to her, and he cared about her in his heart, so he would take the trouble to tell her.

    Someone who really wants to be with you, he will take care of you carefully, he will give you special treatment, in his heart, you are the most important thing.

    When quarrelling, he will reconcile as soon as possible; In his future planning, you are always there; He will also leave all his free time to you, and he does it all to be with you for a long time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    From your simple description, we can't analyze the specific situation, if you say that your good friend and your favorite friend are both girls, and you are a boy, that is if you want to develop a relationship with them, because the final result of a couple relationship is husband and wife, and for feelings, the most perfect love is to find a person who loves yourself and is good to yourself in this life, you will be very happy, if you find a person you like, and he doesn't like you, the result of the two people is not good, so people in this life, Finding someone who loves you and is good to yourself is the happiest thing, and I hope it can help you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course, it is to choose friends who are good to you, friends you like, others do not necessarily like you, but friends who are good to you must like you, and people who are good to you should be cherished.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Choose both, why ask which one to choose, one is good for you, one you like, so both friends want it, if you are a boy and want to choose one as a lover, then you can do it yourself, others are not good to participate.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, choose to be friends with people who are good to me. Because the person you like doesn't necessarily like you too.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You must choose people who like you, and people you like don't like you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored have nothing to fear. If you want to be happy, choose what is good for you. If you want to be happy, choose the one you like.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is no need for friends to choose and choose, and they are called friends only after a long time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It would have been easy in the old society, but not now, you can only choose one or the other, so only you know best.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This girl is too simple, she has not experienced the sinister of the human heart, she has never suffered a loss, she conceives that others are so beautiful, she thinks that people think the same way, such a person is easy to suffer, but the girl doesn't like this boy, just treats him as an object to talk to, maybe she doesn't know that she also likes him, she feels that he is a quiet listener, and everything in her heart will say to him, in fact, it is difficult to be a girlfriend between men and women, she doesn't understand, listen to you quietly, It's just that I love you in my heart, the girl doesn't love him, she won't talk to him in her heart, but she doesn't know it, that's love, you can only say that the feelings between you can only be fate, everything will be natural!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think this girl is aware of your friend's crush on her. Otherwise, how could he have said such an impossible thing between me and you. It may be a hint that your friend is giving up.

    But this is just my guess, I personally suggest that your friend be bold and show her idea to the girl, tell her that she wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend, and see how the girl reacts, because the girl herself has said that she wants to have sex with another boy, and if your friend doesn't confess at this time, then things will be complicated. If the girl doesn't accept it, let the girl pursue her happiness, and your friend will know the result sooner and give up sooner, otherwise if you keep persisting and fail, you will be hurt and hit. Wishing you happiness.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I have a friend who likes a girl, but that girl only thinks of her as a very good girlfriend. The girl should have known he liked her. Because of a very good relationship with the opposite sex.

    Although it exists, there is one party who likes the other, and the other party does not like him. The reason why the girl treats her as a girlfriend. Because the boy did not woo her.

    Love should be said out loud. Let the girl know that you love her. The reason why girls can treat you as their best friend is also because they regard you as their dearest friend.

    The odds of success are a little greater. I must seize the opportunity to confess to the girl. If the girl doesn't like you.

    You can continue to be a girlfriend.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can ask your friend to entrust someone who is also friends with her, and make it clear that your friend likes her. If she doesn't react or says she doesn't object, it means that your friend is still playing with her. If she flatly refuses, it is obvious that the name of the person has the master, and your friend has no play with her.

    Another way is to ask your friend to confess to her directly and see what she has to say. If it's not rejected, then it's done. If she is rejected, then she has someone psychologically.

    Don't even think about it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's hard to say in this situation, that girl treats him as a best friend, which means that she also trusts him very much, the girl doesn't think so much, it's relatively simple, he likes her, maybe he has been together for a long time, and she likes him too.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I don't think so, I think so. That is to say, although you say that this girl is just that you simply think that this girl treats him as a good friend, but it is possible that the girl doesn't think so, but she just doesn't want to show it, but the current performance is to say that it may seem to say that the two of them are a very normal friend relationship, but it is not necessarily possible that this girl also has a little love for her, but he he may feel that this boy may not like himself in order to maintain this friendship,And then it was buried silently.,And you said it.,She also thinks that there will be other girls next to the boy.,And there's more than one.。 Then he may be because he may like other girls, and then he doesn't feel right like that, and then he tells the boy that he wants to have sex with another boy, and I think there is a small reason why he also wants to see how this boy will react, and then he should also want to test it to see what he does.

    In the end, it depends on what he thinks, if I think it's okay, then let's be together, if not, then just be friends normally.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    After reading your description, I think your friend should like the girl very much, and only those who think about her everywhere will be regarded as a good girlfriend by the girl. So I suggest that your friend speak out boldly, tell the girl that she is not her best friend, want to be her boyfriend, tell the girl her thoughts and love her, prove her love with her own actions, let the girl know him again, change her opinion of him, and accept him best, it doesn't matter if you don't accept it, after all, you have tried hard and don't regret it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Isn't it easy, giving gifts! Honestly, in this day and age. If a woman doesn't have a crush on you, send something to a location where she has a crush on you. Otherwise, there is no other idea, and it is such a material place in itself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Generally know, just pretend not to know, and then implicitly refuse.

    Generally, girls refuse on the following grounds:

    Mince words. In the face of a boy's request, if the girl wants to reject him but is not too embarrassed, then she can adopt a vague way to try to minimize the harm caused by the rejection. In fact, if you do this, you are giving each other a step down, and if the other party knows each other like this, it will naturally converge.

    Change the subject. When a guy is talking to you, when you are about to pierce the last layer of window paper, you should be quick to leave and change the subject, or if you feel that the atmosphere is awkward and almost out of control, you should leave with an excuse. Taking this way of drawing wages from the bottom of the kettle can also effectively reduce the temperature of the other party.

    Noncommittal. In the face of the boy's request, he didn't refuse or accept it, so he didn't say no. Cool down the other person's impulses first, and then reject him, or just drag it out. Naturally, he will understand that he will wake up, and his face will not be damaged.

    Reduce exposure. Thirty-six plans are the upper ones. If you want to reject the other party tactfully, it is better to have less contact with the other party.

    That way, you won't have to endure the torment of pretending to be confused! Try to meet each other as much as possible and avoid them. Even if you can't hide, try not to be alone, but pull a friend to help solve the siege.

    Be friends first. If the boy wants to confess himself, and he has no feelings for the other person, he might as well take a step back and treat him as a friend first. This kind of rhetoric is actually a kind of protection for the other party.

    Because it is really sad to be rejected, and it can be humiliating. If you give the other person face, the other party will also give you face.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Feelings are the only thing in this world that can't be forced, and you may not get anything in return for what you give, so sometimes liking is just in vain, well, you can't get it. It's going to be very uncomfortable, but time is the best healing medicine or go, well, choosing a chef to find other targets, I don't think it's a bad thing, at least. As long as you've worked hard and haven't gotten it, I think.

    I won't regret it in the future! After all, I have worked hard.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Since she can be a girlfriend of the opposite sex, it means that the girl knows that the other party likes her, and if she doesn't like it, she won't be a girlfriend. Take your time, and it will develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In fact, this is a very simple thing, your friend is too boring, so she treats him as a best friend, and understands that he likes himself, but he will not receive his confession to say this to love others, in fact, it is your friend's right to love her, and it is her right to accept it or not, and the beauty is afraid of pestering, as long as she is brave enough to take this step and pursue her reluctantly, it is possible to successfully hold hands.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    This girl may be a little too familiar with this boy, so she is said to be the kind of best friend of the opposite sex. I feel like this girl is one of those extroverts. He didn't know what to think.

    The boy he likes. There are several girls around, and she is not a little guarded, and she still says that kind of thing. He'll hurt if you like him.

    And they continued to pursue him. Then wake it up. I feel that men and women are friends, and this kind of relationship is unrealistic.

Related questions
12 answers2024-04-14

If you don't try, you never know what the result will be! You are willing to hold it in your heart like this! Only when you do it, will there be results, but the results are good and bad!

18 answers2024-04-14

It's up to you to decide ...... ageWhat about middle school students, you can do whatever you want, little girls are immature at that age, the key is to see what you think, don't go along with rumors because of rumors - that is, if you are just good friends with her, don't let yourself feel that you really have other thoughts about her because of what other people say. If you really like her, well, you have a good relationship anyway, and she is willing to be jealous, find a chance to ask on the side, if people also have some meaning to you, you will get the moon first near the water! Of course, girls still have to coax more, your mouth should be sweeter, don't be anxious, and be steady. >>>More

23 answers2024-04-14

It's better to give up, brother, so that you will have a hard time, even if you get it in the end, if you think about it, you have been played by others, and you feel a little unhappy in your heart. >>>More

5 answers2024-04-14

1.When in love, many girls will be reserved and will not be too proactive. Similarly, there are many boys who are introverted or have no experience in love, and they are really not active enough when they fall in love. >>>More

31 answers2024-04-14

Try to adapt to such an environment, and you don't like it a lot when you go to society in the future, but you may not face it, so from now on you have to learn to adapt to society, of course, society can't one day adapt to you, you say, isn't it. Regardless of what to do with it, it's up to you, no matter how much others say, it's useless to have your own decisions that matter, you can choose to hate him, or you can choose to die and become friends with him, or that sentence, the key is to look at your own pull! ~ >>>More