I always suspected that my family s belongings would be stolen, and I thought I had a psychological

Friend, this is a manifestation of obsessive-compulsive disorder, but don't worry, all people have obsessive-compulsive disorder, but when those slightly more severe symptoms appear, they say that it is a psychological problem, otherwise it is normal. I don't think your symptoms are necessarily a simple fear of losing something, but some other internal problems that make you manifest this condition.

I suggest that every time you are very worried, quietly ask yourself, have I put things in place? Are the insurance measures in place? If you're still worried, ask yourself, "What are you worried about?"

This is a way to help yourself psychologically, and every time you are worried, you may find the real problem.

If the situation is getting worse, it is advisable to see a psychologist.

A word of advice for you: Worrying is self-inflicted, and you must start by trusting yourself.

Hope it works for you!!

Go to a psychiatrist, it's best not to delay this kind of thing, otherwise it will get worse the more it drags on.

I've never stolen someone else's stuff why do I always suspect others of suspecting me of stealing something every time I hear someone say something was stolen I always be.

Hello, I have received your question, and the answer is given to you below. It may be that you have been nervous recently, and then you care too much about other people's opinions, you just need to make sure that you have not stolen anything, pay more attention to yourself, learn more and get along with yourself, you don't have to care about what others think if you have a clear conscience, you can also exercise properly, go to bed early and get up early, keep yourself busy, and you won't care about these things.

I certainly don't doubt it. There should be a certain level of trust in the family. Otherwise, it's like the example below in this question. caused a gap in his son's heart. Influence relationships.

I'm also a story of personal experience.

My brother is nine years old, 34 years old this year, I just graduated and didn't find a job for the time being, now I live with my boyfriend in the field, my brother and sister-in-law work in the field all the year round, this year my sister-in-law came back to give birth to the child, after living for a few months, I went back to the field after handing over the child to my mother.

Two months after my sister-in-law went back to stop the potato, my mother found out that the family had less money a few days ago. It should have been 5,000 yuan, but now there are only 1,000+ yuan left, and some of the red envelopes that my relatives gave to my nephew during the full moon are also missing, and the amount of red envelopes that are missing is relatively large. My mom called me in a panic and told me that the money was gone, I comforted my mom and asked my mom to check all the valuable things in the house, and found that one of my necklaces and my mom's pair of earrings couldn't be found, and we found that the situation was serious and described the situation to my brother.

Out of the desire not to affect the relationship between my brother and sister-in-law, my mother just explained the matter and did not say who was suspected, but my brother insisted that my father stole it, and my father was so angry that he swore that he really didn't steal the money.

Later, a month later, his money was found in the cupboard. It turned out that he had put it in the cupboard and forgot about it. Although he later apologized to his family, the estrangement already existed, and it was not easy to dissipate.

Relatives cannot stand up to suspicion, suspicion, without conclusive evidence or without seeing it. Don't be suspicious of your family. Otherwise, the relationship between each other will be shaken, and they will not be able to return to the previous state of Hengchang.

Summary. Hello dear kiss, for this situation like you, who always suspect others of stealing your own things, it is more likely to be a delusion of victimization. It is recommended that you go to the neurology or psychiatric department of the hospital for a check-up and take the psychological scale assessment to see if there are any psychological problems.

Once the cause is found, then the symptoms are addressed**. It is recommended that you do not think too much about it and maintain good lifestyle and eating habits.

Hello dear kiss, for this situation like you, who always suspect others of stealing your own things, it is more likely to be a delusion of victimization. It is recommended that you go to the neurology department or psychiatric department of the hospital for a check-up and do the psychological scale assessment to see if there are any psychological problems. Once the cause is found, then the symptoms are addressed**.

It is recommended that you don't think too much about it and maintain good living habits and eating habits. Shut up.

In fact, others are not stealing your things, but you are easy to automatically jump out of some negative thinking, and feel that others are not good for you, you need to learn to examine the rationality of these automatic thoughts, rather than blindly being teased and buried in it.

Generally, they do not actively suspect their family members. No one takes the items in the thick and wide of the house but they are always missing, no matter how you look for them, you can't find them, some of them come out by themselves after a few days, but some things are never found, which makes people very confused, but you can't doubt your family, after all, it's the closest person, and it affects the feelings. Generally this is what Iwakuin Ryo should do:

1. Recall whether the item has been taken out recently, the last time it appeared was in **, and then look for it according to the memory;

Think about it, sit down and think about the last time you used this thing or saw it, and then conduct a comprehensive search for these places; If you have a vague memory, start looking for it little by little from the place where you remember it most clearly, and think as you search.

2. Reorganize the items at home, especially the items in the corner, which may appear during the sorting process;

In a designated place, most of the things in the house have their own exclusive location, such as plastic bags, they may be placed in the kitchen, cabinets and other places, and now you may be able to find them by looking for them.

3. If the monitoring is installed in the home, you can find the lost items by adjusting the monitoring;

4. Ask your family if they have seen the lost item;

5. Look for corners that you usually ignore, such as the bottom of the bed, messy drawers, the bottom of the sofa and other visual corners.

You need to check your wallet, backpack, clothing pockets, pants pockets, and other places where you often put things, because many times you are influenced by habits, you will unconsciously place frequently used items in these places.

If you still can't find all the above methods, then you can only think of other methods.

The last thing I want to say is that in fact, many times the property in the home is missing, but also due to our own negligence, or bad memory, put in a certain self-forget, there will be such a phenomenon, when this phenomenon appears with the bi, we should not be the first time to suspect their family, or first think about whether they put these things somewhere, and wait until they really can't find it to ask their family members better.