Why do I always doubt him, why do I always doubt myself?

Because you care too much about him and are afraid of losing him, and you are not very confident.

You are afraid that the social atmosphere of reality will pollute you.

The so-called often walk on the beach where there are no wet shoes, how can there be cats that do not eat fishy" and so on.

You're worried about the day.

In fact, you can adjust your mentality, give yourself a space and give him a space, don't manage marriage too tightly, he will be under a lot of pressure, marriage is like the sand in your hand, the tighter you grasp it, the easier it is to lose, everything is fate.

In principle, if you don't make a mistake, let him go, usually spend more time learning and learning other beneficial things, and women must continue to enrich themselves to be confident enough. It's also a shift of attention, it's okay to care for him in your heart, and you don't have to use forms to interfere with him. He won't be able to breathe, and trust him to believe in yourself.

You're too unconfident, find a reason, dress yourself up nicely, find a reason, buy a set of expensive makeup.

Tell you, women must know how to "spare tire" that is to say, men outside the flower, not necessarily all the man's fault, the considerable reason lies in yourself, all day long to lock yourself at home or in addition to work is at home, put yourself aside, remember to dress yourself up every day, this is not only yourself beautiful, the husband's heart is also dressed beautiful, all day to see their wives are too late to have time to go outside to spend!

I'm beautiful, and I have more foreign eyes, how can my husband have time to go outside to spend, he can't be busy guarding you, so you don't have to doubt him at this time, let him dare you in turn, this feeling is very good! Don't save yourself as a yellow-faced woman, and then be a poor woman who no one loves.

I've had you think of that before, and even quarreled with him over a little thing, but to no avail.

Don't try to interfere with him, that will turn him off. Be a wife with a heart, don't be a nagging wife.

Don't rely on him, be your own self. Leave some private space for both parties.

In addition to my husband, there are many things worth doing and paying attention to.

That means that you always have a feeling of inferiority, because you are afraid that your husband will leave you, and the reason why you will doubt him is normal.

You can't imagine living without him.

Hehe, do you have an inferiority complex? Aren't you as good as the other women around your husband? Or is your husband very capable and you feel oppressed? I think you should adjust your mentality, do your own thing, don't think about other things, and find something to do to enrich your life.

You're not confident enough! I feel that I am a little behind others, so I am a little lacking in confidence!

And your husband is so good.

Or maybe you're a little more stressed......

Your performance is positive, at least it shows that you care about him, but you should believe in the love between you, believe in him, and believe in yourself, okay?

Because he has something to doubt about you.

As the saying goes: flies don't burrow seamless eggs.

You have problems yourself, and you should reflect on yourself.

But also be confident!!

This is the way the world is, how many women don't doubt their husbands? Don't hang yourself from a tree.

Enrich yourself and regain your self-confidence.

Discover more of the joy of marriage.

Less trouble.

There are some things that would not have been available.

If you think it exists, it becomes something.

Always doubt yourself, two main reasons:

1. Lack of correct self-awareness.

There are many scholars in the field of psychology who believe that the lack of correct self-perception is the main reason why they always doubt themselves. For example:

Steele et al. believe that self-doubters are more likely to have self-doubt and insecurity than self-confident people because they lack the necessary and positive self-positioning.

Taylor and Brown found that affirmative self-perception and negative feedback were the distinguishing characteristics of confident people, which was why they rarely had self-doubt.

It is precisely because of the inability to correctly recognize one's own abilities that self-doubters are always unable to intuitively judge whether they are capable or not when faced with challenges. As a result, they tend to think that they are not up to the task, because it has been their habit for a long time. This wrong habit reinforces their self-doubt.

2. Relying too much on the affirmation of others.

Self-doubters have a heavier sense of inferiority than ordinary people, so they have a strong desire to be recognized and affirmed by others. But this overly strong need to be recognized can lead them to suffer from gains and losses, and thus doubt the authenticity of others' approvals or affirmations. This suspicion can lead to a retraction of approval from others, and the self-doubter will doubt himself even more.

So in this cycle of longing for recognition, but difficult to be recognized, their self-doubt is getting worse and worse.

You have to know that it is inevitable to make mistakes at work, and if you make mistakes, you must find out the reasons and actively deal with them, to correct your mistakes, instead of letting yourself always immerse yourself in it and blaming yourself. It's the same with emotional things, it's normal for young people to break up when they feel inappropriate to fall in love, you have to understand each other, accept the facts, and get out of it as soon as possible, there is no need to think about it. It is recommended that you adjust your mentality, believe in yourself, and actively face every day and everything in your life, so that your life is full of sunshine.

The reason why you doubt yourself is because you have experienced ups and downs and setbacks, after all, the boss has something to do with you, and the breakup in the relationship is a big blow to you, and it is normal for you to have bad emotions and reactions.

The more this is the case, the more you have to tell yourself, you have to grit your teeth and persevere, as long as you don't give up, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge, there must be a way to overcome the difficulties, don't give up, because everything will be fine.

A typical manifestation of lack of self-confidence, what a person can do, believe that he can solve it! If you encounter simple problems in life, you can solve them by yourself, and you need help from other channels of family or friends for major problems! Tell yourself that a little thing can be solved, build self-confidence, give yourself confidence!

A person's proper self-confidence is good, don't be unaware of the direction as soon as something happens!

Why should you doubt yourself, you don't have any confidence in yourself. When something doesn't go your way, you have to say to yourself, you can, you can do it, so encourage yourself and don't think about it. It's a mess.

In life, I meet myself at work. It's normal for things to go your way. If you want to find a way to overcome it, let it pass.

Maybe you are not confident enough in yourself, so you will feel this way, so you must believe in yourself well, increase your confidence, and it will be fine after a long time.

Because you have encountered a lot of things recently, it is easy to doubt your personal ability and experience judgment. Things will always be dealt with, and the difficulties are only temporary.

If you are not confident in yourself, you should cultivate self-confidence.

Thinking too much. If there is trouble at work, just solve it; Emotional matters, let it be. You are self-pitying, self-denying, and there is no point in it.

To have confidence in yourself, no matter what you do, it is important to develop self-confidence, and practice more.

Be confident and full of positive energy.

Pessimism will also affect the ability to act, things have happened, then the first thing to do is to do your best to deal with it, if things happen, you have a pessimistic conclusion, then you will be wrong in dealing with things, but it is easy to cause bad results. If things haven't happened yet, you start to worry, then it's even more unnecessary, your pessimistic mood will affect your life, but it is easy to cause other troubles, so you should always comfort yourself, tell yourself that I just need to live every day seriously, and tomorrow's things will be sad tomorrow.

This is just a manifestation of self-confidence, suspicious personality, don't deny this, don't bother yourself! Because this kind of performance can be understood as a way of expression that you care about her, or it may be because your girlfriend has a lively personality, has a wide range of friends, and is quite popular, which makes you suspicious, which cannot be said to be an abnormal performance!

I believe that the landlord's troubles are not many people can help you, this is not a few words, a few words of comfort, a few words of enlightenment can make you change, maybe other people will say: husband and wife will have their own space, lovers also need to have their own privacy space, I believe these words landlord understands!

Give it some advice to you! Try to really respect her, easily doubt others, is a manifestation of disrespect for others, check the ** book, space messages, are disrespectful to her, trample on her self-esteem! What you should do is to care for her better and more, so that she feels that you are her dependence and the best choice for life!

Because even if you are now her boyfriend Zen friend, she may not necessarily choose you in the end!

Eun loves him too much and cares too much.

So fear of losing.

It's going to be cranky.

Have faith in yourself.

Have faith in her, too.

Are you all together?

If together.

Let's do it well.

Because you don't feel secure! Lack of self-protection and not having people around you who can make you feel safe.

It should be cherished for you, and you should be afraid of losing.

In fact, you know the answer yourself, you don't dare, not unwilling, because you feel that you are not as good as they imagined, you are afraid that you will let them see their shortcomings after accepting them, you are afraid that they will not want to be friends with you after knowing your shortcomings, in fact, your worries are what many people are worried about, don't be too afraid of anything, because it will be very tiring, you just accept it, don't refuse, look at their attitude towards you, you will find that you are actually very good

Be sure to wait until the night of the wedding.

That's it, when you're old, you don't have much to do The most important thing to care about is your son, after all, how old can you care about things like the size of the family, hehe, or you don't or he hasn't communicated well with you.

If you're not confident, don't let go too much, it's a bit obscene.

Bad habits, as long as you work hard to correct them, you should be fine. It's okay to have perseverance, but it can't be ruled out that it's pathological. Thank you.

<> "If You Doubt Him, How Would He React?"

When you are suspicious of your man, he generally has these two reactions:

1.If you suspect something wrong, not only will he not be angry, but he will feel that you care about him before he doubts him.

2.If you suspect that you are right, he will be annoyed and angry, thinking that you have invaded his privacy.

The last thing that people can accept is that their own despicable and troublesome things are known by others.

Reason to doubt ourselves: Because the world we live in is not a perfect world in itself, we are often affected by some negative factors.

In the case of being unable to distinguish, we will involuntarily cover up our true selves, showing our true selves in order to cater to the world but not to be truly perfect. Over time, we don't understand ourselves.

Such ambiguity often leads people to become narrow-minded, self-defeating, lazy, lazy, and ......procrastinatingEventually, we become less and less confident in ourselves, and our sense of autism grows stronger. It will be when we live with our hearts, it will be easy to identify negative factors, and then calmly reject them, so that our hearts will be clearer and calmer.

Always suspect that you have a disease may be a hypochondriasis.

Suspicion 1Illness is a kind of mental illness that is manifested in excessive concern about one's own health status, believing that one has suffered from a certain physical disease, and often complaining of some discomfort, but it is not consistent with the actual health situation, which is a kind of neurosis.

Hypochondriasis patients have a sensitive and suspicious personality, subjective stubbornness, self-centeredness, conceit and isolation, often pay too much attention to their own health, demand perfection or stubborn and cautious personality traits, about 30% of patients are promoted by physical diseases and post-debilitating state, and can also be caused by changes in the environment, changes in individual physiological and psychological conditions, such as menarche, menopause and other doubtful factors. Patients often have autosuggestion or over-association, such as seeing a friend die of myocardial infarction, causing the patient to pay too much attention to his or her own mild chest pain.

Patients with hypochondriasis tend to have three main symptoms: unwavering hypochondriasis or preemptive notions; relatively realistic somatic symptoms; Psychological experience of pain and anxiety or social dysfunction. Because patients often feel or experience physical symptoms themselves, they may seek medical attention repeatedly, and even if there are no organic lesions in the body, the patient is convinced that he or she has a disease that causes pain to him or her family.

Hypochondriasis is generally based on psychological ** and supplemented by drugs**, and the two complement each other.