Why do people have to go through vicissitudes to know how to think?

The unbearable feeling in life lies in the fact that there is no chance to start over in life.

Why do so many people always think that if it was then, it wouldn't be what it is now?

If you can't listen to other people's opinions, you will pay the price of impulsiveness.

Isn't it funny? I think that there is no real good or bad in every fork in the road, and in the final analysis, I am still not mature enough to control my feelings with reason. But we are all the same, we all need to grow slowly. Only after experiencing the vicissitudes of life can we know how to think.

When thinking about life, as long as you regard life as yourself, you can treat everything around you with a responsible attitude. As a unique creation, I won't look back frequently if I made a different choice.

I don't know the pain, how to stop thinking

How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?

How can you grow without pain? This is the wonderful process of youth.

Here's part of the log I used to:

We are chased by life with wounds, and we are running forward in a daze.

Just like taking a bus, everyone wants to take the less crowded and comfortable bus, in fact, it is not from this starting point to that terminal, why should you be afraid of time to tear the old wounds.

Now I can't cry like when I was a child, I can't cry when I can't get it, although I still love to cry so much.

I remember that I had to taste countless tears every night, no matter how sad I was, my heart could die, but the days still had to pass.

There is the power to be sad and the qualifications to be heartbroken, but it does not mean that anyone will feel sorry for their cowardice.

When there was no one to comfort me, I learned to embrace myself and learn to be strong.

If people can be calm beforehand, they don't need to think afterwards. Hahaha.

The vicissitudes of the sea are said to be that with the changes of the times, the sea will also become a mulberry field. The vicissitudes of life are like the rings of a tree, and the growth you experience brings all kinds of experiences, and then integrates them into your temperament, which makes some people appear vicissitudes.

However, the difference between a person's maturity and vicissitudes is only his inner perception of the world. If a person has gone through a lot and is still full of confidence, that is maturity; And if it seems lonely and lonely, then maybe jujube laughter is the vicissitudes of life.

Whether it is maturity or vicissitudes, in the end, the same thing is indifference.

So don't just stare at the vicissitudes of life, raise your head and shoot the rock is still a blue sky. No matter what he does tomorrow, no matter if he matures or is a vicissitudes of life, he may succeed if he steps out, as the so-called "immortality for thousands of years".

I have experienced so many setbacks and hardships only because I am unwilling to rely on others and not willing to bow to suffering. The effort of man is to become a superior man.

Heaven will descend on people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their bodies, empty their bodies, and act chaotically, so they will be tempted to endure and gain what they cannot. Only those who have gone through hardships have the opportunity to become self-respecting, confident, and respectable people.