Why don t adult parents give their children peace of mind? 30

has become a parent for many years, and does not let the child worry. Maybe such parents belong to the generation after the 8090s. Parents of this generation are playful.

And he is very personal in his work. So this generation of parents is no different from children. It will make the child uncomfortable.

There may be some parents who are usually more selfish, think about themselves everywhere in everything, and rely too much on their children, which makes people feel that they do not let their children worry.

Explain that you lack communication, and mutual understanding, maybe your parents think it's good for you, you don't necessarily think it's good, maybe you think your parents are too annoying, your parents just want to care more about you, and they still nagging you like when you were a child, hoping to understand each other's intentions more, because your parents' starting point may be good, but sometimes your parents make you angry without knowing you, because they may not communicate together, and they hope that both parties will understand more, so that they can be harmonious

It's not that parents who become adults make their children uneasy, but at this time, you don't look down on your parents? I think they are outdated, in fact, this is a generation gap, in fact, the uneasiness you cause to your parents, not the uneasiness caused by your parents to their children, their current children are in a difficult position.

Parents of adults have no idea what kind of person they are, because they will feel that they can do whatever they like, and their children will not know.

Adult parents must be very old, and they are becoming more and more dependent on their children, so sometimes they feel that not letting their children worry about it is actually a sign of aging.

Because in the eyes of parents, even if a child is an adult, he will always be a child, caring, loving, and even nagging, so the child is not at ease.

Parents also have children who have changed, and since his parents did not educate him well, it will be irresponsible for his children at that time.

In the face of rebellious children, we should communicate with them well, treat them as friends, don't blindly treat them with a strong attitude, truly understand their inner thoughts, care more about them, and guide them to make the right choice. It's really pitiful for the hearts of parents all over the world. I believe that no parent wants to let their son live worse than himself, in fact, they have only one wish, that is, "as long as you live better than me".

Seeing you ask such a question proves that you haven't grown up yet. When children grow up, they will understand the painstaking efforts of their parents.

Because they have a different point of view from children, children have their own ideas, and adults have their own ideas.

Adult parents are not as unbearable as you think, and parents who don't let their children worry are still a minority. Most parents are responsible.

I think it's still a matter of communication, communicate more, communicate with each other.

Like when you were kids, I want to get your attention.

At this time, parents should consider whether it is the problem of the parents, or the education method of the child is wrong, so it is not worry-free when they grow up.

At this time, parents should let go, because the child has grown up, as a parent who does not leak lead may be with the child for a lifetime, must believe in the child, and then teach the child more ways to deal with others, must encourage the child more, do not beat the child, do not scold the child, do not spoil the child too much.

As parents, we should take care of the children's manuscripts, but when the children are married, we only need to have some things to do to the old grandson, and we can't interfere too much in their lives.

Parents should tell their children what to do, and when should they let their children solve things independently and complete things independently, so that they can make their children become particularly sensible.

Parents still have to learn to rest assured, many times not to participate too much, to the child's life, to let the child himself have a certain degree of autonomy.

For adults, if you still don't let your parents worry, you should communicate psychologically many times to make him resolute.

Sensible children can understand the painstaking efforts of their parents, understand the responsibility and importance of the family, and can actively share the trivial and housework of the family, so as not to let their parents work too hard, such children make the family more harmonious, and can also gain the respect and love of family members, and happiness will come naturally.

Sensible children will not bring trouble and anxiety to their parents because of their willfulness, and will not let their parents have conflicts and quarrels because of their own mistakes. They will uphold the attitude of being proud of their parents and family, and try their best to make their parents proud of themselves, and at the same time let themselves feel the warmth of the family.

When sensible children face difficulties, they will take the initiative to ask their parents and teachers for their opinions, strive to find solutions and strategies to solve problems, do not give up easily, and complete tasks with perseverance. Such children have experienced difficulties and setbacks, but also experienced the joy and achievements of overcoming difficulties, and they have a firm belief and persistent spirit.

Sensible children are not only able to do their own things well, but also care about the people and things around them, and show a certain degree of maturity, stability and leadership in family, learning, and social interaction. Not only will they be able to take care of themselves, but they will also know how to collaborate with others, take responsibility in teamwork, overcome difficulties and achieve collective goals.

In short, sensible children have a special charm and excellent quality, they show a high degree of consciousness, responsibility, practical and hard-working characteristics in the process of growing up, and have excellent performance and leadership in a series of activities in the family, school, and society. As a result, they will have more opportunities to achieve their dreams and goals, and feel the true joy and fulfillment they are pursuing.

Don't worry about yourself, let go completely, and don't treat worry as a good quality.

Hello, I don't know how long you've been a parent, and I let out such an emotion, hehe.

In fact, as long as a person develops good habits, it will save a lot of unnecessary troubles, and as a parent, I think it is to cultivate and educate the child when he is still a blank sheet of paper and a glass of water. In other words, when a child is young and is being taught, he will be able to cultivate it with his heart and mind, which will benefit him for a lifetime. Generally, children will be stereotyped at the age of 13, which refers to a person's habits, after all, after so many years of edification, it is difficult to change, and it takes a lot of courage and energy.

Of course, living and learning refers to the continuous improvement of concepts and knowledge.

I think parents should treat their children differently at different times, in a nutshell, they should do something for their children (when they are not able to take care of themselves), teach them to do things (when they have hands-on ability), accompany their children to do things (give them your love), and let them do things (let them take responsibility independently).

Since you have brought him into this world, you should also take responsibility for treating him well.

In addition, it is very important for parents to lead by example, children are set by their parents when they are young, and they will learn by themselves without teaching. If you don't think you're ideal, talk to your child directly, tell him that you're struggling with this, and hope he doesn't want to be like you.

The child is too powerful. Reflect on yourself!