We love each other so much! But to break up! What am I going to do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-16
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you love her, don't give up on her, two people work together.

    Why do you want to tell your mother that you met on the Internet The older generation must not accept it It's saying that there are good people and bad people everywhere Your mother also thinks too much, true love is rare I wish you happiness My boyfriend and I are the same as you It's my parents who don't agree.

    I persevered, and now they agree, hehe, I hope you don't give up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hubei is not a person, and people in the countryside are not pulling!! A group of backward and unenterprising older generation !

    What do you want your parents to do with your own affairs! Dare to love and dare to hate !!

    Just listen to the sad song in the dormitory hahahaha !

    Your tears! Weak and wounded! The miserable white moon bends! Hook the past! The night is too long! Condensed into frost who is in the attic cold despair !

    Drift away with the wind your look!! Chrysanthemum splendid burning!! Your smile has yellowed !!

    The flowers fall and people break their bowels, and my heart is quiet.

    Hey, if you like it, don't back down! Be brave and chase it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you believe in love, then any problem should be overcome and actively work hard to solve, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you must be confident, you are a boy, you should have your own opinions and positions, come on!!

    If you think about it, you have to do it!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love each other, you won't break up because of the slightest difficulty!

    Anything can be solved!

    The key is to see if you stick to it...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Talk to your mom until she's impressed.

    If it really doesn't work, then cut it first and then play it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    yes, let it go. Or you would ...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You have to remember – she's going to marry you, not your mother!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because of some special reasons, two people who love each other very much can't be together, this seems to only exist in the distant past, I think as long as you love each other, love each other very much, even if there is a big obstacle, there is no way to stop you from being together. Unless it's love that's not deep enough...Regardless of whose reason, the problem lies in your own, there are too many such things, in fact, you don't have to be sad, you have to believe in fate, since you love each other, you can't be together, maybe it's your fate, you can't be together, but you still have a relationship, and a good memory, don't you, you think, memories are also a kind of happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Since you have tried your best to cherish it, but you still can't get back what you have lost, then you should learn to give up. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Two people who love each other may not know how to stay together.! Love will not accompany two people for a lifetime. It's up to time to grind and.! Maybe it's because you're not fit to live together. ~!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    "I'm almost right now" proves that you still love him.

    First of all, you can't let him carry the family alone, you have to have a correct attitude first. Don't think you're accommodating to him.

    Communication is relative, first you have to affirm him to know no, for example, if he wants to develop locally, you have to affirm his point of view first, because he is right, his point of view is not wrong. Only the position he may be on the side of filial piety. After affirming the point of view, there is a common language, and your words can affect him, and that's it:

    Yes, it would be better if you went to Shanghai!

    If you really like him, you have to accept everything about him, including the fear of his father, and filial piety comes first.

    The tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, and the son wants to be filial and does not wait!

    Think about how a child runs away with someone else and doesn't come back to see how you feel!

    Hehe, you have to communicate with his father, and when you come back, you will run every day.

    You will benefit a lot from Professor Zhai Hongsheng's lectures, and you will also benefit a lot from "Selected Works".

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your boyfriend is a cowardly person who has been a good baby for so long that he has forgotten how to think.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In that case, why be nostalgic? I know that for serious relationships, a breakup is a pain. You said he was afraid of his father, then you should have known how it would end from the beginning, didn't you?

    Personally, I think that since we broke up like this, we should look forward. And the memories of the pain and happiness he brought to you are buried in the heart or forgotten in style.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Maybe he also has a hard time, you said that his father didn't approve of the relationship between the two of you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This kind of man, don't do it

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, Qi Xuling When you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    Gao Qi. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover, the honorary hand always knows you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it were me, I would fight for it again, and if he really didn't look back, I would smile and walk out of his life, because love doesn't exist anymore, so why force it??? It's better to relax, follow your own train of thought, and move towards the next starting point in life. Think about it, you have been in love for a long time, but in the end you broke up, it means that the love has disappeared, and he is like no one, why do you have to suffer yourself???

    It's that he doesn't know how to cherish you, it's his loss, shoot Ming Jane without him, you will live better. I wish you happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1 friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    At least the breakup needs to be cold and ruthless at the time, otherwise how can you bear to separate, there are not a few things that are untidy and messy, in fact, the ruthlessness at that time is good for both parties, if you are very calm with each other in the future, maybe you can be friends again, very calm friends. After that, you will feel that when you break up, you will be firm and good to everyone, so that each other can find the true love that truly belongs to you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What should come will still come, and you can only face it calmly. Believe that it will get better and better

    Sadness is inevitable, it's only a matter of time.

    If you want to be less sad, find more things for yourself to do. Fill your life to the fullest. If you have good people around, you may want to turn your attention to them. As long as you don't deliberately forget, it won't be long before you find that you have forgotten!

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