How to be a gentleman when you break up Definition of a gentleman What is a gentleman

When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

Just the most familiar strangers.

Men are much more determined than women when they choose to separate.

Whether you are a gentleman or not, you will not necessarily be a gentleman when you leave.

Feelings are right or wrong, outsiders can't judge, since you have chosen to break up, then you might as well let go of him, don't care about the little indifference he gives you in the end.

Be happy, time will heal everyone.

Take a taxi for each other, open the door, close the door. And wave goodbye.

Be polite, especially respectful of women, and be careful not to drop food on the table or on your clothes.

Just like you're a man, though, be polite to ladies.

No matter how good the method is, it is very sad, we have been talking for so long, and we have deep feelings for each other, even if it is a gentleman's breakup, it will cause harm to each other.

If we can be more generous and tolerant of each other, I think it's better to be together.

But then again, if you really can't be together, it's better to break up happily, I have a girlfriend, she and her boyfriend have been in love for 8 years, but the two have always been in love with each other, always thinking about the benefits, just dragged it around, fought and dealt with it for 8 years, and finally separated, making both of them grief-stricken for several days, and now both of them are married.

If you make up your mind to break up, don't cry anymore, and then get together again, then there is no point in proposing to break up. I think in order to avoid quarrels with each other, it is better to write a letter to her, which is not only tactful, but also can express everything you want to say, and also avoid a head-on conflict between the two of you, or change your decision because of her crying, and give up halfway, what do you say?

Men don't have a good thing, 3 years of relationship said to break up, will it be cruel, why didn't you want to be good in the first place,

Hehe, there would be no today Who knows how to say it three years ago and three years later Everything is possible If you get married, you have to divorce, don't talk about falling in love.

Can't be divided, three years of relationship, Qi Neng said to divide it, it's too irresponsible, I don't like it.

When it is time to divide, I will see everything clearly in three years; Hehe、、It's been almost three years、、It's not like we're breaking up when we break up、、、

Let's just say I have AIDS.

I don't want to drag you down, let's break up? Good put.

If you lose your girlfriend, you can't be a gentleman no matter how you say it!

It's better to be direct, anyway, everyone has a number.

hehe !!

To die is to save face and suffer sin!!

If it doesn't fit, say it clearly.

It's a relief for two people!!

Divide it, and be a gentleman?

It's normal to break up, and there's no need to do anything the same.

The "breakup" should be proposed by her, save her face, and force her to say it. Afterwards...

Alienated from each other, ** don't fight, don't go on dates, don't greet her, don't inquire about her news. He asks you to block it.

Agree with the opinion of the upstairs, women can't be soft-hearted when it's time to dump.

Clearly, someone said it well! A gentleman doesn't lie.

.It also takes a gentleman to break up.

I'm leaning. It's a different age.

If you're a gentleman yourself. You don't need to teach.

Don't learn from others. ok...You're not a gentleman. Why do you even have to imitate a breakup. You can break up in another way

To put it bluntly, it's good for both parties, and it can't be delayed! Can't be delayed! Can't be delayed! It's been three years, and a woman's time is precious! One severe pain is better than a break up in a few months or even years!

The content of the breakup is to directly explain the problems that exist in everyone, face them objectively, look forward to the future, and bless each other!

It's been 3 years, and no matter how you divide it, it won't be too gentlemanly

Let's be honest, I've never seen a gentleman deceive.

As the saying goes, it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy one family, so everyone should also be persuaded rather than persuaded to divide! I think, in this case! It's a period of love fatigue for the two of you!

You might want to find a place without her, go on a trip, or take a break to relax, if you really feel like you have to do it.

It's better to give someone a satisfactory answer.

You can tell her that you are in love with someone else.

Or tell her what you really think!

In the matter of breaking up, don't have too far-fetched reasons, otherwise you will break up and break up without hurting....Don't talk about any gentleman!

Also, if you are dissatisfied, you will be humble to each other, remember, why is the love of husband and wife in the first place, and the love in the back! Be considerate of the other person, and thank her for her forbearance of you, this is grace.

Gentle, modest, polite in front of girls, and generous in doing things for girls, but not unconditional and unrestricted tolerance.

Honest and not rude It is better to be deep and appear to have connotation, but also not too boring and detail-oriented.

Satisfied with the answer: Li Xianglan. Level 102010-05-14I don't think anything is absolute, don't always want to be a gentleman or a lady, what we have to do is to learn from a gentleman or a lady. Zhang Ailing said that the more ladylike a woman is, the dirtier her thoughts are in her heart.

Therefore, when it comes to how to be on par with a gentleman or a lady, it depends on how much you put me, and in the final analysis, it is a matter of moderation. Follow-up question: First of all, I will shake hands with you, moderation is my way of doing things.

In addition, I would like to ask, I love to laugh, the language is not a little vulgar, I am very polite, I don't care about teasing, I have a good temper, I am very enthusiastic, and I am very easy to get along with, is this considered a lady? Answer: Actually, everyone has their own unique definition of a certain word, and the word lady is no exception.

Most men want to marry a lady, and the general definition is pretty much the same as you described. The slight difference is that some men hope that this kind of woman will be good to themselves, while some people want such a woman to be good to others. Personally, I think that you have said one of them very well, that is, you are very enthusiastic about people, think about how a person who is good to everyone else can be bad to the people around him?

I don't think we need to copy the gentleman's way of life in life, we just need to learn what you appreciate. The perseverance, strength, and courage to take on the manly spirit shown by our Chinese men in times of danger and difficulty are not something that Western gentlemen can understand.

Elegant men, behave politely, and let this lady.

In fact, there is no such thing as a gentleman, it just depends on how to express it to be tactful, you can gradually be cold to the other party, etc., depending on the situation.

After a peaceful breakup、You can still repay her, even if it's not a couple.。

Gentlemanly manners are the basic norms of etiquette admired by the public in Western countries, especially the male public in the United Kingdom. When required to pay attention to one's appearance and demeanor in public interactions, the demeanor is graceful, and can give the impression of being polite and cultured.

1. Traditional British gentlemanly demeanor (1) Appropriate and appropriate clothing is dressed. First, it must be in line with its own identity, and second, it must be suitable for the occasion. (2) Introverted and humorous social interaction (3) The etiquette principle of ladies first.

In the United Kingdom, it is a natural ceremonial tradition for women to accept the respect and protection of men. For this reason, the British Home Office has issued a "Ten Commandments Proclamation" to men.

2. Gentlemanly demeanor in the modern sense (1) Pay attention to grooming and neat clothing. Men should not be vulgar and sloppy, and women should not be frivolous and vulgar. (2) Be courteous in words and deeds, elegant and generous.

In communication, when making introductions, it is customary in Western countries to introduce men to women first, young to older, and low-status to high-status, and not to reverse the order, otherwise it is considered impolite. (3) Civilized language, treat people politely, and do not do anything that is too polite Civilized language is a polite expression of gentlemanly demeanor. "Please", "you", "thank you", "sorry", "goodbye", these civilized expressions show a person's upbringing and demeanor.

A gentleman is nothing more than a patient wolf, which is not well defined in China. It is nothing more than being polite to the lady, and the words and deeds are more pleasing to the eye than others.