What is a good education, what is a good marriage

A loving education is a good education, and a loving marriage is a good marriage.

Attentive education is good education, and attentive marriage is a good marriage.

First, it is necessary to understand whether the shortcomings of both sides make each other tolerant and tolerant. When you are in love, you generally see the advantages of the other party, and even the shortcomings that are exposed will be ignored as cuteness. And after getting married, it's different, living together for a long time, you can often see a lot of each other's shortcomings, and a lot of different living habits from yourself.

If you love each other and tolerate all the strengths and weaknesses of each other, then your marriage should not be too wrong. Marriage is a process of mutual tolerance.

Second, it is necessary to understand whether the other party's education level is basically the same as your own. A high degree of education may not necessarily bring a high quality of life, and a low degree of education will never have a high level of quality of life. A low level of education usually means low income, a poor living environment, and a life at the bottom of society.

Excessively low educational qualifications will also bring inevitable troubles to the understanding of real life, the mediation of marital conflicts and the attitude towards daily life.

3. Understand whether the other person's personality and hobbies are similar to your own interests. A boy's vanity is easily lost by the girl's beauty, knowing that as the eldest grandson disappears, even the most beautiful looks will wither. Therefore, one should consider the local folk customs, and the other should think twice before acting, considering the economic situation of the boy's family, considering the boy's ability to work, and considering whether the boy has the potential for development in his career.

Fourth, it is necessary to find out whether the other party's character cultivation meets their own requirements. It is necessary to comprehensively examine the character and quality of the other party and how to deal with people, and whether the other party can be filial to his parents and elders, whether he has a minimum sense of responsibility and dedication, and whether he has basic moral character, which is very important for forming a family and living after marriage. As long as there is a good character and personality, no matter how poor the family is, as long as it works hard, it will be able to make a fortune, and no matter how difficult the life is, as long as it is hard work, there will be bright sunshine.

Fifth, it is necessary to understand whether the living environment of the other family's is roughly the same. Similar tutoring can speed up the emotional integration of husband and wife and reduce the distress during the run-in period. For those who don't know each other in the past, it is important to understand the other person's family background and tutoring situation.

A good family education can make a person knowledgeable, can make a person develop good living habits, can make a person form excellent quality characteristics, and can make a person become a figure accepted by the public.

A healthy marriage is built on the principles of love, understanding, trust and respect, and communication, cooperation and sharing are all important. In marriage, both parties need to constantly check the feelings of both parties, resolve the conflicts between the two parties, care for each other, support each other, respect each other, and cultivate a harmonious family atmosphere.

The feelings of husband and wife are cautious and frank, and the family is harmonious and happy. I think a good marriage is, of course, inseparable from everyone's hard work, no matter which aspect, it can be very suitable.

In a person's life, it is easy to fall in love with someone, but it is difficult to go through a long marriage. The more open and free the era, the more we need to stick to the scale of God in our hearts, the more we need to maintain spiritual prudence, and the more we need to pay attention to the code of conduct. If there is no love and responsibility, no warmth and care, it is not much different from hell.

On the contrary, choosing the right partner is the greatest wealth in life. There is an old saying, "Your parents determine the beginning of your life, and your lover determines the end of your life." "Having a good marriage is the core of a thriving family.

No matter how the years go by, how the seasons change, we respect and understand each other, trust and rely on each other. Stay together, even if you can't get tired of both, you can still do the same attitude. Gently accompany and guard, no matter what mutation occurs, they can still face it together.

In the final analysis, the greatest success and investment in a person's life is to meet a good partner.

In life, when it comes to talking about marriage, we will always hear four words - "the door is bent and the door is right".

So, what is a door-to-door match?

Is it that you study in the United Kingdom and the United States, and you have to start with a doctorate?

Or if your family earns 1 million a year, his family must earn 800,000 a year?

No, none of this is a door-to-door tour.

The real right person is the qin and the song in the concept, the eyebrows in the thinking, and the co-grave in the faith.

As Cai Kangyong said

My impression of being a good match includes my own education class, cultural background, etc.

With different family backgrounds and different social circles, there will be fewer and fewer topics exchanged with each other after marriage, which will eventually lead to couples going farther and farther apart.

The so-called "wrong door, wrong door" is like this.

Family backgrounds are different, so there is no need to be strong.

When two people with different family backgrounds are together, life will only get more and more tiring and difficult:

You want him to buy a bouquet of flowers for his anniversary, but he says you're wasteful;

You want to live a more ritualistic life, but they think you are hypocritical;

You look forward to poetry and distance, but they think you are contrived;

You can't change his perception, and he can't understand your thoughts. You are never on the same frequency.

In the end, I can only look at each other and get tired of each other.

Yes, the hormones of love can make two people form a family, but they can't maintain a family.

Marriage is a practice of love, and only by finding the right people on the same path can we go wider and farther together on the road of filial piety to the god of pilgrimage of marriage.

Therefore, the best marriage is an economic equality, and it is a spiritual match.

Because of the door, never inferior; Because the household is right, never proud.

As stated in Jane Eyre:

Love is a game, and you must always be equal and evenly matched with each other in order to cherish each other in the long run. ”

You must know: only when the spirit is right at home can you be happy and at ease, and the magnetic field in marriage is the same, so that you can share the beauty of the world.

The rest of your life is not long, please be with the "right person".