Hello Mr. Zheng, what should I do if my children are seriously addicted to the Internet?

Use a step-by-step approach, talk to your child, and give your child some space.

Fill your child's heart with something else.

When the heart is empty, we will pursue the most easily attainable illusory equality and achievement.

First, you can monitor and restrict network usage. That is, when children go online, it is better to use the Internet when the parents are around, and the time should be limited.

Second, surf the Internet at the opposite time to break the timing of using the Internet. For example, if you like to surf the Internet at night, your child will surf the Internet without moderation after parents go to bed.

Give children full love, understanding, support, encouragement and trust, let children have a sense of belonging at home, have a sense of intimacy with their families, take children to exercise together, participate in activities together, and do not rush to criticize what children express, learn to listen and accept.

The rapid development of modern society has made the Internet an indispensable part of people's daily lives, and children are no exception. However, if the child is addicted to the Internet and cannot extricate himself, it is necessary for parents to take timely measures to help the child overcome the problem of Internet addiction.

First of all, parents need to understand the reasons why their children are addicted to the internet. This may be because the child has insufficient self-awareness and lack of self-confidence, so they seek a sense of identity online; It may also be because of the negative emotions brought about by the child's academic pressure, family conflicts or interpersonal problems, etc., the child seeks psychological comfort and release through the Internet. Depending on the cause, parents should take different measures to help their children relieve stress, build self-confidence, and guide their children to deal with problems and emotions correctly.

Secondly, parents can set appropriate time and rules for using the Internet to guide and restrain their children. Parents can discuss with their children to formulate some reasonable usage time and rules to prevent their children from becoming addicted to the Internet and affecting their academic and physical health. At the same time, parents can also guide their children to find useful information and resources on the Internet, and encourage their children to participate in beneficial activities and socialization.

In addition, parents can communicate with their children psychologically to help them enhance their self-control and self-management skills. Parents can encourage their children to take the initiative to share their experiences on the Internet, communicate with their children about the pros and cons of the online world, and help their children enhance their awareness of self-protection and stay away from bad information and interpersonal relationships on the Internet. At the same time, parents should also give their children sufficient attention and love, encourage them to participate in beneficial activities and social interactions, and help children develop positive attitudes and values towards life.

In short, children's addiction to the Internet is a relatively common problem, and parents need to understand and pay attention to their children's emotions and needs, and actively take measures to guide their children to deal with Internet problems and emotions correctly, so as to help children get rid of the dilemma of Internet addiction and grow up healthily.

Parents should first face up to the Internet, the Internet is not a flood beast, and it cannot be one-size-fits-all;

secondly, communicate more with children and maintain a good parent-child relationship;

Finally, and the most effective, a game anti-addiction software - Green Pine Guardian will be a good assistant for parents to cultivate healthy Internet habits for their children.

Through the four functions of Internet Guardian, Application Guardian, Time Guardian and Remote Guardian, Green Pine Guardian assists parents in efficiently managing their children's Internet use and cultivating children's healthy Internet habits.

The "Internet Guardian" function supports custom web page control to help children eliminate all entertainment and game interference and improve learning efficiency; The "blacklist" and "whitelist" will help users filter for inappropriate content in web searches and can also be blocked depending on the level of protection you choose.

The "Remote Guardian" function can remotely view your child's device usage anytime and anywhere to help your child solve learning-related problems.

The "Time Guard" function can customize the time plan for the use of the device, reasonably plan the entertainment and rest time, and ensure the efficient development of learning.

The "App Guardian" function can support automatic reporting of device software and one-click disabling to help children eliminate the interference of game and entertainment applications during learning and ensure learning efficiency.

You can also chat with your child, visit museums, and develop other interests.

If your child just likes to surf the Internet and spends their spare time online, but is able to complete their normal schoolwork, then parents don't have to worry. If your child is playing games and skipping school, then you need to find a counselor**. Such children have bad grades, are blamed when they get home, and do not get personal respect, and naturally there will be problems.

First, you can monitor and restrict network usage. That is, when children go online, it is better for parents to go online when it is closed, and it is necessary to limit the time for clearing.

Second, surf the Internet at the opposite time to break the timing of using the Internet. For example, if you like to surf the Internet at night, your child will surf the Internet without moderation after parents go to bed.

Give children full love, understanding, support, encouragement and trust, so that children have a sense of belonging at home, have a sense of intimacy with their families, take children to exercise together, participate in activities together, and do not rush to criticize what children express, learn to listen, and accept them.

Don't hit, don't scold. As soon as many parents see their children playing games, they will kick them or even beat and scold their children. Thinking that using violence can make children timid, they will not dare to continue playing games.

As everyone knows, such behavior will only enhance the child's rebellious psychology, and it will not achieve the desired result at all. Therefore, parents should not beat or scold children who are addicted to games, which will only attract children's disgust, and we should take some roundabout ways to achieve better results.

Give your child enough company. The reason why some children are addicted to games is that they do not get enough love in real life, so they can only seek some solace in the virtual world. When they find that they can also find family love in the virtual world, they will naturally fall into it and cannot extricate themselves.

Therefore, if parents do not want their children to indulge in games, they must take some time out of the calendar to give their children enough company. As long as the child feels cared for in real life, there is no need to go to the virtual world to find a sense of existence.

Gradual. It's really hard to get a child to throw away the game, just like an adult.

One, there are quite a few such children.

Second, lay out the facts and reason, so that children can establish correct ideals and three views. Self-motivated.

Third, Yan Huai repented and prescribed the time for the game and urged it.

Fourth, the appropriate use of reward and punishment methods. If there are fewer online games, you can promise and fulfill other things and things that children like.

Fifth, take children to outdoor activities, sports, play ball, and visit the park. Distract yourself with other fun and bad things.