My boyfriend for many years abandoned me because he thought I was fat?

It seems that you and the man you so-called love you very much still don't know what true love is, and true love for someone will not care about everything about him. Hopefully you'll seriously consider this if you really love him** or is it still a problem? One thing is for sure, when you can really make up your mind and persevere to achieve the body you want, your so-called man is not necessarily your favorite.

Love is unconditional, unjustified, and good for each other.

The problem is not the fat and thin landlord...

It is said that men are not a good thing...

If you are thin, sooner or later your boyfriend will be idle and you are not plump enough. If you're fat, you already know it ... Even Lin Chiling will always get bored one day.

The question is, are you keeping your love fresh?

A good woman is a school for men to grow. No man can be self-taught, a good woman is self-produced and self-sold, and she hopes that her students will never graduate.

That is, you want to make men feel that you always have something new ... It's hard to teach how to do that. With the intelligence of the landlord, you should understand what I said, right?

Just rush to that sentence, he doesn't love you anymore.

Then again, you can get some of a woman's face back.

He said to you, when to lose weight and when to be together again.

You say to him, "When you are together again, when you will."

Then work hard and lose weight. But only if it's for yourself, not for him! You know what I mean?

Do one thing before choosing, that is, talk to your boyfriend, "If I'm always so fat, will you always dislike it", look at his expression and, if he really loves you and just thinks you're a little fat, then choose ** instead of choosing to break up;

If you feel from his expression and language that he neither really loves you nor thinks you are fat, then choose both, choose both to break up and choose **, fat and thin is not the standard to measure love, but since it affects love, it needs to be taken seriously, I think this problem can be considered from the following points:

1.Do you consider yourself fat?

Regardless of your boyfriend's opinion, how do you position yourself?

If you don't feel fat, then there's no need to **, and you can tell your boyfriend what he thinks, and I believe he can understand; If he still insists that you are too fat, it is recommended to find out the reason, and analyze the specific reasons, such as breaking up, such as **.

If you feel fat, then you can choose the right way on the premise of ensuring your health**, I believe he will be very supportive.

2.Are you just fat and thin?

I think girls have a subtext for many things, and the subtext of "my boyfriend dislikes me for being fat" may be "my boyfriend doesn't like me anymore";

And the guy can't read the subtext at all, so you can try to be coquettish with him, let him coax you, or just tell him "I'm fat, I want you to keep it!" "It is estimated that the two will not break up.

3.Love is not easy, learn together.

I think it's not easy for every relationship to come together, from heartbeat to confession, to heart-to-heart.

Therefore, it is not a matter of principle, do not talk about breaking up easily, and if he is wrong, then do not hesitate .

If it's just a harmless joke, it can still be solved in a better way, such as slimming down lightning and stuning him again; Or fatten him so that he doesn't have the confidence to dislike you; Love is not easy, let's learn together!

The last thing I suggest is first, the reason is:

1. Even if it is not for your boyfriend, you should think about your own health, obesity will trigger and threaten your health.

For example: inability to exercise, chest tightness, muscle weakness, edema, high blood pressure, high blood sugar, osteoporosis and low calcium, etc.

2.Obesity will also affect work, if you are too fat at a young age, the range of job options will be narrowed a lot, because of the image problem, so there is no way to trust some jobs that require image.

3.The social range is not wide, because obesity will definitely affect self-confidence, so going out to get together with friends or making friends will definitely be restricted, looking at the slender figure of same-sex friends, inferiority complex arises spontaneously, so I have to stay at home.

4.In terms of dressing, if you are too obese, you can't stand in front of the mirror, you don't know what to wear, and no matter what you wear, you feel like you're on your back, which is particularly awkward.

If it is successful, you will judge two people, comparable to plastic surgery. It's not just the current boyfriend to pursue, you can have more choices, and there are better boyfriends waiting for you. To sum up, now is the choice to break up, you should know it!