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I once read such a sentence in the book: "Fate and fortune cannot be changed, but fate can be changed." When I first saw this sentence, I couldn't grasp the deep meaning of it, but as time went by, I became more and more deeply touched by the word "fate".
In life, we often envy the good fortune of a woman, who can run a prosperous business regardless of work or life. The reason why we are envious is because these good women may not be as good as themselves in many aspects.
But life is like this, it doesn't mean that if you are better than her in many aspects, you will definitely be better off than her. She may not be as good as you in everything, but as long as there is a certain detail that is better than you, fate will open her up, and many good things will follow.
In fact, through careful observation, it is not difficult to find that the "good fate" women around us are not all due to luck, most of them are relatively taciturn, and never say those unnecessary and offensive words. Whether in love or marriage, the one who marries well in the end is often this kind of "taciturn" good girl.
Silence will bring out the charm and connotation of a woman.
In interpersonal communication, most of the understanding between people is through language. Whether you want to get to know others or get their attention to you, speaking is an essential part of it.
Smart women are mostly good listeners, and they know when to talk and when to shut up. This wise woman will always be able to remain elegant and outstanding in the crowd.
Silent women rarely offend people, and things are naturally more smooth.
As the saying goes: If you say too much, you will lose, and disaster will come from the mouth. Those who talk a lot are likely to bring a lot of trouble and trouble to themselves because of an unintentional remark, and even offend the people around them unconsciously.
If we want to live a peaceful life, we must accept the help and favor of others. In this case, a wise woman must know how to deal with the interpersonal relationships around her and will not easily offend others.
The best way not to offend others is to speak less. When you don't know what to say, stay silent, or think a little more before you speak, to determine whether the sentence is necessary.
Instead of talking too much, it is better to do things in a down-to-earth manner.
This kind of woman may not have so many words, but she knows how to change her life with actions, and she is willing to put her time and energy into these more meaningful things.
Silence is actually a disguise, a kind of low-key. When a person is silent in the crowd, it does not mean that she has no ideas, but because she is doing something seriously.
If a woman wants to work well, live well, and marry well, the first thing she needs to do is to know the proportions of her opening, what she can say and what she can't say, and she must have a rod and scale in her heart.
When you are a woman who knows how to speak and listen, she will become more attractive unconsciously, and good luck will naturally follow.
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A taciturn girl can better control her emotions, as well as her words and deeds, will not expose her weaknesses, and will make herself attractive enough.
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I have to say that a taciturn girl can better control her emotions, her words and deeds, not expose her weaknesses, and she will also make herself attractive enough.
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Because the taciturn girl is useless and has less social interaction, she has too much time to improve herself and make herself better. When she is good enough, it is natural that she can attract better men.
Because every word they say is well thought out, they are said to have high emotional intelligence.
Women who really marry well, they have a very good temperament, they are particularly reasonable, and their character is also very good, they can consider the feelings of others in life, of course, they are also very good-looking, and they are very temperamental.
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On the Internet, what kind of words to say, what tone to say, what kind of expression the other party is, it can be said that I don't know at all, you can speak freely on the Internet, and you can predict it as you like, but in reality, it's different, which requires face-to-face communication, not to mention that you haven't spoken for a while, and it's a bit estranged I think this boy's personality is also a little introverted! Oh, it doesn't matter, since you don't need a generation gap between you can talk on the Internet, then you can ask him on the Internet, tell him what you think in your heart, and see what he says to you! What is there to say.