Truly loving someone in exchange for such a result, should it?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Looks like you're spoiling her too much.

    If you treat her too well, she won't cherish it.

    So I suggest you give her a cold shoulder first.

    If you don't take the initiative to find her, if she looks for you, you will find an excuse not to see her.

    Slowly, she will miss the kindness you have done to her.

    If you snub her when she really leaves you.

    Then you don't have to feel sorry for such a girl, it's not worth your nostalgia.

    Let's go find the girl who cherishes you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Promises shouldn't be kept--- against people like her. Your sincerity will meet the person you really love, don't be discouraged before you go. Knowing that it is false, why do you deliberately pretend. Confess to her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Dear landlord.

    Glad for your question.

    I know I can't, but I want to like you, many people are like this! However, many times it often hurts itself. After a long time, you will find that you feel ridiculous, a little silly, and even childish!

    So sometimes we have to learn to give up, when we know that we can't, we should choose to give up, the long pain is better than the short pain, give up and give yourself a glass of cold water, extinguish the fire in your heart, run wild in the rain, sing and chant wildly.

    It's all right! In order to be able to get happiness in the future, the so-called strong twisted melon is not sweet, don't ignore the whole garden because of the withering of a flower, open your hands, you will get more beauty!

    Meteors are beautiful, but do you know that any star has its beautiful side, but you haven't found it, as long as you use your heart to find it, a lot of beauty is no worse than your current one! Well, that's it, people sometimes need to calm down and think with their hearts, only people who know how to give up will be happy people, I hope you get your own happiness! ~

    Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is a sad fairy tale

    Anyone who reads it!

    have all left regrets to a greater or lesser extent.

    When we're done reading.

    will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything.

    It doesn't hurt when we give up someone who loves you very much.

    Because we are likely to have a relationship with this person but have no part, and it is painful when we give up someone you love very much.

    Because it is very likely that we have a relationship with this person but have no relationship, when we fall in love with someone who does not love you, that is the most painful, because it is very likely that we have no relationship with this person and have no part.

    If there is fate, time and space are not distances, and if there is no fate, even if they get together, they will not be able to understand ,!!

    Don't worry too much about it!

    There is no need to force it.

    Let's just let everything go with the flow.

    Love is like that, sometimes like poison, sometimes like honey!

    Because there are so many unknowns.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets. That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words.

    Disappointment, sometimes, is also a blessing. Because there is something to expect, there will be disappointment. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things that you regret. Pursue love, and then discover that love has always been a thousand things.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    True friends.

    Often it's not that you're proud.

    Side. The former and the latter are not in your prime.

    time. Someone who congratulates you with flowers in hand. A true friend is someone who lends you a helping hand when you're in trouble, someone who sends you a note when you're lonely.

    Although people make a variety of friends in their lifetime, there are few who can be called friends.

    True. Friendship.

    It is rugged and it stands the test of time and the test of the environment. True friendship is worth pursuing and cherishing for the rest of our lives. In the modern society where the first news facilities are developed, we.

    With friends. The communication is very convenient, texting, calling** or e-mailing, or even as long as there is a tacit understanding.

    Eyes. With a simple greeting, we can be a sharer of happiness and a sharer of grief. When we need it most, they reach out and when they are in need.

    Camaraderie. , we will offer our support. True friendship is one that does no harm.

    Above, I hope it will be helpful to the landlord!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It may not be able to get back the sincerity, and it may only make you feel cold.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I saw a sentence a few days ago, and I thought it would be the best way to answer this questionSome people think that as long as they are sincere and good to a person, they will move the other party, but he doesn't know that it is he who is really moved, not others.

    I think this sentence is too right, why is it right, because those who think that as long as they wait slowly and always be good to a person, no matter how cold his heart is, sooner or later he will be moved, so as to accept ourselves, and then slowly fall in love with ourselves, but we always think too beautifully.

    The reality is that if you are good to a person, in the eyes of others, you should be so good to him, and you keep paying, and in his opinion, you should give, so he will not be movedwill not really fall in love with you because of your dedication, but will continue to ask for it, constantly want you to pay more, but at the same time it is more and more indifferent to you, because he knows that no matter what he does to you, you will not leave, so he gives you the best side of himself, and you can only bear it silently, and it's better for him to be finished.

    In the end, you have paid so much, it is you who really can't let go of this relationship, because you have paid too much, so you are reluctant to leave, you always want to one day the other party will fall in love with me, you wait, wait, and finally wait until the other party falls in love with someone else's voice, it turns out that you have been in this relationship, you are just the person who is amorous, so I don't think that sincerity to a person can be exchanged for the other party's sincerity.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you have experienced a lot and met more, you will understand that not all sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity. Life is tormented, not afraid of hardships and hardships along the way, only afraid of encountering hypocrisy and grievances, which makes people tired and tired. You've come to understand:

    Not all people treat others with warmth and kindness, and not all sincere people understand each other.

    In interpersonal interactions, don't be the one who always gives, know how to recognize people's hearts, and advance and retreat in a certain way. It is natural and wholehearted to be worthy of sincere association. If it's not worth it, slowly withdraw, and then, abandon it, and just see through it without saying it.

    Everyone's efforts are expected to be rewarded. As for what to say, be worthy of your heart and be yourself. Sometimes it's just self-deception. My principle is that if you treat me well, I will treat you better. If you fail me, I will be far from you.

    The human heart is gradually grown up in being hurt again and again, I will miss the innocent self in the past, but I prefer to understand that true feelings are rare now, and learn to protect my inner self. Not all sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, and it varies from person to person. Instead of dwelling on it, it's better to love yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sincerity does not necessarily mean sincerity for a person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is a possibility, but it may not be exchanged for sincerity.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is not necessarily, some people think that you should be good to him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Wang Yuyan loved Murong Fu so much, but she didn't get his sincerity.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This is not necessarily, it also depends on the opinion of the other party.

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