People who don t like to talk don t look tall

You can't say that either, because there are many reasons why the person doesn't like to talk, such as the person being introverted and not finding a topic of interest or familiarity.

All of this will make you less talkative and less talkative.

But you can do this, others will never say that you are high--- although you spend little, but you can listen to other people's conversations with your most sincere heart, and when you hear a topic of interest, you can also add a few words.

Sometimes, talking less will make you appear more stable and less likely to say the wrong thing.

It is necessary to take a correct view of the problem from many aspects, and sometimes the shortcomings and deficiencies will turn into favorable factors.

Hehe, if there are deficiencies in the opinions, I hope to correct them.

It may be withdrawn, not necessarily, it varies from person to person!

yes, maybe from school. When you get to society, society will make you drip.

Me too, talk less, prestige is high, remember!

It's terrible, because you can't see his true thoughts, you can't understand his true character, and everything is unknown to him. And the unknown is fearful.

For example, the Eysenck Personality Questionnaire describes a typical introverted personality as quiet, detached, introspective, and prefers to be alone rather than contacting. Be conservative and keep a certain distance from people (unless you are a close friend).

People who don't like to talk tend to be planned, forward-looking, and not impulsive. Daily life is regular and rigorous. Follow ethical values.

Do things reliably. Very little offensive behavior, somewhat pessimistic. Anxiety, nervousness, irritability, and depression.

Poor sleep. The specific performance is related to factors such as education level, personal experience, and living environment. It belongs to the 'qi deficiency' constitution of traditional Chinese medicine.

It varies from person to person, and there is a reason why they don't like to talk. Some people are introverts and it is normal not to like to talk, while others are not good at expressing themselves and can't speak. Most people who don't talk are actually not scary, and feel that he will hide his thoughts deep in his heart, giving you a sinister and terrifying feeling.

Not scary. Everyone has needs and desires to be noticed, respected, and recognized. If no one responds, we will have a sense of shame that we can't ask for it.

To avoid this psychological stress, we suppress our desires or needs, or even stop emitting desires and needs to avoid disappointment. As a sensitive person, their emotions are richer than ordinary people, so it is easier to experience this "shame".

Different people, the purpose of expression is different, some people express, just to communicate, but for others, to express to get applause, praise and recognition.

Sensitive people are like this, because they are sensitive, they will care about "every time" of performance, and even have requirements for the "effect" of expression, they will treat every speech as a speech, a performance, in order to show their ability, not for communication.

Therefore, it is natural that because of the pressure of "losing face", they do not like to talk.

It can't be decided from one by one, and there are many kinds of people who don't speak. You'll need to look hard to find out which one it is. There are the following.

1. "People who have low self-esteem and dare not speak." "This kind of person should be easy to see, always with his head down, very timid and scared, and little confidence in doing things; 2. "People who can't speak", sometimes they always feel like they can't speak (I sometimes don't talk to the computer for a long time); 3. "People who are too lazy to talk" are too boring on the topics discussed by others, or already know the results of the topics discussed by others. Or maybe there are no like-minded people around you at all, and there is no common language.

So I'm too lazy to talk about it. (Some people say that this kind of person is scary and observant.) Be able to see through the hearts and thoughts of others from their every move, word and deed.

There are two kinds of people in this kind of situation, one is a very awesome person, and the other is scheming,); 4. "People who are not familiar with you," generally people who are not familiar with you dare not talk nonsense. (This type of person will naturally be fine after a long time); 5. "People who are afraid of saying the wrong thing and causing trouble." I thought it was safest not to speak.

Because not saying anything is often the safest. ）

Hope it helps everyone who sees this. People who don't talk aren't necessarily scary, and people who don't talk aren't necessarily introverts.

It's not scary, he just doesn't want to talk, he has a more introverted personality, and such people are generally more honest and don't talk nonsense.

No sycophancy.

They're all great people!

Introverts don't like to talk much, so are introverts scary? The answer is certainly not terrible, a short-tempered person should be terrible, saying that if you make him angry, he may kill you.

In fact, people who speak in vain are not scary.

It's just that he's faced terrible.

The most is loneliness.

Many people can't bear this kind of loneliness.

Not scary. Not being talkative is just a character, and everyone has a different personality.

No, not loving to talk is a manifestation of introversion, a person has a temper, what is terrible, so it is not terrible.

A man who doesn't like to talk doesn't mean he doesn't speak, but he hasn't found the right person to talk to. In fact, it takes time to understand a person, and it is not someone or something that is decided because of whether you like to talk or not.

There are two reasons why you don't like to talk. One is introversion. He himself did not dare to communicate with others.

So I don't like to talk. Such people are not scary. The second type of people.

It's he who looks down on you. I don't want to communicate with you. I don't want to pay attention to you.

I don't think it's a level. So such people are terrible. Stay away from him.

Ignore him as well. Such people are not worth paying attention to.

Because you don't know his heart, the one who doesn't speak is the most terrible!

Depending on the situation, some of them you think should be, and some of them are just pretending to be deep.

People who don't like to talk are generally lonely, but whether it's scary or not depends on the situation.

It's terrible, everything needs to be hooked up.

For smart people, speaking is an art! Good things to say only to those who know you! And there are only a few real confidants, and there are only one or two reckless beings, so they often cherish words like gold.

The ideological latitude is not at the same level, and there is no so-called like-mindedness, which will inevitably lead to speaking not on the same channel, no common language, no same concepts, and no clear topics. A wise person can never stand wasting time with a mediocre person. Therefore, it is best for smart people to remain silent.

And for smart people, it's not that they don't say it, but they are very good at choosing the occasion. For ordinary people's entertainment gossip, firewood, rice, oil and salt, they don't take it to heart at all. Because what they are concerned about is not very people's deceit, intrigue, and affection.

However, this kind of person, in a specific occasion and environment, can talk eloquently, which can be said to know astronomy, geography, and omnipotent.

In daily life, their roles are somewhat wooden and even unsociable in the eyes of others. However, in some formal occasions such as speeches or meetings, he can handle it easily, and his performance must be much better than ordinary people. They are only eight years tall and have five cars of learning, but they are too low-key in terms of how they usually behave in the world.

So that their talent is not discovered by those around them. But talent is like pregnancy, and it will be visible over time. Therefore, smart people can admit it, but they can be a blockbuster at critical moments.

Having said that, if a person with advanced academics talks about academics with an ordinary person, isn't that equivalent to playing the piano to a cow? Even if one talks eloquently, the other can't understand. So, instead of talking nonsense, it's better to keep quiet.

Therefore, smart people in the crowd are basically not very talkative, because even if he says it, few people listen. But if you give him a chance, he will definitely say that you are speechless.

For smart people, their ideological latitude, values, professionalism, and scope of involvement. It is much higher than the average person, so for them, being with mediocre people who like entertainment gossip instead pulls down their IQ. So they generally don't get along with gossips, and since they don't get along, they don't need to say anything!

It's not a person's fault that they don't like to talk, everyone has their own personality. There is nothing wrong with silence, but what is wrong is to question oneself and question others because of what others think. It may be distressing for you, but if you don't want to change, don't look at others with suspicion.

For man lives for himself, not to compliment others.

Bottom line: Why should a boy live for others when he is born in the world, silence is not wrong, what is wrong is the doubt that breeds because of silence. Be honest with yourself, why care about the gossip of others.

I feel like you're wrong about what you said about yesterday. Being able to go out together for a happy supper and chat is enough to show that your friends are sincere to you. And just because their jokes in the chat make you question what you think is your best friend, I can only say that if you can't accept everyone's opinion, then change your personality as soon as possible.

Because even his best friend is questioning, it is better to change himself than to live in doubt.

Finally, [he said to me, "But I trust my instincts"] you didn't make it clear, maybe you missed something. But what I want to say is that because of you, everyone broke up. You think it's good, and you've created a faint estrangement between you, but it's not inexplicably that you created it.

Listen to me, go and apologize to those friends tomorrow and sincerely talk about your troubles, and true friends will understand you. And you just have to let go of the heart of questioning others. Remember not to ruin a true friend because of a mistake.

People who don't like to talk love to think. There's nothing wrong with you're a man.,I think deep and steady is your advantage.。。 If you think it's not good then you can try to change it, show your thoughts a lot, don't care about other people's words, I think it's all brothers who won't be hostile to you.

You're still a cautious person. When he says this, you are also reminding you that you are too withdrawn and should be changed. It's just a joke. You're almost crying. Speechless.

You can't be talkative, but you have to find your way to exist.

It's just a matter of process. I guess that's the main person behind me. I don't think there's anything wrong with that

Everyone has their own personality and the most comfortable state and suitable things. So everybody is different. The real profession is different.

But I'm worried about this issue and the main advice given is:

1. You may be a love, not a show, and eloquence is not good, but you must be polite, for example: basic greetings and ways to get along with people, colleagues, shouting names for things that get help, and not neglecting handovers in the process of working with colleagues. You may be because you don't want to talk, but other people or most people will find you rude and neglect your work.

After all, co-workers are not family members. There is no reason for him to tolerate you unconditionally.

2. Learn to smile, even if you don't like to talk, but at least you have to show your friendship, the power of smiling is stronger than you think, everyone on earth knows it

3. Self-reflection, if it's just conflict talking, communicating with others, your work life will become difficult. The first step you have to take is self-change and self-deprecation. After all, say a little more if you don't die and don't find out why they don't want to talk, and then step by step, for example

If the child's parents hit your shadow, talk to the parents and tell your truth; If the same thing needs help for you, I hope it helps you, but you can't say it's looking for an opportunity to explain, and then tell yourself to be brave next time, take this step, and then boldly change.

4. Learn to help others, or take the initiative to ask for help. Helping others will make you feel worthy, you are a useful friend and family, and you have gained good interpersonal relationships; Asking for help from others, because it is usually remembered, that is, research is usually a happier annoyance, because there is value in his needs, and it is definitely a magic weapon to improve interpersonal relationships.

In the end, I hope that the main problem must be a good person who believes that the world is good, that there is a positive side, or that good things will happen。Only once was someone who didn't dare to speak. Emotional, sensitive, always feeling hurt, after thousands of times of self-torture finally realized the martial arts cheats:

To be happy, you have to be thick-skinned!!

That year, I didn't like to talk and had low self-esteem, but I treated people with sincerity. The experience remained firmly in my memory, without any feeling, but it was a training for me, and as a result, the way I solidified my heart, I became a part of my soul. But how do you survive if you don't like to talk?

Let me share my opinion.

Overcome low self-esteem and get to know yourself correctly.

You don't like to talk, maybe just because you don't like to show off, and your eloquence is not good, but you have to be polite and sincere. For example, when greeting colleagues, I find that it helps to call names and cannot be omitted in the process of working with your colleagues. You may not want to talk, but other or most people will think you are rude and slacking off, after all, there is no reason for your family to accept you unconditionally.

Reflect on yourself often.

If you just resist communicating with others, your work life will be difficult, you have to stand up, learn to change yourself, and laugh at yourself. After all, it's not dead, a little more words, find out why you don't want to talk, and then be brave step by step, such as: if it is the shadow you caused by your parents when they were young, then talk to your parents deeply and say what you really think; If the colleague next to you needs help, you want to help too, but can't say it, then find a chance to explain, and then tell yourself to be brave next time, be there, and then be brave to change.

Be open-minded and communicate actively.

The most important thing is to improve yourself, to talk to others about time to learn, to think, not to follow the crowd, to build an independent mind, and at a certain stage, whatever you want to express in your stomach, it will naturally speak.