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First of all, whether he has serious things to do when he goes out, maybe for work, or there are important things to deal with, don't wonder if there is someone outside at every turn. If it's true, you can find clues from other sources. And not simply going out.
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I think at this time you have to conduct a calm analysis, this man went out, what reason did he go out, if it is work, then it is recommended that you do not be too careful, it may really be because of work to go out, if it is said that he is looking for friends to go out. Then you don't know what you're going out with this friend, or what kind of person this friend is.
Of course, if you can detect that he is lying in obvious circumstances, then it is not necessarily an outside play, maybe some other situation, in the absence of conclusive evidence, it is recommended that you do not suspect the man so easily. In this case, there will be a crack in your marriage or your love, and this crack will not be able to be filled.
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Not necessarily, maybe he's busy with something out there or what he needs to do.
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This question needs you to ask, what is he doing every day? Is this how the work of the unit works? If the work is not the same, there should be a reasonable explanation, and if it is, then consider whether there are people? Faithless.
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No, don't be suspicious of others without conclusive evidence, and going out for a day won't mean anything.
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The problem is that if you don't go out at home, it doesn't necessarily mean that there are people outside, maybe there is something to do, or some people like to go out for a walk, yo-yo to go, we play yo-yo, exercise, these are all okay, and you can't always be at home, don't be careful.
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It's not so sure yet, so let's keep observing, and don't move for now. To love him is to be doubly good to him and to convert him.
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There is play, fun, food and drink, and there is no restraint, and you will definitely not go home until the evening.
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This is not necessarily, sometimes there must be something.
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Summary. Kiss, is this man your husband, he doesn't come back to accompany you every day now.
Kiss, is this man your husband, he doesn't come back to accompany you every day now.
Dear, a man who breaks his sails every day and talks about going to a place every day and not going home must have someone outside, maybe he is tired of your life with him. I want to use this way to alienate you. Kill time with him.
I was at home with the child, he was working outside, and he recently found out that he went to the same place one night and returned to the factory the next morning to work, and went again in the evening, and Fan Yuan was quietly judged to be like this for five consecutive days.
Kiss, how do you know about your husband's situation, whether you found out yourself or someone else told you?
I found out for myself, I can't go every day to find friends to drink, chat and play mahjong, and I come back to work in the morning and go back to work in the evening, so I wonder if it's anyone.
Dear, I'll break it down for you. Do you feel anything unusual when you talk to your husband right now?
Frequent chats you guys.
Especially in the evening, have you talked to him in the past two days?
Marriages that have been separated for a long time are prone to problems.
Before May Day, we watched the children every day, and we all chatted. After May Day, he didn't send ** every other day or two, and before the 1 7th, he was in the hotel before the verdict on May 7th, and now he goes to the same place every day. Go in the evening and come back to work in the morning and go again in the evening.
At first, I thought I was going to chat with friends and drink or play mahjong. Going for a few days in a row I suspect something is a bit abnormal.
Kiss. How often do you and your husband see each other?
We are in a different place, I am at home with children, Chi Ji I just suspect, which is the May Day holiday, before the 7th in the slow imitation hotel, after the 7th every day to go to that place. Go in the evening and come back to work in the morning and go again in the evening, for several days in a row.
Kiss. You don't have to doubt it. Do you still need me to say it explicitly?
How long have you been with him?
It has basically been determined that he must have a lover outside, so he will go to that place every day, maybe it is his lover's residence, looking for friends to drink, chat, and play mahjong. It is impossible to go to Pei Chan every day, and he still goes to work in vain.
So what are you going to do now.
How long have you been living with him in a different place, and you are at home with the children and he has done this to your marriage.
Do you really feel that it is not worth it, have you thought about what to do?
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Summary. Dear, your brother is a kind of juvenile rebellious psychology, you can take the initiative to communicate with your brother. Many conflicts are exacerbated by a lack of communication between family members.
Therefore, you usually communicate more than your brother, and you can start with something that interests him and gradually gain his trust. After gaining his brother's trust, he can make full use of his experience to persuade his brother and tell him about his experience, so that he can realize the harm of doing something. But in the process of persuasion, you can't keep saying bad parts, and you can tell your younger brother what will happen if you are obedient.
Dear, a man who works outside and does not go home all the year round is generally the husband who has someone outside, because even if the man is thrifty, they cannot not go home for a long time, it is definitely not to save that little money, does he not want to be the wife and children at home, unless there is one reason, such a result is that some eventually return to the family, and some simply do not want to be at home, and live a fair life with the outside.
It's my brother, not married.
I didn't go home for many years, and I didn't call my parents for a few months.
The family called him, why did he often deliberately not answer.
Dear, in this case, you can take the initiative to contact him and let him go home often in the future. Because many young people are more playful now, they completely ignore the feelings of their families, and they are also wandering outside all the year round, so if you want him to return to the family as soon as possible, then you are this bridge and communicate with your younger brother well.
The point is that he doesn't pick me up**, and his parents often don't answer when they call.
Dear, the main reason why he often deliberately doesn't answer is that he thinks that his family calls him ** is a kind of harassment of him, so he often doesn't answer.
So what to do?
Dear, your brother is a kind of juvenile rebellious psychology, you can take the initiative to communicate with your brother. Many conflicts are exacerbated by a lack of communication between family members. Therefore, you usually communicate more than your brother, and you can start with something that interests him and gradually gain his trust.
After gaining his brother's trust, he can make full use of his experience to persuade his brother and tell him about his experience, so that he can realize the harm of doing something. But in the process of persuasion, you can't keep saying bad parts, and you can tell your younger brother what will happen if you are obedient.
He is almost 30 years old, and his family basically doesn't answer him, and he can't get through 9 times out of 10.
Dear, in this case, you or your parents can find an opportunity to use an excuse to probe into his heart.
Lingling, you can find an excuse, for example, so-and-so is seriously ill and needs him to come back immediately, so as to see if you can use filial piety to impress him to come back.
Lingling, in fact, he hasn't come back for so long and hasn't contacted his family much, which shows that his family affection for the family has become relatively weak, so he must often take the initiative to contact him in the future, and it is okay to cultivate family affection or brother and sister friendship, after all, communication is the best bridge.
Dear, you can tell the teacher about your brother's previous situation, so that the teacher will help you solve the problem more accurately!
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Summary. A man who works outside the home and does not come home all the year round is because this man is responsible and enterprising.
A man who works outside the home and does not come home all the year round is because this man is responsible and enterprising.
Thinking about making the family better, instead of living one day at a time, is a man with pursuits.
Dear, can I tell me about the specific situation?
It's my brother, not married.
I didn't go home for many years, and I didn't call my parents for a few months.
Then he may feel that he is not ready for a certain amount of savings, and he is afraid that he will not be able to afford a family.
Beat him ** basically deliberately didn't pick us up, why is this?
If you don't give it back to the family, you usually contact him, and he doesn't answer, so do you usually give the family a certain family subsidy?
His parents didn't ask him for money.
He makes his own money and spends it himself.
So will he take the initiative to give money to his parents?
No, his parents didn't ask him for it.
Because everyone's personality is different, some people will not shout and ask for warmth, but once there is something at home that needs him, he will not be stingy.
You can try to get your parents to talk to him about living expenses, because after all, your parents should always pay you something for raising him so big.
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Dear Hello, regarding your doubts, I don't think it is easy to draw conclusions. Although in some cases, it is true that the man who comes back in the middle of the night may have a round companion outside, it may also be due to busy work or other personal reasons. If you want to know the truth, you can try to communicate with him, or get information through other channels.
In addition, I would like to remind you not to be suspicious of others easily, let alone generalize. Everyone should be respected and trusted, and if you have any doubts, you should communicate with them instead of guessing and doubting. Finally, I suggest that you reflect on your clever relationship, whether there is a problem of trust and communication, and if so, you should solve it in time to maintain mutual trust and love.
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What about during the day? Come back or not to rest.
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Hello, according to your question I have the following: the type of man who is reluctant to go home: 1. Longing for freedom and chatting with a friend, he said:
I just stayed on the street at night and didn't want to go home. It's too stuffy at home and I like to play outside. "Men are like children a lot of the time, it's their nature to love to play, and many men love to be lively, like to chat, talk and drink with friends.
Nightlife is also an essential part for them to relax and satisfy their attachment to society. For this part of the men, it's not that they don't like to go home, it's just that they won't go home so punctually. All that is needed is for women to give them maternal love and give them a little freedom.
Rest assured, they will recognize the way home, and they will naturally go home when they are tired of playing. 2. Catharsis and relaxation No matter how much society promotes equality between men and women, it is undeniable that men still bear more pressure. Men live more tiring than women, and career is their visible and invisible pressure.
Women can retreat to the family, and men have no choice but to "charge into battle". And today's competition is so fierce, you may face the distress of being laid off one day, and you will encounter the helplessness of dismissal one day. Of course, there is also the joy of success and the hope of promotion, but whether it is joy or loss, some are inconvenient to confide in their wives and children.
Therefore, if men do not go home for a long time, it can only be their spiritual yearning not to go home, and the final result of such a man is a lonely life. The above is the result of my query, I hope it can help you, give a thumbs up, thank you.
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If the other party later replied that he didn't see it, then he might as well be tolerant, because due to work and life reasons, no one can be 24 hours a day**; If you often don't reply to WeChat, then it's better to bother less, you have to find that if you don't bother him, he won't contact you, or I don't want to pay attention to you, forget it, what should I do.
This kind of man, just making excuses for stepping on two boats for himself, I have seen too much, he is not worth your pain for him at all, leave as soon as possible, this will be better for you, don't use ten points to love someone, just seven points, leave three points to love yourself, the man who really loves you will not hold one person in his hand, and love another person in his heart.
It's clear that you don't know each other in reality.,Me and my object is that I reply to him, he doesn't reply much, I suddenly disappeared.,If his temper is hot and cold, you can consider replacing the next one.,If he's the kind of cheerful person and then don't reply to your message, it means that you're not particularly important, it's not worth his second to reply to you.,There's also a kind of boy that you send him a message.,Maybe he has too much information.,I haven't seen it.,I've been brushing Kuaishou.。 Or don't want to go back. If you are thinking about changing the next one, you can ask him to see what he says or what he does, and some guys won't know if you don't tell him
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