Thinking that this relationship should end, but you don t have the courage to face the breakup, what

It shows that you are still a little reluctant to her, but you still care about her, and you think he will be unhappy or something.

Why, is because you can't let go of her, why can't you let go of her? It's that you still like her, but you have been communicating less recently, and both of you feel that it is not as good as before, but she or you still haven't found out the problem and dealt with it, and the result is that both of you are uncomfortable, and no one bows their heads.

What I want to say is, you must love her, why give up if you love her? If you promise not to regret it, you have to show some courage and get together and disperse.

But I still owe it to you to find out the fault and deal with him, it's not easy to find someone who loves him!

I should be able to relate to your feelings, and that's how I feel to my current boyfriend. I know that I will definitely break up in the future, and I will never get married. Sometimes I really feel that being with him is a mutual torture and a waste of feelings.

But I just couldn't put it down, so I kept dragging it out. Many girls seem to have this problem, and they always think: Hey, get used to it, make do with it.

And I have another reason because I have too few friends, I want him to be with me all the time, and I am afraid of loneliness. It's a pity that I'm a person who doesn't have an opinion, and my feelings are too overflowing, and if I can really break up with him, it might be a relief, but it's too difficult to make a decision.

If your relationship really comes to an end, then don't force it, you must know that the forced relationship is hurtful. This kind of thing is mainly up to you.

The words are very contradictory and want to end? Don't have the courage? Everything has to have an adaptation phase. Time will fade.

Everything, since you can't control it, why not follow your heart.

Slowly estranged, and finally broke up naturally.

The couple had friction for a long time, and the contradictions were too emotional. At this time, you will be able to disturb your thoughts. But I don't want to think about the sweet experiences of the past.

This hesitation and don't want to break up, what should I do? Calm your mind, in fact, there will be some problems with every relationship. Giving up in this moment is not the best, but finding the emotion and working on overcoming it.

When you want to break with ta, you will first calmly think about what has arisen between your feelings and then find a discussion. This is the attitude of managing love. Tell a friend.

As the saying goes, "authority is fascinating", it is difficult to know if he loves each other or not, and if you want to break up, then you need to communicate with each other. If you have such an idea, you can share it with your friends, and maybe the friends can give you some good advice so that you can let you know how to do it better. Calm down first, for a while to calm you down, do you have such thoughts that you don't care about his injustice?

If that's the case, then try to calm yourself.

The appearance of problems is not very pleasant, there is a certain accumulation that will explode, so calm yourself down, calm each other calmly, feelings need to be experienced, this is just a small small step. Let's repeat, whether it's because it's normal for you to have such thoughts, you need to make yourself happier, you need to let the other person know some of your emotions. Maybe it's just that there is such an urge because of some reasons of your own, so I have to learn to chat.

In your heart and sharing something unhappy, will give yourself a small piece of advice.

Do a good job, if you want to consider the other side's thoughts, then you won't have a lot of love. If you have such thoughts for a long time, then you have to do it well as soon as possible, or you have to make decisions together and not delay the moth.

and each other. If you will be brave and brave, maybe there will be another standard of love in your heart. If you really want to break up, then don't decide at night, you can say that you won't make any decisions at night, make people feel at night, it's easy to think about it, make people think of some sad memories or not good, many times, I've made a decision and I'll regret it the next morning, especially a breakup.

At this time, you should turn off your mobile phone, don't contact him again, and then think about whether it is necessary for your relationship with the other party to continue, and if you still can't let go, then try to get back together.

If two people are really not suitable, then they should really break up as soon as possible, bury this relationship deep in their hearts, and if you don't touch it, you will slowly let go.

You should carefully analyze the reasons why you want to break up with him and the reasons why you are reluctant to let go, and if you can't see the future with him, then let go quickly.

You should break up, only by taking this step can you make yourself less entangled and meet a better future.

At this time, you have to think about it, if you don't separate the disadvantages of this, you will want to let go of this relationship, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

In such a situation, I think you should calm down, and you should also understand your true inner thoughts, and you should also take the initiative to communicate with the other party, and then decide whether the relationship should break up, but don't be stubborn.

At this time, you should calm yourself down for a while, think carefully about what kind of experience this relationship has brought to you, if you don't make yourself better, but let yourself become a sufferer, then you should give up in time.

You should save this relationship and do everything you can to do it, but if you don't succeed in the end, you can only give up because you have a clear conscience.

Two years of breakup is long enough. If you still don't want to start the next relationship, it means that you still haven't let go of this relationship.

You should go out and walk more and make more friends. Slowly, you will realize that life is actually quite good.

I think you have to sort out your thoughts, it's best to go out and give yourself a vacation, and slowly you will be able to think through many things clearly.

You can go out to travel, you can go to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, relax your mood, and let yourself come out of the shadow of broken love.

You should treat this matter with the right mentality, and the breakup for two years is not short, and you should start a new relationship.

You should let yourself know that these feelings are actually in the past, have nothing to do with the present, and you should start a new life.

The best way to regulate your mood is to read more books and find more things to do that interest you.

I think you should find a new partner and forget the old love through a new love, which is the fastest solution.

I mentioned the breakup myself, but both parties know that there is no way to be together, why did the relationship come to an end? Everyone has different living habits, different types of consciousness, differences in temperament, mutual understanding of tolerance, self and a series of reasons, and eventually get farther and farther away, some even passers-by are not as good as each other, love and kill each other, and finally the result will lead to the destruction of love. No matter how vigorous the love is, after being together for a long time, it will finally be dull.

Learning how to get along in ordinary life is the only way to be in love, and every lover should learn on the road of long-distance running.

The way of life is different, and all kinds of not very good living conditions and defects are exposed, causing conflicts. Couples appreciate each other from the very beginning, and then they see the best and happiest side of each other. If the couple does not take into account the other party's experience and does not strictly restrain themselves, then the final result must be from the beginning of the attraction to the end of the boredom, or even not to look down on it and cause the love to break and the relationship to end.

Differences between the two sides are inevitable in their daily coexistence, so it is a communication skill to communicate with each other more, tolerate each other, and tolerate each other. After the problem occurs, don't be impulsive, and after being sensible, the two should take the initiative to communicate, solve difficulties and resolve contradictions. Couples, especially girls, always feel that everything they do is for each other's good, but they are not recognized by boys, and they feel that you are not good to me.

After a long time, resentment will erupt one day. People are not sages, everyone has big and small problems, defects, people are not sages, we must be more considerate and tolerant of each other's shortcomings, as long as there are no problems of principle, don't worry too much, pay attention to details.

Another reason for the split relationship is that there is no common goal and is too selfish. Couples have their own living interior space, and at their own work, different types of pursuit of perfection are normal, but to ensure that the heart is to think together, and the ultimate goal pursued by each other is to enter into a happy marriage and daily life. If the lover only thinks about what kind of life he can live in the future, and does not take into account the needs of the other party, is arrogant, and insists on going his own way, then it is unlikely that the time of knowing each other will last long.

In fact, the discomfort after a breakup is inevitable. It doesn't matter if it's the one who proposes it or the one who gets broken up. In fact, you have also analyzed the situation of this relationship, and you understand the reason why you don't want to be with him, that's good.

You know how to stop losses, but it's just that you're inevitably sad right now. Obviously, the breakup I mentioned would be so painful.

Maybe the two people are not suitable, or the parents don't agree, or it may be that the door is not right, and there will be some related problems.

I don't think two people can walk together, not because they don't love each other, but because they can't find a way to get along or leave each other to live a better life.

Only in the limited youth, when the love you longed for came by chance, when you didn't have time to really give the right thing you should give, you were infected by the unreliable promises she gave you, what a good excuse, will the vase have feelings. Will there be an end to desire, can youth come again, you harm more than one person's happiness.

You underestimate her too much, and what she can get from you, she can also get from others, until her capital is gone.

Let her go, how pathetic she is.

Dear、、Since you know all this、、You just can't leave her、Actually, this is not a way、、You have to try to convince yourself、Let yourself understand that you have to leave、Because she is by your side like now、But the heart has already flown away、All that remains is a shell by your side、、Why bother? You're not having a good time, and you're worried every day about which day she's going to leave you. You see, there will always be such a day, it's just a matter of time or time, and you have to face it.

Now you just don't want to face it、No courage、、You're a boy、You have to have courage.。 I hope you will be happy.

me,too...Recently, he ignored me. Mulberry heart.

I've long seen that it's impossible for me and ta, because he told me who he likes. But I was reluctant to leave him, so I stayed as a friend and alienated my other good friends. I know it's fruitless.,And I'm tired.,But I still can't control myself.。。

I'll be there as soon as he needs my help.,But sometimes he is hot and cold to me.,I put up with it for a long time.,Not long ago, I couldn't stand it.,So I deliberately ignored him.。。 I thought he would look for me. But, now we don't have anything to say.

I'm looking for him again.,It's a little rusty.。。 Taking advantage of the holidays, I hope to forget about them without seeing each other. Why don't you find a new one?,Search for a girl who can make you feel good.,And then get acquainted.。。

I know your feelings very well, I once met the same situation as you, I knew that the result was no result, and it was useless to continue to struggle, wasting my youth and wasting her time. Finally texted her one night to explain, and then silently separated. If you're afraid that she won't have money to eat, you can give her 2,000 yuan.

I obviously understand, but I still can't let it go. Alas, it would be too pale to say any more comforting words. You can let go of the pain to the extreme, since you can't let go now, just wait for her to leave you.

Love has no self-esteem, people are cheap bones, the more you die and pester her, the more she annoys you, the more she looks down on you, the more she wants to leave you as soon as possible, it is better to let go as soon as possible, you will be very painful for the time being, but the long pain is not as good as the short pain, at that time you will feel that you will be very uncomfortable without her, but then you look back later, it is just a dream.

Let's separate first, calm down for a while, sometimes people don't know the preciousness of some things, only when they lose it! And then let's draw conclusions!

It's too soft-hearted, it's in your best interest to make up your mind early, why should you care about others? His life is not settled is his own business, he bears the consequences of his own hardships and should not let others bear them, in the final analysis, breaking up directly is the best way

Why do you let yourself fall into so many feelings when you know that there is no future? You should face the problem soberly, if you continue, what kind of problems will you face in the future? If you are separated, you have to have a good chat?

Don't let yourself hurt too much, society is very cruel, reality is very hurtful, calm down and accept all the uncertainties yourself.