Help, how can I continue this relationship

Ai, I tell you, love someone, no matter whether she has a boyfriend or not, as long as she is not married, you have the opportunity to love him, give him happiness, you know no, the woman you said is gentle, kind, and very good-looking, just this, there must be a boyfriend, not only do you like her, but there are many others, but you don't know ! If you love him, you have to give him love, don't lie to her, you have to move her with your sincerity, you have to tell her what you love her, if you don't say it, how does she know!! Believe me, I'll love him and say it (that's it).

Be a good friend! It's just a freshman, and there are a lot of uncertainties. I'm also a freshman, and I want to have a relationship without breaking up, but it's really hard. It takes the test of time.

If you really can't let go, you can continue to be nice to her, don't ask for anything in return, and don't report too many illusions, so as to avoid being hurt.

There is nothing wrong with love, don't feel guilty, love doesn't come is selfish.

I don't know if you've ever heard of such a sentence: Although the famous flower has a master, it must also loosen the soil! What's wrong with having a boyfriend?

I'm not married! What happens when you get married? You can still leave!

It's a joke from our roommate. If you are not confident that you can give her happiness, how can you believe that others can give her happiness?

For their love can not be given up.

Although she has a boyfriend, they are in a long-distance relationship, what her boyfriend can't do, you do it, silently impress her with real city and time, throw the choice to her instead of you, really love him and do everything he can, just ask for a clear conscience, and have no regrets in the future.

I don't think there is any need to insist on this relationship, since two people don't really like each other, and the relationship that is barely together will not be happy Two people will be very sweet during the relationship, and then to the positive result, the longer the marriage, the more "look at each other" situation. Is it really that you don't cherish it after you get it? I think the main reason is that falling in love is fundamentally different from getting married.

A certain quantitative change will cause a qualitative change. During a relationship, two people will have all kinds of sweetness. Because they don't need to worry too much, as long as the two of them are happy.

And after getting married, the shoulders of two people bear the responsibilities of two families. They can't just care about their own pleasure and entertainment. They have to think about the days to come.

They are responsible for providing for their families. It's like going from a child to an adult all of a sudden. The pressure on them in all aspects, such as the family's economic situation, the pressure at work, etc., will have an impact on the phenomenon of "looking at each other and hating each other".

Secondly, this is not a special phenomenon, only certain families will have it. On the contrary, it is a common phenomenon. The two went from lovers to husband and wife.

The longer you live, the more friction and collision you will inevitably have. Over time, there will be a false impression of hating each other. In fact, they have long been inseparable from each other.

That's probably what people often call the "seven-year itch".

I think everything is most likely to be under pressure, why don't you find a time to talk about it and get to know each other better. Make appropriate recent life changes. Let the unchanged life become colorful, which will also alleviate the situation of "seeing each other and hating each other" to a certain extent.

It is more important for two people to learn to understand and tolerate each other, so that life will be easier.

Last night, I read a message from a strange friend in my private mailbox.

Said that she was off the list before the arrival of the new year.

Then she said: Actually, I couldn't get out of the sense of loss after breaking up with my ex for a long time.

I struggled for a long time, and I didn't put it down until later.

And I often feel that it may be difficult to like someone again as much as I like him.

But then this person appeared, and I suddenly realized that he was the one I had been waiting for.

He can make me go out of his way to like it, and he can give me just the right amount of security.

Be able to be yourself completely, and you won't have to suffer from gains and losses all the time like before.

In fact, many people don't understand in their relationships.

Because I haven't seen anything good, I always thought that the person in front of me who kept disappointing me was the best one.

A good relationship should be when two people are willing to keep getting closer to each other.

Even if you are the insecure person who is prone to gains and losses at the beginning, he will fill your sense of security, and you are willing to trust him more.

Therefore, liking should be peace of mind and certainty.

It is to be able to be yourself in front of him, whether it is a quarrel or an occasional disappointment, so as not to be in a hurry.

Because you know in your heart that none of this affects his love for you.

How can being with someone be supported by disappointment and sadness?

Of course, I also know that there is no way to like someone, but one day you will have to let go of your disappointment when you have saved up enough.

Don't always feel as if it's hard to like someone again.

It was as if there was nothing left without him.

What you thought you couldn't wait for, what you couldn't get over, didn't you just cross over and wait?

You used to think that with a popsicle in your hand it was summer.

But I didn't know that there was not only popsicles in summer, but also milk tea, watermelon, a touch of coolness at dusk, and stars in the sky at night.

Once the popsicle melts, throw it away.

There is something better waiting for you.