How do I chat to find a topic? Are there any tricks?

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When facing strangers, if you want to talk happily, you can start by looking for safe topics, which are relaxed, respectful, and life-like topics, so that the other party can talk and are willing to talk.

Chatting can also find well-known topics, such as sports, work, diet, life pressure, etc., and even talk about a certain social phenomenon, talk about a person's opinions.

Start with something the other person is familiar with, such as their hobbies.

Only by understanding the other person's interests and hobbies can you further look for topics.

2。You can ask some open-ended questions for the other person.

The questioning technique is: ask open-ended questions.

For example, don't ask "are you something", such a question is often after others have a yes or no, and then they will fall into a state of silence again.

So ask "what do you think", such a question, firstly, the other party can express their own opinions, so that they have something to say, and then you can also know the other person's opinion on something, so as to find a topic of mutual interest.

3。Disclose your interests and preferences appropriately. You want to talk to someone and they'll look for it at the same time.

You can talk about topics you like, so you can say what you like appropriately, so that while you are looking for a topic, others will cooperate with you and find a topic you like to communicate with.

You can start with a topic such as who and where to go, and then try to find a topic that is of interest to both parties, such as football! Movie! Wait a minute!

Bring a little smile and give the impression of being relatable, so that the conversation between you will be very pleasant.

Before you talk, observe the situation of the person you are talking to, and try to guess first, such as age, occupation, etc.! This will help you find topics that are of interest to both parties!

There is also the right time, when you both have the desire to talk, the topic is easier to find, a book, a pen can lead to the topic, and the conversation can naturally turn to another topic. However, you also have to observe whether the other person has a desire to talk.

This is related to personal interests and hobbies, if your interests and hobbies can be a little broader, pay more attention to the news, etc., and chat with more topics, and then overcome your introverted personality, you can participate in more social activities such as parties, K songs, etc., and gradually cultivate your social skills. It can be a little difficult at first, so start with your friends.

If you like it, it's best to understand her preferences first, after all, every girl is different, everyone has something they are interested in, it depends on the person. If it's the first time you meet and you don't have any contact with each other, you can try to focus on yourself, such as your own preferences, etc., and then you are asking her, little by little.

How do I find a topic when chatting?

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Here are some tips for finding topics in chat:

1.Focus on the other person's interests: Ask them about their interests and interesting things that happened to them.

2.Chat accompaniment: If you and the other person are familiar with each other, you can talk about what's happening around each other and encourage the other person to talk about it, so that the communication is coherent.

3.Customer focus: If you're not familiar with each other, you can find common ground by asking each other about their aesthetics, travel anecdotes, or taste preferences.

4.Light-hearted humor: Proper humor always leads to a good atmosphere for communication. You can ask some humorous questions, or divide the scumbags to enjoy some funny things.

5.Try new things to do: New areas that people are good at or interested in will go a long way in extending your conversations. Changing the topic or introducing a completely new concept can breathe new life into the conversation from a new perspective.

The bottom line is that the purpose of the chat is to keep you and the other person engaged in a refined conversation, so it's best to choose topics that align with the other person and take the appropriate orthogonal approach to evaluating the problem. <>

First of all, you must have self-confidence, no matter who you talk to, because only self-confidence can make you more appropriate and self-defeating to say what you want to say.

Find your resonance around her interests and hobbies. Before chatting with a girl, you need to understand her interests and hobbies, such as singing and dancing, traveling, etc., and then tentatively chat about one or two topics that you know about her interests.

Listen, and once you're on the topic, listen carefully to what she has to say; You can learn what she desires, hates, and cares about, as well as her attitudes and values towards things. Ask questions, find the right time to ask questions, and in the process of asking questions, you need to be flexible and continue the topic or new topics according to the actual situation.

Communication skills

If she has a cheerful personality, all you have to do is listen more; If she is an introvert, you can find something that you are good at when you ask questions to pique her interest. Go with the flow, it's actually a very simple, ordinary conversation, so that the whole process becomes more natural, so that she doesn't feel pressured, she will talk more, so that your chat will become smoother.

Pay attention to eye contact when communicating, you can judge what kind of topic the other person is more interested in based on the other person's eyes, and if the other person is distracted or looking around, you can change the subject. Share in moderation, and don't mention some personal details. Avoid long self-descriptions, and if you want to tell a story, try to keep it short, preferably relevant to the other person's interests.

Demonstrate the ability to listen actively, maintain eye contact when the other person is talking, listen carefully, and don't get distracted.

Summary. Is it possible to start with the game you play, and then talk and say that you really don't look like your game in reality, then this must be ridiculous, and everyone knows that reality is very different from the game, so he may ask me why it is not like it? And then you can continue to talk about it, and you can continue to exaggerate some of the content a little more, showing your intelligence and humor, do you think it's okay to go in this direction?

It is advisable to consider the following directions:1If it is for boyfriends and girlfriends, or the opposite sex that you like, you can start with what they like to do, what they often do, and what they are interested in, so that you can understand their preferences and get closer; 2.

If you are talking to a stranger, you can introduce each other first, and then reply from some points that the other person wants to express.

Ordinary friend, just met, but he likes games, anime, and I also like anime and games, but I don't know how to chat, and the content of the chat seems to be humorous.

Can you give me a head start?

Did you think of it?

If it's humorous, can you tell me that he usually likes to chat and be humorous? Or do you want to use humor to lighten up the atmosphere? I need a direction, because humor or jokes can also have a lot of directions, and if you start with a nonsensical joke, the advice that doesn't fit may not work.

It's humorous to talk like that.

Is it possible to start with the game you play, and then talk and say that you really don't look like your game in reality, then this must be ridiculous, and everyone knows that reality is very different from the game, so he may ask me why it is not like it? And then you can continue to talk about it, and you can continue to exaggerate some of the content a little more, showing your intelligence and humor, do you think it's okay to go in this direction?

Then you can give me a start

I'm sorry I went offline just now, so I simply said, "What game do you usually play?" Online or standalone? How many levels? Do you want to be equipped? Team up? When there is a shortage of people, you can pull me to ...... together”

Chat to find a topic can do this:First of all, you can find a topic from the form of a girl, for example, "You have lost weight recently". This is something that many girls like to hear, even if everyone knows that you are telling a lie, but girls are still very useful.

Everyone likes to listen to good words, and that's much better than saying, "You've gained weight again." Then you can say "your clothes are so beautiful", and if the clothes are really not good, you can say "this dress is really special", "you look good in whatever clothes you wear", and so on.

Communication and chat skills:1. Speak up: Especially be honest about your inner feelings, feelings, pain, thoughts, and expectations.

2. Don't criticize, don't blame, don't complain, don't attack, don't preach: on the contrary, it will only make things worse and become the executioner of the chain of repentance.

3. Mutual respect: Only by giving each other respect can there be communication, otherwise it is difficult to communicate.

4. Never speak ill words: Bad words hurt people, which is the so-called "disaster comes from the mouth".