Why exactly do we grow up? How did we grow up?

I used to grow up scared and even rejected, I wanted to be a carefree and innocent child, I didn't want to understand a lot of truths and I didn't want to take much responsibility, I'm now more than 26 years old, and some people still recognize me as a student, even a high school student. My boyfriend said that there were no traces of life or age on my face, but now I met my boyfriend. So I want to grow up a little bit, I don't have to grow up too much, I just need to be able to love him better, and ah the most important thing is that my parents are getting older day by day, if I don't grow up, then who will they rely on in the future.

I still don't want to grow up, I don't want to understand too many truths, but I want to grow up to be able to take on the responsibility of supporting my parents and loving them well.

Because there is more pressure, responsibility, responsibility, risk, and desire. These needs cannot be met by us in childhood, so we must grow up. It may be to make you strong enough to accept all the storms in the world.

Don't be surprised to see the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, and go to stay and have no intention of looking at the clouds in the sky.

When you grow up, you have to be responsible, and this is to be responsible for yourself. Be sure to take responsibility for yourself, if you can take responsibility for your body, life, work, and psychology, etc., you will grow up. We must not rely on others, or have the idea of relying on others, the only thing we can rely on is ourselves, this is your own life and time.

This means that we ourselves can be the masters of ourselves in 80% of the sense, become our own masters, grasp and decide our personal destiny, in other words, you can decide your personal destiny, your parents, your wife and children, friends, these people who know you, the people you care about, etc.

No one wants to grow up, but life forces everyone to grow up! Growing up is a painful process of transformation, you have to go through something, explore experience from pain, and find hope from failure! But all this is not an excuse to defeat yourself, because you still have to live, so, force yourself to grow up!

When we grow up, we have more responsibilities and less joy, but we also have to find happiness from life and bring joy to the people around us, which is growth!

Growing up means being independent, being independent means that you have to take on your own responsibilities, in society, there is no adult who does not need to take responsibility, but accordingly you will get what you want, get what you deserve. When you grow up, you have to be independent, and when you are independent, you can do whatever you want (fake, you still have to abide by moral laws), you can play your role in this world to the fullest, and realize your dreams!

The meaning of growing up is that you can do what you want to do on your own, and be able to bear the corresponding results. Why do people grow up? Because people need to pursue their dreams and be able to realize their self-worth through themselves. Become your own dependence.

A naïve person who wants to give the best fantasy to the person he loves the most. Growing up, I hope to be late, a little later, when I am late enough to make the person I love happy, and then sit with her face to face on a real Ferris wheel, accompanied by prepared fireworks, tell her to come back, one side is two wide, but there is no peace without you; Everyone likes it, but it's just a passing glance except for you.

Who would want to grow up if they could be well protected all the time and get what they wanted at any time. But the hero who protects us will always grow old, and one day we will need to protect her. So, I had to grow up.

Summary. When I was a child, I was born with a calf and thought I was the center of the world. After watching the cartoon, I began to imagine my superpowers in my mind.

He is the king of the toy kingdom and the clever ghost in the children's pile. Jumping up and down every day, you can giggle and laugh with your friends all day long. But in that childhood that I am very nostalgic for now, I was bent on growing up quickly, because I felt that growing up meant freedom.

At that time, the freedom in my eyes was probably to be able to have all the toys I wanted, not to be forced to go home when I was having fun with my friends, and not to go to school when I didn't want to...

How did we grow up?

When I was a child, I was born with a calf and thought I was the center of the world. After watching the cartoon, I began to imagine my superpowers in my mind. He is the king of the toy kingdom and the clever ghost in the children's pile.

Jumping up and down every day, you can giggle and laugh with your friends all day long. But in that childhood that I am very nostalgic for now, I was bent on growing up quickly, because I felt that growing up meant freedom. At that time, the freedom in my eyes was probably to be able to have all the toys I wanted, not to be forced to go home when I was having fun with my friends, and not to go to school when I didn't want to...

Later, I became a little more sensible, began to understand the hard work of my parents, and began to silently bear the expectations of others. It was also at this time that I began to discover that there are really people in this world who have "superpowers", but that person is not himself, but those who can take the first test every time, those who are good students every year, and those who can get full marks on difficult test papers......Yes, my previous thoughts were naïve, could I be the center of the world? Later, I slowly sprouted a lot of my own ideas, and I began to have my own dreams——— to be admitted to a good university, to become a rich man, to stand on the big stage, ......

After listening to a lot of inspirational chicken soup, I really firmly believe that "there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts", and I feel that as long as I work hard, everything can be successful. "Successology" teaches us not to be mediocre, but it never teaches us how to succeed in the end, or even fails to give"Success"Under the appropriate definition of the two words, on the road of growing step by step, in fact, who of us is not crossing the river by feeling the stones? After all, everyone's success is not replicable.

The journey of life is like this, with a lot of time to get lost, and grow in a few moments. ”

As we grow up, we may not become what we like as planned, but we should still look forward to the future and love life more lovingly.

Glad for your question, I wish you a happy life and all the best!