Why is it harder for us to say Mom and Dad, I love you as we grow up?

When I grow up, I feel more and more that it is not easy for my parents, and I feel hypocritical to say that I love you, and it is <> to really love my parents when I do it

Because when I grow up, I understand: I love you in words, but I don't help you in action, is it true that I love you? For example, in Western family relationships, Chinese only think that you are really good to me after seeing a person's actual actions.

It's a sign of IQ. In addition, some favors can not be repaid by just saying thank you, but can only be repaid by practical actions, and saying thank you is far away.

It's too familiar with them, it's the same as your friend, your wife, after a long time, you take a lot of things for granted, and you won't bother as much as you did at the beginning, for our parents, we become more accustomed to it, so as we get older, in the end, we take a lot of things that our parents do for granted, and we won't be grateful at all. For parents, two days ago on Mother's Day, I saw a sentence: "Don't post these second-class goods in the circle of friends, usually say a few words, just be less angry with them."

I hope that the children of the world will be more kind to your parents and learn to be grateful!

Because you have someone you love more, such as lovers, such as children, your love for your parents is more subtle and introverted, which translates into strong family affection. Also, traditional Chinese culture also lacks this kind of expression of calling your parents, so don't be reluctant to make it difficult, just like a good friend, a true confidant does not need to be expressed in words. And if you want to say "I love you" to your parents, you can express it at the ceremonial moment of birthday and festival to make them happier.

You say yes, right?