How important is a quality homeschooling?

A good family education is responsible for oneself and others. I think that children with good family education must have good popularity, and everyone likes such people very much.

Children with good home education are very good at talking and doing things, which makes people like. In the past, in the class, I liked a girl very much and thought she was very comfortable. I tried my best to play with her, we became good friends, and the first time I went to their house for dinner, I was both nervous and excited.

When I went to her house, I found that there were a lot of books in their house, Chinese and foreign classics, and a large bookcase. There is a study room, which is neatly arranged on the desk, which is pleasing to the eye. Her mother is beautiful and has a comfortable voice, and her father is a little serious, but not very reserved.

At the dinner table, she is a little strict, just try not to speak, eat and sleep, may be one of her tutors. She said things in a much similar way to her father, not much, but to the point.

Described like this, it seems that her family is a very strict family, but in fact, I think it is a scholarly family, and she has been strict with her children since she was a child, so she can cultivate a serious attitude towards children. Indeed, my friend has very good grades and is very good at teaching others, and playing with her, my grades have gone up more than one level.

A good home-schooling can cultivate a child's perseverance, and I think this is the case with my friend.

There is also a good friend, her personality may not be as stuffy and cold as the one before. She is a lively and cheerful girl, and she is very popular in the class, so she is everyone's leader, and she can respond to every call. I've heard her describe that her parents at home dot on her, but as long as it comes to matters of principle, they will be strict with her.

You can get bad grades, but you can't cheat on exams, you can not complete tasks, but you can't lie, you can do less, but you have to do everything well, etc. His parents believe that children should be disciplined from an early age, and these details of life are cultivated from an early age.

I have to say that my friends have a high-quality family education, and such children have a special temperament that can attract people around them.

I think it's still very important, although it is said that boys should be free-range and free-range when they are young, but a good family education is indeed cultivated from an early age.

That's why sometimes we think that maybe some people in the West are more gentlemanly and look particularly urbane in some public places. And many of us are either making loud noises in public or eating in the subway to affect others. In fact, these are all because I didn't receive a certain amount of family education when I was a child, so I grew up and didn't have a certain binding force on some of my behaviors.

For example, some people will slurp when they eat, and this kind of behavior should actually be stopped from an early age and strictly educated, so that when they grow up, they will not have such a habit. If you want to correct it when you grow up, some of them will be difficult. Another example is that some people usually like to litter, and this habit is also caused by the lack of education and connivance of parents since childhood.

If you teach your child from an early age that garbage should be thrown into the trash can, I believe that when he grows up, he will continue such an excellent education. In this way, there will not be a situation where a concert is over and there is garbage everywhere.

Of course, there is also eating, and it is hard to save food. Take as much as you want, don't be greedy and take a lot of it, and end up not being able to eat it. This is why many people may go to the cafeteria and take a lot, but in the end they can't eat it and waste it, which is particularly bad.

Knowing that he doesn't have such a big appetite, he still has to eat so much, but he can only throw it away and waste it.

These habits are actually caused by not having a good education when I was a child, so I think high-quality family education is very important for children's growth. It is said that the three-year-old looks old, so the education of children must not be neglected.

Family education is the first kind of education that children receive after birth, and has an extremely important role in children's values and behavioral habits.

Some children have an arrogant personality and are very impolite to others, so they are said to be uneducated, which is the problem of parents' education methods. Nowadays, since most children are only children, and all the efforts of parents are put on one person, there are many arrogant people. When I was in high school, I had a roommate who fought with my parents and was always the same as an enemy, and I went to the Three Treasures Hall for nothing, and only when I had no money at the end of the month, I would beat my family**, and I was also an extreme individualism in the dormitory, hoping that everyone could accommodate her.

Although we don't say it, we understand it in our hearts. is like the TV series "Honeysuckle Rose" that I watched with my mother recently, the arrogant rose slowly made Zhengding, who originally liked her, farther and farther away from her, and Honeysuckle's gentle and kind temperament won the love of everyone, which shows that a person's family education is reflected everywhere in a person's growth process.

The son is not filial, and the father is at fault. Parents' education for their children is always invisible, imperceptibly infiltrating. A survey in the United States once showed that children who grow up in families where their parents often quarrel are more likely to be violent than children who grow up in peaceful families.

When educating children, parents should not teach each other with sticks, but more to let them understand some truths. Nowadays, there are big problems in the education methods of many parents in the family, and these things need to be continuously improved for the better growth of children.

Family education is an inseparable and important part of the entire education system, and it has a bearing on the improvement of the overall quality of the Chinese nation and the healthy growth of children and adolescents.

The importance and significance of family education, people's education begins at birth, family education is the first education of children, and it is also a good education content that children should receive when they are young. Let's learn about the importance and significance of family education.

The importance and significance of family education

Family education is an inseparable and important part of the entire education system, and it has a bearing on the improvement of the overall quality of the Chinese nation and the healthy growth of children and adolescents. Family education refers to the social activities in which parents consciously and consciously follow the requirements of society for cultivating talents, and carry out social activities that have a certain educational impact on their children through their own words and deeds and family life practice.

Therefore, the role of parents in the family is very important, they are the first and lifelong teachers of the child. The quality of parents has a direct impact on the degree to which parents support their children's education and the work of the school. Good family education is the cradle of children's growth, the foundation of school education and social education, and a supplement to school education.

Being a man is the foundation of life, and good quality is the foundation of success. However, in many student families, parents only pay attention to their children's learning and academic performance, and ignore the cultivation and improvement of children's abilities in all aspects, especially ideologically, which seriously affects the healthy growth of children.

The "four learnings" that young people should have in the first century are learning to learn, learning to survive, learning to develop, and learning to get along with others. Children are the flowers of the motherland, and they are the endless reserve force of the nation. Froebel said:

The fate of the country is not so much in the hands of those in power as in the hands of the mother. This sentence vividly illustrates the importance of home education. Parents should establish a sense of the overall situation, so that children can understand that "the rise and fall of the country is the responsibility of the husband".

2. Good family education cares for children's spiritual world.

As children grow older, worldview values are constantly improving. Children will emerge from the ivory tower that their parents have built for them and be exposed to the more complex world outside. The truth, goodness, beauty and false ugliness in society will also bring more intuitive feelings to children.

Children are mentally immature, and family education is particularly important. For the inevitable social ugliness, parents should give timely guidance, not blindly evade, to improve their children's ability to discriminate, but also to pay attention to their own words and deeds at any time, set an example. As the old saying goes:

"Qi family, governing the country, and leveling the world" means that only when the family is good, the country will be more prosperous.

1. The most prominent feature of enlightening family education is its enlightenment. As the saying goes, parents are their children's first teachers. The character habits that children develop are closely related to the family, and the quality of the family environment will even affect the child's life.

Family education plays a fixed role in the physical and mental development of children, and there is a line in the movie "Baby Plan": "Three years old sees a lifetime" is said to be this truth. It is from the family that children first establish their own vague worldview and values.

When accepting new values, they always compare them with their own concepts and selectively receive and contrast, so as to establish new values, which can be vividly called the "filter" of thought.

Second, the education of authoritative family environment has a far more important impact on children than school education and social education. For children, parents are undoubtedly elders. Therefore, children must have respect and dependence on their parents.

In addition to caring for their children, parents also have some social responsibilities and are recognized by the public for their work, which makes children have a sense of adoration for their parents. With such a mentality, children will subtly trust their parents, accept their parents' suggestions and persuasions, and develop in the direction that their parents want.

3. Infectious.

Joy is shared with others, joy is doubled, difficult things are shared with others, and pain is halved. Homeschooling is the most emotionally contagious. A person's joys, sorrows, and sorrows will also be transmitted to the people around them and resonate with them.

Education, as a special culture, also has a subtle impact on people. There is a family relationship between parents and children that is thicker than water, and the emotional experience between them and their children is of course all the time. Parents' interests and habits often determine their children's behavior, so when educating their children, parents are more exemplary and exemplary.

Fourth, distinctiveness.

Compared with social and school education, family education is more distinctive. When a child is born and grows up, parents can be said to be with each other all the time, have the most opportunities to contact with their parents, and spend the longest time together, so only parents can "read" their children in an all-round way. Because children trust their parents, they can express their personality more unreservedly in front of their parents, which also helps parents understand their children comprehensively.

In this way, family education has highlighted its own unique characteristics: seeking truth from facts, prescribing the right medicine, having a definite purpose, and teaching students according to their aptitude, so as to carry out a dedicated education. The problem manifests itself in a relatively timely manner and can be controlled relatively effectively.

As a result, family education is flexible and variable.

Of course, compared with social education and school education, family education has its advantages and favorable conditions, but it should also be noted that it inevitably has shortcomings and limitations. This aspect is mainly fragmented, but it will never hide its importance. Parents need to continuously observe their children's strengths and weaknesses and educate them in a timely manner, so as to help cultivate children's good personality charm, quality and ability.

Parents are role models for their children. While discussing the responsibility of parental education, we should also see the role of role models as parents. It is said that parents are children's first teachers, so where are the responsibilities and identities of our teachers?

Reflected in the role of role models for children, children in infancy and early childhood are an important stage of cognition, consciousness and other formation and development, and the edifying role of parents is extremely important.

The shaping effect of the family environment on the child. Meng's mother moved three times, moved to the external environment, and became also an internal family environment. The atmosphere has a great influence on a person, and under a good family atmosphere, the shaping of children can be more perfect.

It is related to the psychological development of the child. Parents who quarrel often have low self-esteem in their children; Children who are not praised lack trust and security in their hearts, which shows that family education is related to the development of children's psychology and affects their lives.

How a family educates its children is related to their future development direction, affecting the child's ability to behave in the world, educating children is a lifelong philosophy, and the study of this homework should start from the family atmosphere.

There is a saying in the education circle: family education is the penetration of personality, and what you are, what kind of person your child is. The reason why this sentence has been recognized and circulated is because children are at the peak of their imitation ability from 0 to 12 years old, and the people they have the most contact with and closest are their parents.

Their parents' attitudes, behaviors, and ways of looking at things will be imprinted in their subconscious and affect their lives unconsciously. After the age of 12, children already have a relatively clear "self", and they will form their own preliminary judgments about the outside world. This kind of judgment, if they have received a good family education before this, will give them a clear bottom line of behaving and doing things, and they will not be affected by others or the environment.

In other words, a good family education lays the foundation for the child's good personality, and the child is not bad. Tsai Yingqing, a best-selling author of parent-child books in Taiwan Province, also said in the book "Mom is the Eternal Teacher" that if parents in family education do enough to do well, even if the child is given up by the teacher, he will not really lose the opportunity.

Therefore, from the perspective of the influence and construction of children's personality base, the impact of family education is greater.