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1。Twice I heard that he had talked seven or eight times before; What should you do if you think about this, and leave this aside? On two or three occasions he showed intimacy with the female officers in the same department in front of me, and on one occasion he said that he was talking to a lot of people. What does this mean?
Good social relations).
2。I'm not a beauty at first sight, but I'm tall and temperamental. Strong work ability, outstanding talent, is a strong woman type. Usually it feels cute but mature. But why does he attract him if he is not pretty? I'm not confident about that!
Women are pleasing with their bodies, and women are pleasing with their thoughts).
3.I didn't want to be active anymore because I didn't want to be active anymore, and now I'm more passive and often refuse his invitations. Many people say that they can't see through him, he looks warm and sunny but tells me that he is introverted, he is very deeply disguised, usually talks to me and doesn't care about joking, only twice when chatting at night to reveal a real and serious side, but soon became a fool again.
How do I stop him from pretending to me?
People who know how to socialize must have a hypocritical side, and the real side is very fragile.
Let him trust you without pretense)
4。I don't want him to let go, I want it to go on smoothly and preferably come together. But he didn't mean to confess, and he wouldn't give me a gift. Is it prudent or hesitant not to speak? How can I deal with him appropriately without being too reserved and cheap, and at the same time facilitating the progress of the relationship?
Give him something hinty or special"Rewards"Encourage him to continue).
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Hehe, friend, do you think there is such a practical thing|??
Do you know him? His appearance? Working?|Do you really understand?
I think if you want to be with him, you have to get to know him first, and then decide on something else.
Otherwise, there will definitely be problems in the future...
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Take the initiative. But I advise you to let it go, the Capricorn man has no heart and no lungs!!
Especially for feelings!!
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Hello dear friends;
The most difficult thing for people is how to learn to give up, giving up is not a simple abandonment and escape, but a rational choice, every choice means a pain, because the choice will be lost, people in their lives are always constantly choosing, keep giving up, only give up, we can find the real life opportunity that belongs to us, in order not to miss the people waiting for us at the next intersection, in order to get out of the past and no longer indulge, fate sometimes must have, life is always not forced, in order to be happy in life. Although every choice is accompanied by pain and regret, after experiencing these, we know how to cherish, know how to take responsibility, learn to make trade-offs, understand the true meaning of life, and make our lives more fulfilling.
If we can't be happy or give him happiness, then we have to learn to give up, and giving up itself is a kind of happiness, a kind of love, a kind of beauty. Only by learning to give up can we find true happiness!
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If you don't love someone, let go so that others have a chance to love her.
If someone you love has given up on you, let go of yourself so that you have the opportunity to love others. There are some things that you like no matter how much you don't belong to you, and some things you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm.
Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never end well, you don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love him well.
The man cries because he really loves;
The woman cries because she really gave up.
If sincerity is a hurt, I choose to lie;
If a lie is a disservice, I choose silence;
If silence is a hurt, I choose to leave.
If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay;
If confusion is suffering, you will not choose to end;
If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?
If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide in?
A lot of things came to a later view, and a lot of things didn't feel bitter at all, but I couldn't find the way I came.
There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but it cannot be said.
There is a kind of love that I want to give up, but I can't give up.
There is a kind of love, which I know is torment, but I can't open it.
There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart has long been unable to get it back.
I cried the moment I decided to give up on you, and my tears proved that I really loved.
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In fact, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is more painful to fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, loving a person does not have to have, but having a person must be cherished. What to do, let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and possession, let go of the burden and move forward lightly, get out of the sea of suffering out of danger, turn around and leave at the moment when the tears fall, don't let yourself be hurt, why hang on a tree without sweetness, no happiness, no happiness, people don't love you, then, how to tie up with others, the twisted melon is not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem, self-love, lose your personality, and indulge in pain, why bother?
It's not interesting, love is two-sided, it's not wishful thinking that there will be results, meeting is the destined fate of life, you can't force it, you will get it only if you lose, and those who refuse to lose your luggage will never swim to the other side. Be strong, have confidence and courage, look for someone who really loves you and what you love, which will comfort the wounds of your soul, make up for the shortcomings of your soul, and let you have and cherish it. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will be a better relationship waiting for you.
At the very least, you will not live in sorrow, and you will find your own paradise, your own sweet, happy and happy life.
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Friend. : This must help, this answer will tell you how our minds work! You are your own best psychiatrist, you have to be happy and want to prescribe.
First of all, I wish you a happy mood every day, you must have a good mood, and the whole world will be happy in 2009! I am honored to communicate with you sincerely and make you happy!! I hope it inspires you and makes you happy; People live in this world just to make themselves happier and happier.
Whether things are right or wrong, you should have your own unique thoughts and opinions, if you think it's worth it, you don't have to care about other people's opinions! If there is a problem in our life, we must communicate or vent with our close friends!! No matter what, we all have to live well; It's all good to be optimistic, and life has to go on!!
Therefore, the most important thing is to regulate the state of mind. Contentment, really!! First of all, let's relax yourself, have a balanced mind, and don't have too much burden on your heart!!
Don't always put unnecessary pressure on yourself, it's not cost-effective!! Life is short, to live is to live a day, happy day by day, and want to open a little !! Don't worry about yourself and yourself, the problems that can be solved by spending money are not problems!!
Don't complicate small problems, solve them right away if they are easy to solve!! It's not wrong to entertain yourself when you're fine, play hard, play and play!! Rediscover your childhood innocence and joy, even if it's just by recalling it in your head.
Usually pay attention to sleep, rest your body, listen to a little more relaxed**, everything is OK!! Life is beautiful, don't get lost, don't have the mentality of comparison. I still have so many people who love you, why shouldn't you be happy, there is no reason not to be happy!!
I wish you a happy day, life is beautiful, come on!! Life is not smooth sailing, everyone is, there is a rainbow after the storm, so it makes sense! Happy friends!
Keep your mind open!
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Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.
Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...
Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.
Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...
Start little by little every day, don't be delusional about what you can get now, because according to your description you don't have much chance at the moment, if you want me to say that what you can do now is gradually integrate into his life. You can be his good friend first, so that he may think of you if there is anything, according to what I said, women chase men compartment paper, even if he has a lot of people chasing, what can be easily obtained will not be cherished, or their love life will be very low, but you are different, once integrated into his life, let him get used to your existence, when he encounters decadence, depression, lovelorn or something, he will naturally slowly think of you, find your good, so that even if you are in a different place, no matter how far away you can not stop the spark of your love. To be honest, I'm a boy.,Many of my friends around me are talking to former classmates after going through various things in college.,Many of those who entered college speed dating broke up in less than a few months.,And then there are wounds.。。。 >>>More
LZ can start by having more contact with him, first let him know that you exist, and then show that you can attract him (of course, you need to know what type of girl he likes).
Send a funny or blessed text message once in a while, and slowly find an opportunity to chat, and it will be more convenient to chat after getting familiar with it, but don't be too direct.
I don't think you need to be skilled, do what I say, and your relationship will get deeper and deeper! >>>More
I used to engage in the Martial Arts Association, so I would like to make a few suggestions: >>>More