It s so hard and annoying to be a man, how hard am I to be a man?

Hello, this may be a kind of true expression of your helplessness about life's troubles, many people have experienced different things, but there are such and such troubles, troubles are inevitable in life, but you have to learn how to resolve, alleviate, face, recognize that troubles are the most important, don't expect others to relieve you of troubles, don't run away from troubles, don't be knocked down by the current difficulties, can't sit still, we have many ways to solve difficulties and troubles, know that it's difficult, but you have to act, Also, don't expect too much from life, so that you don't feel less disappointed in the people or things around you and have unnecessary worries. Oh, theoretically, everything depends on your own efforts, and there are usually less desires, less comparisons, and a balance of mentalityBe content and happy more When something doesn't go your way, you might as well find someone who believes in it to vent, listen to other people's opinions, and maybe you can get some useful inspiration.

Tomorrow is Sunday, it is recommended not to stay at home during the day to surf the Internet, first put your worries aside, make an appointment with friends to go outside for a walk and play, breathe in the fresh air, feel the atmosphere outside, I believe you will feel different when you come back. I hope mine is helpful and enlightening to you, and I wish you a happy and happy (* Open heart original.

Some things are simple to say difficult to say, I hope you can have a good outlook on life, don't worry about what to do when you encounter trouble, people are selfish. You just have to have the right conscience.

If no one has feelings, there will be no people's troubles!

Then you go to die, and when you are dead, you will have nothing to worry about.

People who are too upright are easy to say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing, and they still have to be a little tactful and flexible; There are some things that should not be said, and some things that should not be done, and you must know how to grasp them.

Shut up what you shouldn't say; What should not be done, stand by and watch; If you should say something, you should also leave some bottom, and you should also leave some strength for what you should do.

You must know that people's hearts are unpredictable, and not everyone likes your big grin and resoluteness.

People who are too kind are easy to be used and embarrassed, and they still have to be a little bit of heart and sharpness; Some people are worth it, some things are not okay, you have to know how to measure yourself.

Worthy people, do your best; What is not allowed is done in moderation; Desperate dedication and consistent tolerance will only make people feel taken for granted and gain an inch.

You must know that people's hearts are fickle, and not everyone knows how to be grateful and cherish.

People who are too soft-hearted are easily wronged and troubled, and they still have to be a little strong and tempered; Be ruthless when you should be ruthless, resist when you should resist, and know how to fight.

You must know that people's hearts are complex, and not everyone knows how to be considerate and understanding.

May we all be able to adapt to people's hearts, live a frank life, and spend the rest of our lives in peace.

Don't be sad, how to get yourself lucky:

1. Be measured, don't say harsh words, improve your self-cultivation, and don't lose your temper. Avoid being grumpy.

Full of losses, humble benefits". Words are the voice of the heart, and there is a price to be paid for talking nonsense, and when we hurt others with words, it is often like a nail on a tree and never disappears. To cultivate oral virtue is to cultivate one's own aura.

Only with good morals can we make good connections, and there will naturally be more blessings, so that we can take fewer detours and achieve more.

2.Have good thoughts, secretly do as much good as you can, be kind to others, and accumulate virtue and do good.

3.Be humble and polite, tolerant, respect everyone, don't compare, don't be a man, don't be too stubborn.

4. Honor your parents, and give priority to filial piety.

5.At the age of studying, you should study hard, knowledge can change your fate, and you should work hard at the age of work to contribute to society.

6. Cherish food, such as going to a buffet, try to eat as much as you want, cherishing food is cherishing blessings.

In fact, not only do you have such confusion and anxiety, but the vast majority of people are like this, in this case, you should still work hard to adjust your mentality, reasonably face the setbacks and difficulties in life, make yourself strong, and change step by step.

In fact, it is difficult for everyone to be a good person, and it is even more difficult to be a good person, so you don't have to worry about it, live how you should live, and be yourself so that others can see it.

It is not difficult to be a man, it is not difficult to be a good person, it is difficult to be a good person in life.

In fact, it is difficult for everyone to be a human being, as long as we think about things simply, it will not be so difficult.

Everyone is like this, it is difficult to be a man, it is even more difficult to be a good person, and it is even more difficult not to be a man.

It's not easy to be a good brother, so why be a good person, just be a bad person, so that others can't speak.

When I was young, I didn't think that when I grew up, I would know that it was difficult to be a man. No matter how good a friend is, no matter how good a relative is, sometimes they often make the other party feel guilty because of one thing or even one sentence. The more familiar you are, the easier it is to hurt, and it doesn't matter if strangers are not familiar, anyway, there is not much intersection between them.

The more familiar you are, the more apprehensive you are, in fact, it is very difficult to be a person, and there are few who can handle interpersonal relationships well.

There are always subtle places in the world. I didn't know it before, but I understood it when I grew up. For example, if you accidentally say a bad word to your uncle or aunt, maybe they will mind, even more so if it is an aunt or uncle, but if it is a grandparent, they will not care at all.

In fact, grandpa is much closer than uncle, not a little worse.

Especially when it comes to interests, many of them have fought and turned against each other because of this, which is mainly reflected in peer competition. I've seen fathers and sons fight over business.

There is also borrowing money, which is the most embarrassing problem between relatives and friends. In fact, it's hard to say, everyone has times of difficulty, and everyone has times of urgency. But there are people who borrow money and don't pay it back, you urge him, and he is still angry, in fact, there are such people.

There is also this situation, when your conditions are not good, it is actually difficult to borrow money, and relatives and friends will generally hide. Don't say I'm extreme, in fact, this social reality is very real. It's easy for a rich person to borrow money, but it's hard for a poor person to borrow money.

If you don't have money or strength, it's better to keep a low profile, and silence is not advisable, but it's better than publicity. Because you don't have much right to speak, when a person is not strong enough, few people will pay attention to you. When you're good enough, no one says anything.

As for what you went through, no one will see, people only care about the result.

There are also good intentions that are not rewarded, and good deeds are not appreciated by others.

It's really hard to be a human being. But as long as we are worthy of our hearts and do our best. Don't forget the original intention, respect others, treat others well, and others give back to us in the same way.

After all, the world is still beautiful. So we all have to be a good person.