What is life for? Is it the coercion of family and parents?

The question you are asking is so high-end that many theologians, psychologists, anthropologists, physicists, etc., have spent their entire lives studying this question, what is the purpose of human life......

But looking at your latter sentence, it is estimated that it is just the troubles of adolescence, so I will not talk about a lot of theories and truths, of course, for ordinary people, those are also close to bullshit.

As a passerby who has lived for nearly thirty years, I can only say that I live for happiness.

You're going to say you're not happy at all, well, then I'll have to say, you're talking bullshit.

From the moment you open your eyes, maybe you see the warm sunshine, maybe you see the cool weather, you go out, maybe you can see the beauty passing by, see the puppy fluttering sparrow, to the destination, maybe you can see the friend you like, or the person you admire......

On the way home, there is a beggar singing, maybe he sings well, if there is dinner when my mother makes what she likes to eat, she will enjoy a full meal at night, what dreams will he have at night? Do you dream of someone you like?

In fact, life is too simple, just a few decades, you can see all the ugliness every day, you can also enjoy happiness every day, see how you want to live, how you want to live, how you want to live, how you want to live. I met a younger sister who had several pamphlets about her happy words, photos and messages from friends, and I asked her how she had such a hobby of recording, and she said: I hope that when I am old, I can not regret my life, because I have collected a lot of happiness.

So, how do you want to live?

Life itself is a very tiring thing, but you have to learn to regulate your emotions, do something to make yourself happy, your parents are now forcing you to do something you don't like, because they have experienced too many things, and found the most beneficial way for you to survive in the future!

I feel like I'm living for myself. For the sake of the family, and ultimately for the sake of oneself.

The so-called family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and even the most complex problems must be faced.

At this time, you need to treat it with a normal heart and relax your mind. Don't worry about yourself, no matter how much you think about it, you still have to deal with it.

If you can, spread things out. Don't keep all your worries in mind, it will be tiring.

Hope you have fun every day.

It seems that this friend is angry at home, hehe, the parents' starting point is mostly good, they want to be good to their children, but their starting point is from their own point of view, it is indeed unacceptable, but as a child, it is not wise to do it, there will be a suspicion of unfilial piety, and the results are often unsatisfactory, some parents do not allow their children to have different opinions, the traditional concept of China is like this, you can take a weakened attitude, do not refute it first and do not accept it very much, at the right time, For example, when your parents are in a good mood, or you are reasonable, talk about what they forced you to do to see if there is a turnaround.

Between people, especially people who are close to each other. We must learn to empathize and be considerate. If we are them, we may also do something that you can't accept, only by understanding each other and communicating with each other, can we find a solution that is satisfactory to both parties.

I think the most important thing is to be happy from the bottom of my heart, just like myself, a teacher who has just started teaching, in fact, I hate teaching, but every time I see the eyes of students looking for jobs, I hear them call me teacher, and today I receive a Teacher's Day gift from a student, really, I will feel that what I choose has a unique meaning. There are many unsatisfactory things in life, don't always dwell on which ones are unsatisfactory, but find the precious things in life in the imperfections! And keep these impressions well!

If you want to open up, you must learn to laugh at life.

1.Find joy.

Although the journey of parenting is difficult, but the bitterness and happiness are firmly together, the child is innocent, enough to recall the memories of his childhood life Xiangzhen, the noisy parents for 30 years, but also need a junior to relieve boredom. Like the punches and kicks he has in the stomach now, they can make me happy; And all the creative inspiration he gave me was an intangible treasure. This kind of happiness cannot be bought by money.

2.Make up the memory.

If you are asked to recall now, you may only be able to recall the events after the age of 3, and the stories before the age of 3 can only be imagined by the oral narration of the parents, and the real situation can only be clear when you raise children in person, shouting "Raising children knows the kindness of parents". This kind of life memory can be considered complete, and it is more able to understand the hardships of parents along the way.

3.Overcome your fears.

When you still have a young and vigorous new generation in your family, you will suddenly feel that your youth has been extended. Material abundance cannot fill this spiritual void, and the period is mixed with sustenance, concern and hope.

4.Rapid growth.

The bitterness experienced by having children makes you truly aware of the change of identity, and both of you must learn to take responsibility, and you can no longer only look for romance and freedom like the world of two people, and maintain a stagnant psychological state. The new situation forces you to grow up quickly from a romantic person because you want to be a role model for your children.